as I'm essentially tossing myself up on the market and willing to entertain a variety of possibilities, from "NSA" to "LTR" , eventually a stable partnership is what I do want , but in the mean time some fun and/or companionship . would be nice , I am Straight , not deviating from that , have many gay friends and get along fairly well with lesbians though . . . Me . I am a single white male , Celtic/Germanic ancestry to be more precise and big , Ogres fitting ... 6 foot 9 inches tall and been along time since Ive been on a scale . curious about that though went from 58in around to 52 inches around the gut . due to improvements in diet and exercise , plan to loose more. . I personally kinda like women with strong , but not domineering personalities as friends and find them interesting as prospective partners , but also am rather aroused by something I feel I can dominate over . . . wouldn't mind indulging in that for something casual . . . I am rather Nocturnal , if its dark I am probably awake , and usually home . There are many things I find attractive , appearance is indeed one of them . I'm ok with bigger women to a point , thick and tall is kinda my "own kind" . . . but I don't like being too big around myself , and do not find morbid obesity to be attractive , personality ,and intellect do compensate for much but take longer to develop an attraction then a flesh lust I am rather tactile , very into the textures and often construction of items I live on a few acres , partially wooded area with alot of privacy , there is a river 1 mile away that while is over crowded on a hot day does get gated at night ... and I am friends with the grounds keeper , out of the area I am fine with and actually seeking to " host" overnight or a few days. I can shoot most of my weapons here .. and Ive got some neat ones Viking costume ? ... I attend SCA events aswell as Rendezvous (mountain man musket shoots)... actually those are about my only social outings ... history geek ... but if a scenario comes to mind ... might be interested in obliging - no abuse however ... hard limit there as I do not think its healthy and even if your into it I do not want to pick up those habits .... the costume is a good enough buffer from "reality" however if there has been any actual abuse or traumatic events in your past I strongly feel the above should be off the table , let me be big and cuddly instead .. well feel free to also ask for some instruction in the use of sidearms my full armor is up to about 65 pounds , for Anglo-Saxon/Viking .. not sure what my 15thC configuration will weigh and I do toss it on and go walking a few miles often .... buddy of mine was drinking once and let out his wife liked him to wear panties occasionally during ..... aint ever happening here ... but this stuff ... I like this stuff .. its why I bought and made it ...you aint going to have to twist my arm much ... Archery - both bow and Crossbows , Javelins, Martial Darts ... havent made a trebuchet .. yet .. "experimental archeologist" is a term Ive seen thrown around ... yeah I love this crap ...takes up more room but much healthier then alcoholism or drug abuse . not many play partners come with the amount of accessories ... I have not go into sewing but have access to significant tooling in that department , I do build items for weavers , wouldnt mind finding a weaver and or sewer for friend or partner ,

My Ideal Person Ideal ? attractive , attractive related to what end can vary .

I have found several women on here and in person ranging to age 50 attractive , putting a soft cap of 37 for LTR but for casual/FWB ... full range of the 40s and there are the further rare few that I'd not turn down slightly over the 50 mark

I like women that are strong minded ,but not domineering , and kinda helps if they have a physical presence , outdoorsy and into crafts and other things of interests . a Fiona to my Shrek perhaps ... something I can converse and even mentally spar with abit . this would probably be requisite to have a functioning partnership

however I do also have a strong inner lust for something I can dominate over , petite . a woman in this catagory would be fun but probably not suited for a long term thing with me ..

clicked a few of the fetish things so I'll break down some of my thoughts on them

BDSM ... I love making things , love leatherwork but like brown leather and brass ... generally with some milateristic and/or historical flavor ... also like building items of wood ... wouldnt mind playing with the stuff , but Ive got little interest in being bound .... S&M? on this I do have abit of a masochistic side ... would probably only want to get into it for play not part of a relationship ...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, Outdoors by firelight ... torches

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Fisting, Most of these Ive not tried ...

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
yes .... I've had a fanboy crush on Jadzia Dax ( Terry
Farrel Star Trek DS9) from before reaching puberty , looks
, personality , and kinda found the whole symbiont thing
intreguing ... guess that'd be more a character , Sandra
Bullock especially in "Demolition Man" Ive
always found incredibly hot aswell

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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