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just curious I'm wondering if others feel the same as I do or is it .... I'm just abby normal? I want to know if there are any deal breakers for people right off the bat? Can someone say something inside an initial email that will cause you to gag and immediately delete without any response which in turn will make you one of the rudest people for not at least saying 'no thank you'? Sometimes the garbage I receive causes me not to come into this site for a couple of days. I thought I was a grown up and loved all the stuff this site has to offer, but it slaps me that I must of been living under a rock for many a year cause I don't think that way. What the hell? How could I have missed those ideas when they were being handed out? Someone please help me out!!!! UPDATE: Showing the type of email I speak of. copied and pasted for exact wording. I like your picture. You are a very sexy and beautiful woman! I'll just tell you what I'm looking for because it seems most people just like small talk. I like to eat my own cum and I want you to watch me swallow my own cum by putting my feet over my head and shooting cum straight into my mouth. I would love it if you would stroke my cock until I shoot a huge cum shot and fill my mouth then tell me to swallow it all. After that I want to lick your pussy until you explode on my face and I get to lick you clean. I have a large cock and I know how to use it. I would love to be inside of you! I am very flexible and would love to hear what you are in to! Check out my profile and write back soon. |
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Wow...and I thought i was being difficult for telling woman I am only available during the edaytime because I am married. I guess it takes all kinds, but I am with you...please don't think I am going to help you out with these crazy thoughts. Must be old-fashioned.
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4/9/2009 7:29 pm |
being the factory rat i am i find that post hilarious. i can understand why you are upset though. his is one sick mf. good luck in your search, you really seem to have your stuff together.
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Dang! Maybe I need to stop being such a nice guy. 
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10/2/2007 4:04 pm |
Some of the emails like that totally turn me (us) off and don't even warrant a reply. Most of the ones that turn us off are the ones that just come on too strong. Just my view.
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9/22/2007 11:19 am |
You know if you are only on this site for one night stands or friends with benfits, that is a great way to get no response. People are human beings and don't need to be insulted like that. There is nothing wrong with small talk. Its a way to get to know the other person's likes, dislikes, what is acceptable or unacceptable in the bedroom. Then after a little while if they are into that stuff then its ok. Grow up dude. My guess he is a ex-con with a CSC charge.
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9/14/2007 6:42 pm |
Well, if that's the guys fetish, then I guess he's entitled to try and enjoy it with another consenting adult. However, I think the real issue here is that he did it on the first email to you, not realizing that something like that could be offensive to someone else in a first contact situation. Sexual preferences are something that should certainly be discussed up front with a potential partner...but definitely not that up front.
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And I thought I wrote bad emails.......
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unsolicited i think that is rude, but on the other hand some chicks dig that, i guess you just have to know your audience
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9/8/2007 3:46 pm |
Be tolerant?!?!? Just because the name of this site (not sight) is HotMatch.com doesn't mean that kind of e-mail is expected, especially for the first contact. You didn't miss out on anything; you were evidently brought up as a proper woman. Everyone gets e-mails like this, men and women. That's why God put a delete key on the keyboard. You don't have to answer an e-mail like that, lifehandler2. Rudeness is perceived by the one it's directed toward. Someone that sends that kind of e-mail on the first contact wouldn't know rudeness if it jumped out of his butt and slapped him upside the head... Just be glad you didn't run into him on the street! Who knows what he may have done to make that first impression!
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9/8/2007 11:46 am |
I am not sure of what ideas you feel you missed out on. Being a single, straight male, the most off the wall propositions I get are from men. They offer for me to come to their place drop trou’ get a blow job and leave, no fuss no muss. I simply tell them I am flattered but not gay, bi or bi-curious. Then again for a woman on this sight it is completely different I am sure.... But always remember what makes you gag may make someone else gasp with excitement...So please be tolerant and understanding of folks with varying desires on a swingers sight....LOL
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Hi lifehandler, I honestly don't know the answer. It doesn't take much for a reply does it? The only thing on this site is that some people (like me) may only be standard members, so they can't reply. Other than that - it's down to bad manners!
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