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One more time
Posted:May 26, 2015 8:18 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2015 9:55 pm
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Been on here several times in the past few years and again since the first of this year. I am amazed at the non-respect that is given to me and to other single males. I can't remember how many attempts I have tried to contact other members that I feel there might be some kind of connection or I would not have sent any messages. Do you think I get a response, even if it is a no thanks.......none.

When my membership is up it will be up. I'm through with playing games. Either be honest and at least respond or get the f off of here. No person is that much better than anyone else that they feel the need not to answer honest requests or interests.

Off of my soap box for now.
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Disgusted
Posted:Mar 15, 2015 7:40 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 8:22 pm
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OK, here is a question, how to keep from having popups always coming up in chrome? I thought I had a popup blocker active. Is there anyway to keep from getting them?

Also, I have sent numerous messages to both women and couples who have not had the common courtesy to even acknowledge the message. What's up folks? This is supposed to be the "largest sex dating site and swinger personals community?" Makes me wish I hadn't paid my good hard earned money for a site that the people don't even give you the time of day, much less to meet in person.

Comments?
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This weekend
Posted:Feb 25, 2015 5:10 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
4323 Views

Who wants to snuggle and keep warm?
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Updated profile information
Posted:Feb 22, 2015 2:33 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
4286 Views
Updated and added profile information.
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OK, I get it.
Posted:Feb 9, 2015 4:32 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 8:25 pm
6370 Views

Well this was A good site at one time. It seems that now no one checks their messages or if they do, and they don't like what they see, the person is ignored. What happened to the common respect and courtesy of answering? Even if the answer is a simple thank you for check out my profile, but not interested. Thanks for posting, maybe in the future, etc. I guess it goes along with what is happening in society today. Will shall see what will happen in the next couple of weeks. Maybe I will post a more positive blog.

Until next time.
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Back again
Posted:Feb 6, 2015 7:47 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
6903 Views

Let's see if there are some real people out there. I don't ignore any messages and will answer all. If you have a question, ask. You will never know without asking. Can host, 420 friendly, DDF, can carry on an intelligent conversation, love to laugh and to please. I'm not the dreaded single white male. I have feelings and am respectful with the people I meet. Even if the clothes don't come off, there can still be friendship, which is really important to me anyway.

Looking forward to seeing so many messages that I will have a hard time answering all.

LOL

Until next time.
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Merry Christmas to all
Posted:Dec 25, 2012 5:05 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
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It is Christmas morning I'm sitting here posting a blog. It has been a few months since I started blogging and trying to set up a meet and greet with some of the members of the site to no avail.

Am I trying to hard? Not writing the right things, or is it because distance is a factor? We shall see as We start out the new year with hopes of a great time ahead. Until then just have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
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Just wondering
Posted:Oct 27, 2012 3:05 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
7843 Views

Just wondering where all the real people are at? Sending emails without getting a response, not even a no thanks, is very depressing.

Wondering if there are real people behind all the posts. Or are they just looking to collect pictures, or pulling people's chains.

Just wondering.
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Another lazy rainy weekend
Posted:Sep 29, 2012 4:37 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
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Here is to another rainy lazy weekend. Time to relax from the labors of the week and to recharge the batteries. Be more fun with someone to play with. Still waiting for that to happen. Happy weekend to all.
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Food for thought for the swingle male
Posted:Sep 23, 2012 9:27 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
8133 Views

I didn't think that it would be so hard to find a friend on the adult sites such as this one. I have been a member of HotMatch.com and two other sites and I have yet to meet in person one person that is interested in a single male. Oh sure, they state in their profile that they are looking for....yada yada yada. Not so fast there partner.

What is meant is that unless you are a millionaire, in your 20's or possibly 30's, look like some famous movie actor, and have a 9" dick that never goes down, you have an equal chance as a snowball in hell to get past first base.

Cynical you say. I would like to think more of the reality of the situation.

Just thinking.
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The dreaded Single Male
Posted:Sep 15, 2012 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2015 7:39 pm
8118 Views

Good evening HotMatch.com friends and cohorts. I just spent The entire afternoon reading checking up on some of the DOS and don'ts for L S. And found that many of the courses of action that were taken or possibly lame and needed to be addressed before going any further. I found out that in the LS us single males are a dreaded disease to most couples. Having learned that I will attempt to conduct myself as a gentleman and follow the customs and usages within the LS. So please contact me and found out that I am not one of the DSM so often spoken about.
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More from the world
Posted:Sep 8, 2012 5:58 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 10:35 pm
8100 Views

Today was a great day. I went to a donut shop and lo and behold there was a girl working there that really got my attention. She had the hairiest arms that I have seen in a while. Not only that but it looked good too. Being the person I am, I told her that she had the most beautiful hairy arms and not to be embarrassed by it. She was a little shy about it. I asked her if she minded my comment and she said no. She did admit that she did get some pretty ugly comments in the past. I believe that even though she said the comments didn't hurt her, I knew that they had by the way she sounded and looked.

I told her not to be embarrassed in the least and that there are plenty of guys out there that liked to more natural looking ladies. I think I even got a smile from her before I left. I hope I made her feel better.

I'm going to go back again sometime just to get another look.
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