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I have been a member since 11/21/2001 an although I have not always been active on this site, I have returned to it time and again over the years. Being a hippie with a full beard and long hair and 60 years old (61 next month) I get very few views and even fewer contacts. I have never actually met anyone from here, but it is not for a lack of trying.
The main reason that I decided to start this page is that when I go to watch live member broadcasts, many time the Lady will stop broadcasting and then return in a few minutes which basically kicks me off her web cam. Which is fine, everyone should have a choice as to who watches them, but a message politely asking me to leave would actually show some class and some consideration to the fact that I am just another person on here looking for the same thing everyone else is. But no one has yet. I can just imagine some women looking at my profile and saying "EEwwwww" and hurrying to get rid of me. Sound familiar?
Well, that is why I started this site. Please be courteous to everyone and if someone wants to meet or chat and you are not into what they are into, PLEASE at least respond to them and simply inform them of that and then perhaps offer to chat on other subjects. If you happen to know someone who is into what this person is into, you may want to try to make it easier for them to contact each other. I hope this group attracts many different types of people and the "6 degrees of separation" idea means who all know a variety of people. This means we might all be able to help each other. A network of HotMatch.com members for the outliers of society who enjoy diversity, not use it to limit their social contacts. This may even be why so many people have trouble finding anyone, the fact that they refuse to look outside this little "comfort zone" they have created for themselves, and what they really are looking for is something outside that zone. That may be why they never meet.

So, Please, everyone be kind and courteous and maybe we can make things better for many of us. At least it's we can give it a try and see what happens.