PLEASE READ ENTIRE PROFILE - Thank you. Summer months are busy for us due to our 's activity schedules, so it is unlikely that we will be available to meet anyone new until the first part of September 2009, this is not to say that we aren't interested in starting the "get to know you" process with folks right now, but realistically we just don't have a ton of time until the are back in school. We're not new to AFF, and we're not new to swinging/swapping/sharing so if this profile seems a bit blunt, please excuse us in advance, but experience has taught us that's better to be forward and detailed with our interests rather than waste people's time (ours included). If you insist on use of condoms as a rule, please do not contact us. Condoms (synthetic or natural) cause irritation/soreness for one of us and we simply cannot use them. We fully respect and understand that most people insist on them, but in our case it's just not a possible consideration and we ask that you show the same respect and understanding as we extend to those who are able to use them. We have no interest in Bi-sexual/Bi-Curious MEN. We are a married couple in St. Charles County, both professionally employed, college educated, cigarette smokers, light/social drinkers as well as drug and disease free. We are the parents of two so a degree of discretion is required. The husband is of average height and build, medium complexion, average sized penis, moderate body hair and is straight. The wife is of smaller stature, average build, fair complexion, shaved and is bi-sexual (not curious, she is truly bi-sexual). We are not models, we are not in fantastic shape, we're an average to attractive couple for our ages. As for birth control the wife is currently completely baby safe, the husband is not at this time (but will be by the end of this year). We are very selective about whom we choose to be with. Over the course of the last decade we've met with perhaps two dozen couples/singles (men or women) combined and it's led to sex perhaps a third of the time. We tend to find someone we enjoy (and feel comfortable with) and see them until circumstances change (relocation, etc). We are NOT the type to rack up "numbers" or try to sleep with as many people as possible. If you prefer "one night" encounters, we're probably not what you're looking for. We are open about our interests and strongly prefer that people interested in meeting us be the same way. There are very few things "off limits" to us, but the following will not be considered under any circumstances: Sexual contact between male participants, poop play, minors, acts/activities that are likely to leave marks or bruises, heavy pain, or other fetishes that could result in injury. While no list of "we don't do XYZ" can be considered absolute or all inclusive and while we obviously reserve the right to say "that's not something we're interested in" at any point, all other fetishes/interests other than the acts/activities listed above are at least available for discussion/consideration. We don't judge people for what they're into, we expect that others will not judge us, so you should never be shy about asking "Is this something you've done or would consider?" This is a social as much as a sexual activity for us, so we would also strongly prefer that people interested in meeting us share some common interests. A strong friendship outside of the bedroom would be a great help in ensuring that everyone involved enjoys the time together. We are usually willing to host at our home if that's helpful. Since we're open to meeting couples, women or men, we'll address them in order in the "ideal" person(s) section.

My Ideal Person Everyone - Reasonably H/W proportionate, drug and disease free, good personal hygiene, open minded, friendly and fun. Some body piercings are fine, excessive tattoos or etc are not a turn on for either of us. Also, men with long hair (if you can put it in a pony-tail, that's "long" to her) do not appeal to the wife. We've found that "first meeting sex" can be problematic, so while we don't rule it out, we generally limit first evening interaction to (at most) kissing, making out and perhaps oral sex. We are a full swap couple so while we (again) respect folks that are not full swap or not interested in penetration or intercourse, we're only interested in friends that want "it all". We're usually only available on weekend evenings, so please consider that as well and we like to meet with some regularity (at least once or twice a month).

Couples - We strongly prefer other married couples around our ages Mid 30's to Late 40's where the wife in the couple is Bi-sexual (Bi-curious is fine as well). Located within 25 to 50 miles is best (we have limited time to travel long distances to meet). Other than that we only ask that you be content in your current relationship, upfront with us about your interests and things you won't do, and honest with us. Long term we would like to find a truly special couple that we can form a friendship with that would be solid enough that we would not always have to be together as a foursome and would be comfortable interacting socially as families (bar-b-ques, etc). IF (and it might never happen) we were to meet such a couple we would be open to meeting either the husband/wife for dates, without the other spouse always along (and vice versa, one of us going on a date/evening out with the other couple) or "split" evenings where a true "swap" would occur and the couples would exchange spouses for the evening to go on separate dates (meeting up later, or not as everyone's comfort level dictated). This is NOT a requirement, but is something that we've had previously with a couple we were close to and we would very much enjoy it again if it was possible.

Women - Around our ages Mid 30's to Late 40's and Bi-sexual. Married/Single/Divorced doesn't matter to us (your personal life outside of the friendship is none of our concern). Would also prefer that any female friend be (eventually) open to evenings, etc without both of us having to be there. This is MOST likely to involve the wife going out on "girl nights" with you as a friend, etc. However, that is not an absolute. Women ONLY interested in the wife, are not really of interest to us as neither of us are interested in excluding the other in any circumstances.

Men - Let's be honest, this is an uphill climb for most of the men on HotMatch.com. The number of men looking to meet a couple, outnumbers the couples open to meeting a solo man by 25 to 1. Having said that we certainly do not reject the idea that there are interesting men to be found on HotMatch.com. Before you contact us though, please remember the following: We will ONLY consider men that are 35 to 45, married, straight and polite. MOST of the time when we've allowed a solo male into our bedroom it's been for a specific purpose (DP, wanted to get some pictures of her doing things, etc). The quickest way to guarantee that your E-mail will be ignored/deleted is to send a cock shot and a crude "She's hot, I want to fuck her" e-mail. If you can't express yourself better than that, you're of no interest.

That's a lot of information, but again we've found (through some bad experiences) that it's best if both sides are as open and honest about what they're looking for, open to, interested in as possible from the beginning.

If you'd like us to pay special attention to your e-mail and let us know that you read the ENTIRE profile, please use "123" in the subject, those messages will be opened and responded to within 24 hours.

Thank you for taking the time to review our profile and we very much hope to hear from interested/interesting potential friends as quickly as possible.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Avril Lavigne, Evanescence, U2, Shania Twain, Toby Keith, Bruce Springsteen, Heart

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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