I (Chris) am 56, 5'6" 220#, brown hair and blue eyes. In public I present as an assertive male who dresses with a splash of color and a slight swish in my walk. In private I have a submissive femme side I wish I could project in public. I am in chastity 24/7 with Janise as the key holder. She (Janise) is 5'3" with a beautiful rubenesque figure reddish hair and brown eyes. Publicly she is a soft spoken BBW who aims to please everyone, until you push the wrong button. Privately she switches from a loving wife to a loving demur wife to a strict Domme who loves to give as much as she likes to receive. We are both college educated and professionally employed. We do not smoke and rarely drink. We are drug and disease free, extremely clean and very discrete. We are politically diverse, which makes for interesting conversations at home. We live in St. Charles County.

My Ideal Person We are a special couple who is looking for a male to form an intimate friendship with to share all aspects of our adult life with. We are looking to establish a special long-term relationship with a man that would like to socialize publicly and privately. We want to share time and experiences and enjoy an occasional night on the town. We want to be able to go to each other’s homes for a simple casual night of conversation, a weekend bar-b-q or exotic and erotic night of intimate play.

We can both be bisexual, me much more than she, and love to watch each other explore it. We would like to establish a comfort factor with the man such that we could all be on the same king size bed and touching, caressing, teasing and pleasing who ever is next to us and not have to worry whether they are male or female, partner or friend. The ideal man would want to fuck me as much as he would want to fuck her, (I would hope more).

My little cock does not satisfy her at all, and since it is locked up never to be used again she needs a real man, with a real cock. The thicker the better. Since her surgery she cannot take long without pain, and since it is all about her pleasure girth wins over length. (Although, I love long lean cocks in both openings)

We are also a lifestyle D/s couple, where I am the DOM and she is the submissive. A lifestyle couple would be a nice touch, but not a necessity.

We would alos be open to a LTR with a SINGLE male. Ask use for more details if you are a SINGLE unattached male who would lie to establish a special relationship with a mature couple

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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