im new to the HotMatch.com site and when someone sends me a IM i can only say hi and then i guess it looks like i went off line so cant chat anymore does the same when i IM but people dont get my IM do you know what i can do to fix it ? also i have got alot in my HotMatch.com in box but when i click to look it wont let me just takes me back to my home page if you can help i would just be so greatful, thank you [ yesimfunwaitandc ]