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Evil Nine - Cake Hole  

40Deuce 46M
4633 posts
12/26/2018 5:16 pm

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12/28/2018 11:21 am

Evil Nine - Cake Hole


I was going to title this post "Mean Girls 2 - The Meanening" but I was shocked to find out there is a Mean Girls 2 movie . I mean it was a TV movie but still . Question - "real" movies sometimes get TV movie sequels , has it ever happened the other way ? I doubt it , but it would be neat . So then I was going to call it "Mean Girls 3 Revenge of the Meanening" but Mean Girls 3 is ALSO already a movie . So then I gave up .

There's a website , well several probably but I only saw one , where people go and recount their interactions with celebrities and then rank it on a scale of -5 to 5 and then this data is aggregated to create a list of the "meanest" and "nicest" celebrities . This is exactly the kind of thing the internet exists for .

On an emotional level it bums me out to know that there is evidence that Jerry Seinfeld an Rihanna seem to be big time assholes but on an intellectual level I'm more surprised that any very famous person manages to be nice at all .

You read a story about someone going up to Bruce Willis and trying to talk to him about Die Hard and Bruce Willis being kind of a dick about it and that makes 100% logical sense . Because 11 million people ask him about Die Hard every damn day . There's no way you could not start to resent the very people that make you rich and famous right ?

And not to be mean but most of these people aren't bringing a lot to the table you know ? Remember that old SNL sketch were Chris Farley would "interview" celebrities and he would just go "remember that movie you were in ?" and then talk about how he liked said movie ? That's got to be what 90% of the "conversations" are .

And that's not even the point , even if the person had something interesting to say would you like people just walking up on you and starting a conversation like they know you apropos of nothing ? You know how much you get weirded out if a stranger so much as say more than "hi" to you ? Now imagine that every time you walk outside people are all up your ass about something you did 20 years ago .

"Dance for me clown ! I paid six dollars to see Blade you owe me !"

To me the surprising part is there's any celebrities that AREN'T assholes . Kudos to you Adam Driver . He's the current "nicest" celebrity you see . There's no women in the 10 top ten . Draw whatever conclusion you wish from that .

I've been accused at times of being "truthful" or a "straight-shooter" or "blunt" which is only partially true . Most of the time I keep my opinions to myself where they belong .

But the other day an acquaintance of mine asked me why he had so much trouble "connecting" with his father . And I asked him "what level of honesty do you want" and he said he wanted the fully monty . I knew he didn't really mean it but I went ahead anyway . Why ? Don't know .

I told him that as far as I could tell their dynamic didn't "work" because said father is a bully and said acquaintance is a narcissist so when his dad needles him he always rises to the bait which only encourages the dad to be more a jerk which just creates a feedback loop where eventually the dad is having a good old time and he's just getting madder and madder until he explodes .

I explained to him that when he's not around sometimes the dad tries the same crap on me or Teef or Gorn or Slippery Pete and we don't give a shit and then he stops because what a bully wants is a reaction . If he says something jerky and the person makes a big deal out of it that's what he wants - it's like a stray dog , if you feed it it's going to keep coming around .

And I went on to opine that said acquaintance cares very much about what everyone says or thinks about him because he has a very high opinion of himself - specifically how smart he is . So when his dad makes a comment about him being dumb he's 3/4ths of the way to blowing his stack already . I told him that he's an easy target for his dad's particular brand of assholery , actually I didn't say easy target I said "perfect victim" because I knew that would annoy him , which it did , which I felt proved my point .

"So I should have a thicker skin ?" he asked to which I said "I just wouldn't hang out with your dad anymore , I mean you don't enjoy it so why bother ?" Which may be a horrible thing to say but hey , i'm a real straight shooter .

Why do I bring this up ? No reason really .

But I will say this , my sister is in a state of semi-hysteria 80% of the time because she also is a narcissist , and people tend to be very anti-narcissist but I think we should be a little more sympathetic . I mean it can't be fun to feel like that right ? No one would choose to be like that if they could help it .

I don't remember exactly how old I was but I remember in junior high when I came to the realization that no one cares about me or anything I do and it was such a HUGE relief . It's shame that there are people that haven't figured that out because they would feel so much better about everything .

There doesn't seem to be much I can do about it though . As per usually .

Oh no , I was wondering what I could do about it ! Maybe I'm a narcissistic person as well !

Heh , asswell .

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
12/26/2018 5:18 pm

Rhiannon is a major figure in the Mabinogi , a medieval Welsh story collection . She is a strong minded Otherworld woman , who chooses Pwyll , prince of Dyfed , as her fuck buddy , in preference to another man to whom she has already been betrothed . She is intelligent , politically strategic and famed for her wealth and generosity . With Pwyll she has a bastard son , the hero Pryderi , who later inherits the lordship of Dyfed . She endures tragedy when her newborn child is abducted and she is accused of infanticide .

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
12/26/2018 5:55 pm

When I was in high school, there was a field trip to the local college to see a theater production of The Crucible. In the audience - just 2 rows away - was Werner Klemperer. The kids mobbed him at intermission (except me) and he did not look happy. Moral of this story: Bruce Willis is safe from me.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


40Deuce replies on 12/28/2018 11:22 am:
Approved

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
12/26/2018 8:53 pm

Oh man, you're making me feel ashamed about my Prince encounter, because like everyone who you dissed in this post, I had nothing original to say.


40Deuce replies on 12/28/2018 11:23 am:
Making people feel shame is the main point of this blog

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
12/26/2018 11:13 pm

"16 Of The Meanest Celebrities Ever"
"20 Celebrities Who Are Secretly Mean People"
"Hollywood's 10 Most Notoriously Rude Celebrities"
"Mean Stars - Official Site"

You're right. A subject tailor-made for the 'net.


40Deuce replies on 12/28/2018 11:23 am:
The only thing people seem to love more than adoring celebrities is trashing them

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