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i nly do missionary n i hate it 2  

40Deuce 46M
4635 posts
7/30/2017 8:04 am

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7/31/2017 4:21 pm

i nly do missionary n i hate it 2

I saw that on a lady's profile yesterday . I've been on HotMatch.com for more than 20 years now and while most of the time I'm not using it "right" AKA trying to get laid , I have interacted with a lot of women (supposedly) on here . I sometimes joke about how women hate sex , which says more about me then them (remember that movie THEM about the giant ants ? It was on the other day) but I have definitely talked to a few women (allegedly) who definitely were putting out that that they hated sex . Maybe it was a front , who knows , but that's what they were putting out there .

Which is seems especially strange since I think I heard one time this is a sex site .

In particular I remember trading a lot of messages with a lady who mostly talked about how selfish men were and how she never found sex pleasurable and then was like "Do you want to meet up for a drink sometime ?" Talk about a mixed message . When I told her I wasn't interested in meeting she asked me why not and I said it didn't sound like she even liked sex and she said "So ?" And said that maybe I had misunderstood her because it seemed like she was looking for a hook-up more than anything and she said "I am ."

It was all very confusing .

But it was much less horrifying than the lady I talked to who said several times something to the effect of "I know sex is supposed to feel good but it hurts" .

Sidenote - Massage and Shag is way better than Netflix and Chill . Just FYI



I've never been much of a fan of the original Star Trek which makes me a pariah in certain nerd circles . But yesterday when I got up and turned the TV on (because what I am gonna do NOT turn the TV on ? ) The Gamesters of Triskelion episode was on and I watched it .

There are episodes of the original ST that touch on social issues and evoke thoughts on different philosophies and have a message - this is not one of those episodes .

Kirk teaching alien women how to love has been widely and comprehensively lampooned but it don't actually happen THAT often - however that's exactly what happens in this episode .

This was Star Trek in all it's cheesy 70's glory . The crew is forced to fight in gladiatorial combat as happens every 7-11 episodes , gladiatorial bloodsports make a big comeback in the future , Kirk meets a woman who probably would be hot if she wasn't wearing a shitty green win and tinfoil panties , he teaches her about love , he murders a couple people to win their free and then bails . Green hair tinfoil panties says "Can I come with you" and he's all like "nah" . The end .

I realize that picking on a show 40 years old is in bad form , but the low-budgety sci-finess of it impossible to ignore . The entire planet is represented by 3 sets , and crummy ones at that , whereas the entire population of the planet appears to be 6 extras .

What I find most interesting though is that Star Trek much like Star Wars has a literal SHIT-TON of expanded universe stuff . Usually any character or anything that happened in the show , no matter how obscure , has books that are just about it . Like in the Star Wars cantina scene - ALL of the those despite the fact that many of them appeared on screen for a faction of a second have names and backstories and histories in excruciating detail . Boba Fett is a good example , h's on screen for what , 90 seconds in the original SW movies and has 1 line - and his Wikipedia entry is like 17 pages long and there's no fewer than 30 books just about him .

So what's why I was so surprised to find out that there's NO follow up of any kind to the Gamesters of Triskelion .

Part of Kirk's murder-wager was that if he won the (literal) brains in charge of the gladiators had set them free and teach them how to build a society . I was kind of curious how that played out . I thought surely there was a book wherein they encountered Triskelion again but uh-uh , there's nada .

Maybe that will be my next project .

Also it amuses me that in the death-fight they go out of their way to say that if Kirk sets outside his boundary he loses a weapon and then two seconds later once the DREADFUL fight choreography begins every other step he take she's outside the boundary .

Also again the (literal) brains in charge of this deathzone had super duper mental abilities - they could teleport people around and disable the Enterprise and appeared to be have clairvoyance and clairaudience and etc. etc. Encountering beings of god-like power seemed to happen all the time in the original series but they definitely tone that down in the later serieses . I assume because once you're trying to build a semi-coherent universe for your stuff to happen in having a bunch of gas clouds and whatnot about that are basically omnipotent makes things a little tricky .

"Oh the Romulans are in the neutral zone ? Have that slime with god-like powers we met last week blow up their entire fleet with a thought ."


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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
7/30/2017 8:06 am

Fun fact about this episode Lady Gaga traveled back in time to play the chick Kirk puts the moves on . Which is a pretty silly use of time travel .

The internet claims that Rhianna is a big Star Trek fan . I wonder if that's true .

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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
7/30/2017 1:24 pm

i never was a fan of star trek. or star wars. and yet i love scifi. go figure.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


40Deuce replies on 7/31/2017 4:22 pm:
Well some people who have way too much time on their hands would tell you neither of those is "true" Sci-Fi

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/30/2017 2:52 pm

Just hazarding a guess...maybe the women who hate sex, yet are on this site, are hoping to find a boyfriend and they're banking on the 10 to 1 ratio here that they have a better shot here than the "traditional" dating sites?

Although in your story the woman who hated sex wanted to hook up, so I guess that doesn't hold water. Maybe someone like that is searching for the dick that will magically transform their sex experience.

Star Trek was indeed schlocky, but then most TV shows of 40 years ago didn't have very good production values.


40Deuce replies on 7/31/2017 4:23 pm:
Indeed , movies seem to hold up a lot better than TV shows

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