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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #39, Mr. How Do I Meet You?
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #39, Mr. How Do I Meet You? GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #39, Mr. How Do I Meet You? It is said that with age comes wisdom. I wholeheartedly wish that were true all the time. Unfortunately, I have recently encountered someone who seems to not have reaped the benefits that his many years have offered him. I sometimes say to myself, "What kind of person would I be if I had not had the kinds of role models I had?" Then, I reaffirm the fact that I am an adult by saying, "No matter who helped me get to adulthood, the decision of who I am was, is, and always will be, my own. I believe the same applies to everyone. Today, I salute you, Mr. How Do I Meet You? A few days ago, in the breeding ground for "geniuses" known as the chat room, everyone was having a great time, goofing off, cracking corny, perverted jokes, and showing their asses, some in a more literal sense. That is when a gentleman-and I use the term loosely-came into the room. What set him apart from the rest was clearly his age, but it soon became clear that his seventy-three years on this planet made no difference when it came to propositioning a twenty-one year old woman. If you've done the math already, that's a fifty-two year difference. Needless to say, he was suddenly alone in a room full of people with no escape. Now, let me be crystal clear about what I'm saying. It wasn't his age, or his intentions that earned him this week's starring role in my blog. It was the fact that he made absolutely no effort to develop any kind of rapport with this young lady. He automatically assumed that, because she chose to show off her...ahem...qualities...on cam, that she would eagerly agree to meet him for some...well...try to use your imagination without losing your lunch. Again, let me clarify. My strong beliefs are that if you treat others, as well as yourself, with kindness and respect, at the same time never intentionally placing yourself or others in harm's way, then you should be allowed to do what you want. That is where I believe this man crossed the line. Although society quickly frowns upon the enormous age difference, it was his lack of respect that I disagree with. Even if she had stated clearly that she was looking for sex from any gentleman, no matter what his age, the least he could have done, in my opinion, would have been show that he was trustworthy. Instead, his words were, "How do I meet you?" That was it. Not a "hello", or "good evening" came from his direction. This post isn't meant to berate. It is meant to educate. I try to stray from making assumptions about people based on first impressions. However, I've had my own trust betrayed more times than I care to share. It is because of this, I believe, that I can figure out someone's intentions very quickly. So much can give them away. Their body language, their eye contact, the tone of their voice, and even the "vibe" that they give off can send up red flags that help me determine if I can trust them or not. In the chat room, it works a bit differently. It seems that some guys have a certain way that they phrase their intentions. It may be hard to comprehend that a simple typed post can speak volumes about someone, but it is true. That said, I still try to keep from assuming that I'm always right, even though first impressions are rarely wrong, but everyone lives their lives for their own reasons. Nothing they do has anything to do with anyone else. That is why I wish to say this to this week's "genius". People deserve two things in life. Love and respect. Not everyone is willing to give the former, but the latter is mandatory. I may seem a bit bias sometimes when it comes to my friends, but I have no problem with defending those who aren't ready, willing, or able to defend themselves, regardless of my personal acquaintance with them. I can be the kindest, most respectable person you will ever know, as long as mutual respect for me and others is shown. That said, I think you need help, and I am willing to do what I can. However, don't make the grave mistake of confusing my kindness for weakness. If you dare to think this is some kind of game, I suggest you pay attention to the pieces on the proverbial board. When you are surrounded by all those who oppose you, and you have no where to go, there's only one word to describe the end result. CHECKMATE. GLC |
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