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All my Friends must read but more importantly my female friends.  

misstressmckayla 46G
608 posts
11/4/2008 5:44 pm

Last Read:
5/9/2010 5:00 am

All my Friends must read but more importantly my female friends.

Lately there has been alot of "he said She Said Drama". And rather than pointing out names of the person who is doing this, I will just say Fuck all the Dumbshit. This highschool gossip shit.

For many of my women friends who know me, knows I pride myself on my Integrity and my Word. So whenever someone is spreading rumors and saying I said it, don't believe the hype. come to me and ask me if I said it. You know damn well if I got something to say about you , I'd say it to your face and you would hear more than a mouth load of what I have to say. Never did I have to beat around the bush. If I don't like you, I'd tell u. To your face and in the chatroom. I thought yall knew that by now.

And when there are rumors going around saying you said things about me....I won't even pay no mind to it because I should know better and trust our friendship before any rumors.

And Last but not least,
there was drama that almost costed a few friendships because of a certain person. As I stated before, my integrity and Word is all I have. and those who know me knows this. So trust me when I honestly say ...I'm a Good judge of character. And if I choose not to hang around you because of certain someone's than our friendship will suffer and if that were the case, than our friendship didn't mean as much to you as it did to me.

And know this, I respect the many friends I've met on this chat site enough NOT to bring any Drama around anyone Parties and meet and greets we have. Granted I can beat up anyone women that starts shit with me,but what would that prove? So out of respect to my beloved friends, I don't bring Drama to any events.

AND I SUGGEST EVERYONE TO LEAVE THE DRAMA AT HOME AS WELL!
That includes all you men. If you can't stand someone and you know they will be at a Gathering you will be at. Simply ignore them. We come together to have Fun at these events so all you attention craving, whiney,bitchy,Whispering, gossiping, smile to our face but stab us in the back when we turn around caddy girls Do not attend. Go be fake somewhere else.

And for all you Big Headed,Mentally challenged, my dick is bigger than yours, King of the Jungle Gorilla Idiots that feels the need to fight over the attention of women. Do us a favor...Go get drunk and display this immature unattractive behavior somewhere far from us.

With that being said,
I'm excited to announce that I started a group called Women Of Washington. W.O.W Click here to join N.O.W---> Women Of Washington

I've created this group so that the women of Washington could get together and share stories,recipes,advice and or even men. No More Drama! No Bashing of Eachother and No Male Bashing either.

I didn't put a restriction on who could join because many of our friends are Couples and we would like to include their male spouses in on the group and topics. And maybe by letting single men join this group they can learn something about what Women really want.

I hope we all can appreciate and respect eachother. And it's about Effin Time we start this much needed group. Girl Power!

So all my Ladies Please join. I know it says Women of Washington but many of our lady friends and couples live in Oregon as well And We Want yall to Join since yall are just a hop skip away and more importantly OUR friends.

With this group I wish to plan on certain activities such as "Girls Night Out" Sorry Fellahs just the ladies.

[Many of our friends are coupled so while the ladies are out why don't the men have Poker Night?]

Also as I mentioned many of our friends are coupled so it would be fun to have "Couples night" maybe dinning and dancing.

So please all my Friend join this group and many of you women and couples.. I'll be contacting to help me plan these events and even give u moderator status of this group.

So what do yall say? Shall we put all the "He Said She Said" Childish Drama Games to rest. I'm sick of it and i'm sure some of yall are as well. Let's remain to keep all our Activities Drama Free! Let's enjoy each others company for Good Fun Times.

You can always count me in for a Good time. When I'm around, you bet your ass there will be lot's Laughter and entertainment but most importantly.....DANCING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Massage_Man_00 41M
18009 posts
11/4/2008 6:21 pm

I'm sorry that there are such dumb people here causing so much drama for you sweetie. The will always be in our lives. ust gotta break through them one day at a time.


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yummygoods72 51F

12/29/2008 8:33 am

OMG....are you serious? this day n age you still got drama? when will ppl grow up...just stop HATTIN and get a life. they say misery loves company so take your miserable ass on.. you seem like a kool ass female and dont hurt to add that your beautiful 2. so my suggestion to u is to choose your friends wisely and keep your enemies close. hang in there it will get better.

yummi is soooo yummi....you aught 2 try it someday!!!


amtcpl04 66M/65F
38 posts
2/1/2009 7:03 am

You know we only wish everyone at the gatherings good fun, Dancing talking, mixing with others. There is nothing better than a fun evening out with fun and friendly People.After all you attract more bees with honey than you do vinegar.Hugs to our sweet friend Mc Kayla, we have missed seeing ya hun.We wish you all a good adventure..M&T


smoothbckuphandl 45M

3/18/2009 1:36 am

drama on HotMatch.com??


rm_foxyb74 49F

3/18/2009 1:29 pm

I'm so sorry you have to deal with drama on here. I have met only two men off this site and both have been gentlemen and understand the reason why we're all on here. I will say that in some of the emails I get, I can tell that a couple of men bring baggage to the table and I avoid those. But mostly, have had some great conversations on here and I think maybe some men can't handle a strong and beautiful women such as misstressmckayla. Life is too short to deal with shit from people who don't know how to treat other people. Those of you who can't, please move on!


discreetblkgy2 61M
12 posts
3/18/2009 8:28 pm

first let me say I usally look for funny blogs, but this one takes the cake. Kudos to you for saying it out loud, he said she said is always a buzz kill. Keep it going mistress, it is sad that adults have to told how to handle play time.


TwoFor4Play 62F  
6 posts
3/25/2009 6:11 pm

Well said Misstress and everyone!!! Good luck with your new group and gatherings.


desire4me2 44F

5/11/2009 10:05 pm

You took the words right out of my mouth! Need someone like u here with me. We could tear it up with good times!!!!!


rm_virgodoggy 53M
2 posts
6/16/2009 8:51 pm

Unfortunately, drama, jealousy, and gossip are three things that can only be cut out of your life by avoiding the people that bring that kind of energy. After reading this, it reminds me that "adults" are some of the most juvenile people on the planet! We all have had friends that ultimately drain the kindness from us after many years of negative energy flow, but it never ceases to amaze me how few people actually learn the lesson that positive energy breeds positive energy. I try to surround myself with positive people in every aspect of my life, and would invite others to try it.

I'm a new friend, and we haven't met, but McKayla you seem like a very "down to earth" person with a lot to say. I look forward to hearing more of your thoughts.


bigloadmaster 52M

6/17/2009 4:51 pm

Very true and well spoken as usual. I vote Mistressmckaly one of the most intelligent as well as sexy women on xmatch.


anultimatetouch 64F
3 posts
6/17/2009 5:27 pm

Hey Eggroll...I luv U hun...want to join as a Bendite...lol the bendover gal xoxoxo Anulti


manugitan 34M

8/21/2011 3:38 pm

tu et sexy


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