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Blogs > misstressmckayla > Men Dealing with Fakes on AFF

To Cam or not to Cam?  

misstressmckayla 46G
608 posts
7/6/2009 11:26 pm

Last Read:
11/7/2011 10:16 am
To Cam or not to Cam?

This is a very touchy subject for me because this blog may have an effect on some of my friendships with those who disagree.

And if that is the case then they weren't good of friends to begin with and clearly aren't the friends i wish to have.

A great friendship is based on a great deal of your communication skills. Honesty and Trust.

But i feel the arguments and different point of views in a friendship is very much healthy. And if you can learn to ACCEPT that but most of all Respect that than your will have a Wonderful Relationship.

And with that I will say this... I will be DAMNED if someone tells me If,When and where I should CAM.

Untill you are paying ALL MY BILLS, only then will you be telling me what to do. And since you certainly didn't buy my computer and my webcam...guess what? I will WEBCAM, whenever,whereever and with whomever doing whatever I damn well please.

I am over the legal age to do so. Im not hurting anyone in doing so.

Ok so since i'm writing this much needed blog, I will put it all out there! Let's break this down.........right.

I chat in my local chatroom which I am a regular in.

It seems half of the room have a problem with people webcamming in it. and hopefully I will hit on all subjects and point of views with this one.

Majority of the time it's women having a problem with other women on cam. Calling them webcamsluts or Attention whores etc.

The main reason they use is "because they bring in all these Cam Directors and camtards."

It is not our fault these people come in the room to compliment our beauty. It is not our fault to control complete strangers who act like asses in the chatroom. We are not room monitors. We are not their parents. Use the ignore feature. If that doesn't work simply don't read what those idiots type. You may say those who webcam floods the chatroom with idiots.

But let's be real honest here people. To some degree isn't it because of jealousy? Every woman in that chatroom likes the attention of men. Those who don't have webcams love the compliments and praises on their pics otherwise why would you make them provocative? To get attention. Duh
So the sooner we can admit that you're a tad jealous when women get all the attention on cam the sooner you can get over it.

You are fighting a loosing battle.

I know personally if someone doesn't want me to webcam the more I'd want to. Thus making me webcam more than usual.

Oh and another thing, why is it such a double standard?

You women bitch about other women being on webcam. However I see alot of you women complimenting hot guys with hot bodies on their webcams. WTF? Especially when some jerk off starsky something from oregon is stroking his dick on his cam. Making you women go gaga and googoo. Not one of you bitch infact yall were acting like giddy schoolgirls thinking he was just gods gift to women. Well not all of you, just one in particular. which i thought was amusing.

Most the women on webcam show nothing. Atmost boobie flashes.
So why is it so wrong? It's not the problem lies with you.

I enjoy watching alot of my friends males and females just sitting on webcam.
To see their facial expressions their smile means more than any smiley text could ever. In most cases I prefer that over any guy stroking his dick on cam. Cocks on cam are redundant on this site. Therefore if i wanted to see dick on cam id seek it out.

We all have our opinions and I respect that. But this has been a sore subject amongst many in the chatroom. Are we going to let something this trivial come between friendships?

This is an adult website. Where yes people Webcam from time to time. Imagine that.. Yes there are many chatrooms for webcammers,so WHAT?

You will not tell me where to Cam AT! I do what I want ,Where I want,With whomever I want.

If what I do on cam offends you,then maybe you shouldn't be on an ADULT Dating Site.

Many of my friends Webcam and many of my friends don't webcam. Many are at eachothers throats for this very reason.

I say fuck all the dumbshit. Stop all this fucking Drama.

I still love you all but you know damn well Misstress Mckayla won't stop camming for anyone. Yes, I am an Attention !

daizeenryghteous 47M/37F

7/6/2009 11:51 pm

 Haha I love this shit... Well put. Geez should we name the whiners here or would that be just as child like as they are acting.. Oh I guess they know who they are... Fuckin Pathetic

Ry


rm_naughtyshop 36F
5 posts
7/7/2009 12:03 am

 mckayla your fucking awesome and said exactly what i needed to, love you girly!


freedomhunter69 63M
Ask me for a photo

7/7/2009 12:14 am

 well said everyones here for one reason where all adult i hate seeing guys on web cam but thats only my view so i accept it the only thing that pisses me of is when you half way through chatting to some girl and latly its been 80% of them then they ask you for a credit card if i wanted to use my credit card id be btrawling the net for porn not here on HotMatch.com to meet new people and have fun so go for it baby we should all be adults here


daizeedee 37F

7/7/2009 1:42 am

 I agree with you completely. I cam for my friends in the chat room who are also regulars.. why should I leave when I'm not the one with the problem? And we DON'T bring camtards in on purpose. It's not our fault if someone checks out our profile and comes into the chat room. There is an ignore button. They don't have to read what the camtards say. There are mature ways to go about it, just some people choose not to.. they'd rather bitch and bicker.
You're awesome.


NiceBusiness2924 40M/45F
10 posts
7/7/2009 2:33 am

 ^5 on that.. I agree. if someone has a problem with someone on cam then ignore them and those talking to them. well said and about time. thank you for sticking up for yourself. and others on here as well.
~~niceswty~~ (fem half)


hardsoftail 56M  
4 posts
7/7/2009 5:33 am

 Well put as usual. Let us not forget this is HotMatch.com and we are here for what ever reason but we should not judge. All have fun now.


cuddlykittenn 49F

7/7/2009 7:05 am

 man, reading this made me want to go web cam right now!!!


nic_guy32 48M

7/7/2009 9:15 am

 damn straight you can do what when you what with whomever you want and fuck the haters


rm_bbw4u2injoy 53F
108 posts
7/7/2009 10:14 am

 as i girl on your friends network and been there for some time now i would have to agree with all of what you said no shit girls and guys alike we are all on here for something and its to fuck or to talk whatever nice mistress keep them all on thier toes girl i love it lol


AsianLoverIam 53M
5 posts
7/7/2009 1:22 pm

 You go Girl!!! I couldn't believe all the bullshit whining last night. First off making back handed comments in the room is just bullshit. Complaining about camtards when you are really complaining about the beautiful Daizee, Mckayla or Naughtyshop is cowardly. To all those fat, ugly ladies that are afraid to cam and expose themselves, but would rather complain about someone else...get over yourselves...

Well Said Mck!!!


8x8camfun 54M
4 posts
7/8/2009 10:03 am

 Mistress, I could not agree with you more. This is HotMatch.com not Whiners Anonymous. If people don't like, stop looking and/or subscribing.


Massage_Man_00 41M
18009 posts
7/8/2009 6:36 pm



As much as I would love to see you one ont he times when it's best for me, I know that's not the form of how to carry on a conversation.

It is sad how people think they can influence others lives.

And I know this is advice you don't seed sweetness, but for others..... Stay strong to yourself and don't let anyone tell you to do otherwise



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rm_jimm252 43M
3 posts
7/10/2009 6:28 pm

 FUCKIN RITE!!!! All in agreement to this, and well damn half if not all that are bein bitches and dicks that dont have cams prob dont have them for a good reason....THEIR FUCKIN DISCUSTING!! Thats the bottom line keep doin what you want lady. You only live once so they need to fuck off and have a coke and a smile.


hotmidlifeguy 71M

7/12/2009 4:45 pm

 Keep the Cam coming!
no one should want to censor you!


bootycall196147 62F
58 posts
8/22/2009 8:02 pm

 well put ,ive had a few asswipes make negative comments about me when i was on cam.hope you have time to read my blogs as well..
DADDYS LIL GIRL...8


olei0070 45M
Ask me for a photo

5/20/2010 1:58 am

 thats right baby its not their props just do want no one is gonna say shit


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