**** I DON'T CHEAT AND I DON'T HELP OTHERS TO CHEAT**** I am married and we are poly. Use condoms. It is not an option, it is not a request. It is a demand and expected behavior when interacting with me. I am very busy. Sometimes I'm on here multiple times a day and other times I'm not on here for months at a time. I love ice cream. I work in the field of social services so discretion and confidentiality are of the utmost importance to me!

My Ideal Person You are not cheating/sneaking around

Read my profile before you message me.

You have an idea we might be a match and no that doesn't mean we are a match because you think you can make my pussy (fill in the blank) or your dick is magic.

FWB = A friend (yes that means that we text at times) that is also someone who I have sex with.

Open, honest with a complete understanding of what I am looking for and more importantly what I am NOT looking for. I love ice cream. I do not have sex with anyone who was born after 1987.

The ability to host or open to sharing the cost of finding a place to meet.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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