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Does it make me Gay if I .....? (My Views on that Question)
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Does it make me Gay if I .....? (My Views on that Question) Does it make me gay if I have sex with a Transsexual? Labels, Labels, Labels. I don't like them but yet many find the need to label people based on their sexual preference. And i've been asked this question alot so I figured i'd write my thoughts about this controversial question. And wether you Agree or Disagree with me, I really don't give a Rats Ass. This is my perspective on the matter. Many people see Transsexuals as just Gay Men. And for those who think that way will say that Any man who has sex with a Transsexual must be Gay or should be considered Bi-sexual. (I so don't Agree & i will explain why soon enough). Now, let's start with the terminology on a few labels just so that there is no confusion. CD =(CrossDresser). A male who enjoys the wearing of clothes designed for the opposite sex.(Doesn't necessarily makes him a Homosexual.) DQ =no not Dairy Queen. (Drag Queen). A male Homosexual who dresses as a woman. TV =(Tranvestite). A person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification. Basically a gay male dressing up as a woman to have sex with men and have no desire to alter their body hormonally or surgically to become female. Ts = (Transsexual).A person who psychologically identifies with the opposite sex and may seek to live as a member of this sex especially by undergoing surgery and hormone therapy to obtain the necessary physical appearance (as by changing the external sex organs). We live our lives this way 24-7. Hermaphrodite = 1) an animal or plant having both male and female reproductive organs 2) something that is a combination of diverse elements. Now that you have been Educated. Hermaphrodites are born & their parents are faced with the decision to keep them male or female.And more then often do they choose the wrong gender for their . I'd like to say that I personally feel that I was born Female in the wrong body (a Birth Defect if u will) that I must correct. Now you know where my mind set is at...I will try to answer "THE" question best as i can explain it. Am I Gay if I have sex with you? I will break it down in 3 Categories of the men I deal with. TRULY STRAIGHT MEN. These men are men who are Just my friends. We do nothing sexual at all. I have many of these friends who I wouldn't dare try to seduce or harrass them to give me the cock. I Respect that they are Truly Straight. STRAIGHT MEN. These men are men who only do Women & Attractive Passable Transsexual women.They're not attracted to men & would never do anything sexual with MEN or men in wigs. And but for that fact,I consider them straight. Many of these men would only do me orally & sometimes anally. They want nothing to do with my member,they don't even want to see it. So why must these men be gay or even bi,if all they see is them fucking a females mouth or ass? To me,they are still straight. And those who would please me orally see me as a Female with something extra. My Ex's did it because they were in love with me & just wanted to please me. They didn't look at it as being gay or bi but rather being in love with someone & loving them for who & what they are. Love is a Powerful thing..it Conquers All.Even imperfections that I deal with. BI-SEXUAL MEN. These are men who have sex with Women,Men & Transsexuals. Many of you men claim that youre Straight.But I'm sorry,If you have sex with a male that looks & sounds like a male,then you are Bi-Sexual. Not that being Bi-sexual is a bad thing. Many of you get Defensive when I point this out to you which U shouldn't. Bi guys make Fun Boy Toys & Sex Slaves for me.. With that being said, Does it make you Gay or Bi if you have sex with me? To me....NO NOT AT ALL. Ok now I simply must talk about a few things that made me laugh & had left me confused. There are many Str8 men out there that likes to have things shoved in their asses.Finger,Dildos,Strap Ons & sometimes Transsexual cock. Does that make him gay? I Don't Think it does. At any rate, I was WebCamming in a Chatroom called Strap On Lovers... And this incredibly hot young male from the uk instant messaged me and we began to cam2cam. He thought I was Gorgeous. So here we are chatting and i assumed he knew I had a penis because at the time my screen name had Shemale in it. He talked about how he loved for a Female to use a Strap on on him. So i'm thinking to myself he has no clue what i'm packing between my legs. I assumed he wouldn't mind anyway because he see's me as a female on cam and it doesn't matter if it's a toy or my Hard Tool deep in him....However that was not the case. lol After showing him my breasts on cam I stood up and showed him My Real Life Throbbing,Pulsating Non Detachable Strap on in the Flesh. He nearly had a Heart Attack and got offended and that was the end of that. So you see,u would think he wouldn't have a problem with me but he did...so keep in mind different strokes for different folks. Respect that! And what is with all these Gay men who have profiles that say they are Bi-Sexual. But they have only Men on their friendslist. And when Women or Transsexuals email them they don't email them back?(U know who U ARE!) Can you say...GAY? As if saying that you're bi makes u seem more masculine. lol Truly Bi men would do women, men & Transsexuals. Also I have a problem with Married men & Men who have Girlfriends who cheat on their spouses with Gay men or Transsexuals unprotected. It is not fair to her..you are putting her at risk. So ladies be careful because you never know if your man is cheating on you with other men or Ts's. And same goes for you women cheating on your spouses you never know who Mr. Right Now has been sleeping with & it's not fair to your man that you bring any STD's back home to him. Let's Play Smart & Play Safe. Happy Humping All! P.S. If you're Straight guy curious about being with a Transsexual..Do Not, I Repeat Do Not email her and start off by saying...I've never been with a GUY before but ur Hot or I never thought about being Gay or Bi before but for you I would. I guarantee you won't get laid by her atleast I wouldn't give u the time of day,let alone a response. Or I never thought i'd be attracted to crossdressers or tv's...HELLO we aren't Cd's or Tv's..Big Difference.give us some credit! We don't play dress up. most cd's,DQ's & Tv's live their lives as men because it's easier to do things in public in their everyday lives as men and that's why they only dress up as women at night. We Transsexual Women live our lives as Females 24-7 despite the many obstacles we face daily. Give us atleast that much Respect! Walk a mile in my Shoes and you will understand my point of Views! Much Love & Aloha, Misstress McKayla. |
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5/23/2007 9:52 am |
It's so rare to find someone with the Same opinion as mine we should definitly talk sometime soon!!! CHEERSS To you
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5/23/2007 10:10 am |
way to go sunshine, you should be teaching class about human sexuality, clear concise and to the point. love the blogs, keep em up.
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5/23/2007 10:26 am |
Who cares if i have sex with you: it is my decision nobody else's business who i want to love.Women or transsexual different strokes for different folks.
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5/23/2007 11:31 am |
Thorough, elloquent, and to the point without pulling any punches as usualy McKayla. I look forward to reading more of your posts / talking with you in the future.
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5/23/2007 12:01 pm |
i am with u 100%.. gay men claim to be bi but when it comes down to it the thought of a naked female scears the shit outta them.. i love men.. all men.. love watching male on male.. who would anal is soo hot and raw.. i would really like to meet u tho.. u are the most beautiful female i have ever seen... u have everything i would look for in a female.. beautiful eyes, lips, body, mind and u got a lil extra gift... would love to talk to u more.. hit me up k.. lori
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5/23/2007 12:05 pm |
oh yeah and one more thing... married men or women who go out and fool around on ur loved ones.. do u think they will never find out? better to tell them and play safe then end up sorry cause u cane them something cause they thought u were faithful..hurts them more in the long run.. just be honest with them and if they choose then live with what they choose
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like always u r right.
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5/23/2007 1:44 pm |
I AGREE ALSO.
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5/23/2007 1:58 pm |
I agree with you, and I believe I wouldnt mind a blowjob from a transexual as fine as you.
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Your Da Bomb Mistress. Now if the rest of the world would listen, this would be a happier place.
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5/23/2007 2:43 pm |
Misstress, Once again you have hit the nail on the head! You really know your stuff Sister!! I am Bi sexual and a budding Transsexual. ->(I am starting to develope breasts,I'm a 40 nearly  I have come across some of the things that you have, I have even had an experience that you may not have had, I had a man leave when he found out that I had tits, not to mention the looks I get when I go out to do things,like shopping and paying bills. Keep up the great work Hun!! Stephanie P.S. I know that I need to change some things on my profile, I just keep spacing it off.
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5/23/2007 5:38 pm |
Well it not only seems you're beutiful but also very intellegent. I was having a similiar conversation with some "friends" (I have no other term to you for them) some time ago and I made some of the same points you make here, and what do you know they still think its gay. Looking at these comments I'm happy to find out I'm not the only one who sees Transexuals as a woman with something extra, and there is nothing wrong with it. The female is something to be admired in my view; no matter size, shape, or attachments; and you are no exception. 
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5/23/2007 5:40 pm |
My friend you're awesome and I wish I could see you in person just to blow your beautiful cock for being so straight and factual. I love it and I totally agree. Take care!
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5/23/2007 5:44 pm |
Just wanna point out that I'm not attracted to men but I'm attracted to t-ladies like you and straight women and I'm as straight as they cum and yes, I would have a relationship with one but I'm not gay! I hope this point is makes sense. Thanks guys.
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5/23/2007 7:05 pm |
Hey MM, Its kinda funny we touched on the same topic in such close proximity of time. I guess great minds think alike, huh...lafs...you, of course, covered the topic much more thoroughly than I and it was very informative to hear your thoughts on the subject. I greatly respect the courage all TS individuals possess to live your lives as openly and freely as possible despite the fact that so many ignorant "haters" abound. For a variety of reasons, I lived my early years in constant fear of others finding things out about me that I hoped to keep hidden. Most of my fears were unfounded. However, the fear of physical and psychological violence is a constant reality check because so many people still live in stupidity. Enough of the "downer" portion of my response. What I find truly amazing is that you have any exes, at all. It must because you have not found the one you're looking for, 'cuz I cannot imagine anyone who had won your heart ever letting that go willingly. Now for the "label" part of my story. If loving you makes me gay, then I'm gladly gay. If loving you makes me bi, bi I am. If loving you makes me straight, no arrow was ever straighter. As far as I'm concerned, if I'm loving you, label me lucky. Ciao sweetheart, Mike
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5/23/2007 7:39 pm |
misstress couldn't agree more. you hit it right on the head. LOL
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5/23/2007 7:55 pm |
Absolutely right on the money. Awesome write up Mistress, you always seem to know exactly how to word things. I truly enjoy reading your posts and look forward to coming to visit..
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5/23/2007 8:08 pm |
Well said Mistress..
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You are so Right On!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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5/23/2007 9:26 pm |
Great post Sweetie.
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5/23/2007 9:33 pm |
I say giving another human being pleasure and happiness and/or receiving from another should not be deemed inmoral. Look at the chatholic church they have covered up sexual abuse of very young boys from the male church leaders for centuries. Natural human affection no mater whome it's with is nothing short of being the best thing for the human race. So saying that, you churches, leaders,politicians,and all you problem causing haters keep your hate and missery to yourself. Ok now let us live happy and enjoy our short stay on earth! Damn was that a rant or what,I about had a orgasm.See you can even make a rant pleasurable,so what where we talking about?
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We both agree with you on that great question. Just havein lots of fun. Being free to do what ever the hell we want to do, no holds bar.
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Sweetheart, We luv your shows and luv that you have such realistic views on the world. You ARE one of the most beautiful WOMEN in our list. OUR regret is that we are so far apart and My regret is that I no longer have the body I had at 23, then maybe I could be your next conquest. Tim (of Beth and Tim)
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Thank you for your comments. I believe I agree with you as far as the labels go...not that labels are particularly useful sometimes....
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I agree with you. If a man does sex with you (i.e. he deos you anally), he should not be considered GAY, but if he wants you to do him anally by your tool then he can be termed as "Bi-Sexual".
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