Cupid Preferences

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Preferences

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Look for a... Man
Woman
Couple (man and woman)
Group
Couple (two women)
Couple (two men)
TS/TV/TG
...who is
interested in 		Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies
Discreet Relationships
1-on-1 sex
Bondage and discipline
Cross Dressing
Miscellaneous fetishes
Exhibitionism & Voyeurism
Sadism & Masochism
Other "Alternative" Activities
Group sex (3 or more)
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They should be between and years old
...and their body
type should be 		Prefer not to say
Average
Slim/Petite
Athletic
Ample
A little extra padding
Large
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Their race should be: American Indian
Asian
Black
Caucasian
East Indian
Hispanic
Middle Eastern
Various
Other
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Their religion should be: Agnostic
Atheist
Buddhist/Taoist
Catholic
Hindu
Muslim
Jewish
Protestant
Spiritual
New Age
Pagan
Confucian
Alternative
Christian
Other
Not Applicable
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Their education level should be: Some high school
High School graduate
Some college
Current college student
Associate degree (2 years college)
BA/BS (4 years college)
Some grad school
Current grad school student
Master's Degree
PhD/MD/Post doctorate
JD
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Their marital status should be: Single
Married
Divorced
Separated
Attached
Widowed
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Their sexual orientation should be: Straight
Bi-Sexual
Bi-curious
Gay/Bi-curious
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As for smoking they should be: Non-smoker
Light/social smoker
Heavy smoker
Cigar/pipe smoker
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As for alcohol, they should: Don't drink at all
Light/social drinker
Heavy drinker
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As for their having children: I want to meet someone without any children.
I want to meet someone who has children that live with them.
I want to meet someone who has children that do not live with them.
I want to meet someone who has children that sometimes live with them.
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As for their wanting children: I want to meet someone who might want to have children.
I want to meet someone who wants to have children.
Does not want to have children.
Happy with what they have.
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