Giving her (Great, Mind-Blowing, Unforgettable, Never leave you) oral sex
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Posted:Jan 25, 2015 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2015 10:14 am
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Once you're properly positioned, there are a number of things you can do in order to rock her world.
How often do you go down on your partner before intercourse? And intercourse aside, how often do you engage in oral sex just for the sake of... oral sex?
If the numbers are low, I have to say: You and are your partner are missing out. I mean, I know. It can be near-impossible to resist diving in to sexy time penis first. But an intense session of cunnilingus can definitely add something to your intimate life that neither of you are getting from the same old in-and-out.
For one thing, giving her oral sex can be a great form of foreplay. Your partner may not have mentioned this to you, but women typically are not ready for intercourse after just one arm caress and a boob grope. They often prefer a warming-up period in order to become physically and psychologically aroused, which, in turn, makes it easier for them to experience pain-free sex and, perhaps, even reach orgasm(s).
But oral sex doesn't even have to be used as foreplay. For a really intense sexual experience, try making cunnilingus the main event. In many cases, women orgasm more reliably from cunnilingus than they do from intercourse. But you have do it right. Giving her oral sex is not as simple as merely thrusting your tongue into her vagina and making it do the wiggle. Nay. Mind-blowing oral sex requires some actual technique.
Achieving a mount means that your mouth and her pubic area come together in such a way as to maximize the pleasure she experiences during your mouthy ministrations. a man's mount is the area of his upper lip just above his teeth. A woman's mount, meanwhile, is the center of the pubic bone, where there is a slight cradle into which your mount naturally fits. Connecting your respective mounts and maintaining that persistent connection throughout the process of arousal is essential to mind-blowing oral sex. Specifically, it allows you to firmly place your mouth just where it needs to be for maximum stimulation of your partner’s clitoris.
To make all of this easier, consider placing a pillow or two beneath her pelvis. It will make her hot spots easier to access. Once you're properly positioned, there are a number of things you can do in order to rock her world.
First, warm her up by caressing her inner thighs, breathing naturally so she can feel your breath on her clitoris and on the other areas of her vulva. This will help build up anticipation, making her squirm for more as you prepare to really impress her. Then, once you’re ready, begin licking her like an ice cream cone, in long, thick strokes that cover the entire area down there.
Let your licks gradually build up in intensity before plunging in fully. Once you’ve reached a certain rhythm, try mixing things up though you should remain mindful of how she's responding to your touch; if she's finding a specific rhythm or touch particularly pleasurable, she may never forgive you if you suddenly change course.
What else can you do down there? Use your lips to kiss her most intimate parts, alternating those particular kisses with smooches on her thighs. Lightly nibble and then suck on entire bits of her skin. The gentle suction will feel incredible, especially if you can still manage to continue using your tongue. Blow softly across her skin, teasing her with the new sensation. Don't be nervous about experimenting with different approaches when giving her oral sex.
Once found, a skilled cunnilinguist rarely goes unappreciated. But if you’re not sure exactly how, just press a flat, still tongue against her vulva and let her do the work. It’s the cunnilingus equivalent of letting her get on top.
Let her push and grind against your flat, still tongue — take it all in — and then spring back with a series of fast vertical and diagonal tongue strokes. Lick her senseless with a short burst of energy and then return to the flat, still tongue, waiting for yet another opportune moment to spring to life again.
What's most important while giving her oral sex is that you remain mindful of how she's responding to you. If she isn't responding, then do something else. Like the old saying, write a story with your tongue, if she doesn't like that one, then write a another story. You should never assume your partner is as excited as you are. Even if she's wet down there, her physical arousal may not be indicative of the psychological arousal she is — or isn't — feeling. Instead, you should be focusing on these other signs of physical arousal.
cunnilingus is "a delicate dance — and she’s leading you." If she's not exhibiting the signs above, continue to mix up your technique. If she's showing one or multiple signs of arousal, for the love of god, don't stop!
As you become more comfortable with the techniques above, it becomes easier. But, honestly, you don't need all those bells and whistles. You just need an enthusiasm for the job at hand — and a willingness to follow her lead.
So remember the Top 10
1- Want it
2- Move slowly
3- Use a strong tongue
4- Use fingers
5- Massage while you eat
6- Spread those lips
7- Penetrate her with your tongue
8- Suck that clitoris
9- Use a mint (optimal)
10- Have fun
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Threesomes: Make Them Happen
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Posted:Jan 25, 2015 4:41 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 7:48 pm
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When one partner suggests a threesome, it’s easy for the other to feel worried about the state of the relationship. Really, a threesome sex fantasy is a compliment.
Your ability to talk about a threesome is a good indicator of the strength of your relationship (and communication is key when it comes to making threesomes happen).
Can you two discuss other sexual topics openly and without embarrassment? If so, this chat is probably going to go a lot more smoothly. Start off by enjoying the concept of a threesome as a sexy secret fantasy between the two of you.
If your partner shows interest in an actual threesome, it’s time to hash out the details. How do you envision it? How does she? Setting up some threesome rules are a crucial part of pulling it off. Research shows that women can be awfully protective of their emotional bond with their boyfriend or husband. It’s important to realize that if she feels threatened by your “guest star,” your threesome is going to end pretty badly — and so might your relationship. Talk about the ground rules before the night begins: Are you OK with her kissing the third party?, Etc.
Discuss all the potential outcomes so you both know what to expect. Don’t push your partner into anything she’s not ready for. The best way to approach this situation, and an important threesome rule to follow, is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.
Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you. Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex from both women at once), enjoy everything that comes your way.
Keeping your hands moving and knowing when to penetrate are important threesome rules. Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to.
There are many men in this world who would love nothing more than to watch as their women made love with other women and then motioned them over to join in the fun. If she asks where you can find a woman and highly encourages your participation, don't get overly excited and start panting and salivating. Casually mention a few places that may make the "third party" finding process easier.
Friends and/or acquaintances are the best choices, if a female friend of your woman's has shown some sexual interest in her or "swings that way," then your lady can invite her over for dinner, drinks and perhaps a little party for three. Their is usually a trust and sometimes attraction between the 2 women.
Keep in mind that sometimes, even when you do everything right, some women will still refuse the invitation. And other times, a woman you just met might surprise you and yours with an interesting offer. But the only way you'll ever find out is by getting out there and discovering that world. Remember you only go around once in life, so don't miss out on any fun.
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Cool Sex Facts.
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Posted:Jan 25, 2015 6:48 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 1:05 pm
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According to the Museum of Sex, the vibrator was originally used as a medicinal treatment for female "hysteria" during the 19th century. The vibrator-induced orgasms helped doctors dissipate hysteria's anxiety-related symptoms.
Semen contains zinc and calcium, both of which are proven to prevent tooth decay.
The average size of an erect penis is five inches, and the average flaccid penis measures about 3 inches.
You burn about 200 calories during 30 minutes of active sex.
Orgasms are good for your health! They can lower a woman's risk of heart disease, stroke, breast cancer and even depression.
People who are more open to talking about sex are actually happier with their sex lives.
Ginger stimulates the feelings of excitement associated with sex.
Sperm can be considered an anti-aging treatment, as it has a tightening effect on the skin.
Endorphins released during sexual activity create a euphoria similar to opioid drug use.
30 percent of women have trouble reaching orgasm.
A man can reduce his chances of getting prostate cancer by having at least three orgasms a week. Take care of your man.
The average vagina is three to four inches long but can expand by 200 percent when sexually aroused.
Sex is 10 times more effective than Valium.
The amygdala, the part of your brain triggering fear and anxiety, shuts down when women have an orgasm.
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Threesome?
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Posted:Jan 24, 2015 8:23 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2015 8:24 pm
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The most common, which is where a straight couple introduce a second lady into the mix. My personal believe is that this is the most common because women tend to be more secure in their sexuality where the gentleman may be a little less so, I just want to point out that this is not saying that men are homophobic just that women tend to be more open minded in this regard. A third person in the bed can allow both sides of the equation experience a new level of excitement while also letting both the man and the woman to perhaps, learn new techniques to pleasure their partner. This can also hold true for the third person, they may find new ways of pleasing their partners. However a threesome does not have to be a learning experience for any of the persons involved, it can be just a whole lot of fun. happym; happyf;
On the one hand, being the lover to make a fantasy a reality can strengthen an already amazing relationship. Did you get that last part? “An already amazing relationship.” It won’t prove your love or fix a broken partnership. If you want to try a threesome, there must be a great level of trust and security on all sides. Do not feel pressured into sharing your body in any way that you don’t want to. And the relationship must be healthy and ready for this.
Communication is crucial, from beginning to end. Prepare together (go lingerie shopping). Set guidelines and safe words? *. Is kissing allowed? Eye contact? Your favorite position? Can they use the technique that makes you scream in ecstasy on the other person? Please don’t be afraid to end it right then and there if you feel violated. This allows you to nip naughty behavior in the bud and to keep you from regretting saying yes. If they love you they will respect your choice.
If your partner’s love is hinged on having a 3way, then it’s a love you can do without. Don’t do it to save the relationship! They will leave you in the end if that is what they want to do. Then you’re left feeling all types of yucky. You both have to want it equally. Don’t Do It For Your Partner! (Unless you are the type who is happy as long as your partner is happy). Do it because you feel comfortable and wish to explore and expand with a partner you trust.
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