My new profile
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Posted:Jan 31, 2017 8:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2017 7:58 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I am on here and a couple vanilla sites. I have been on the fish longer then any.
Maybe I'm going through a phase, I don't know. But I am tired of people not being what they say.
I realize this is a known sex site. I love this site, is it better then others, only for the reason sex, is up front, it's discussed. With that being said, I don't have to be on a dating site of any kind for just sex, unless that is what I am looking for.
I am and always have been looking for more then just sex. I changed my profile on the fish, and I'm changing mine here. The first thing I got from someone on the fish, was my standards were too high. I'm posting the new profile here, if the standards are too high, I guess I'm in a world of no hits on my profile. If that happens, so be it.
I still believe if you are wanting a relationship its out there. A relationship that includes sex.
I still believe in the whole package.
Have a wonderful day.
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the superbowl
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Posted:Jan 23, 2017 8:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2017 8:24 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I like live sporting events. Expecially the playoffs.
My greenbay packers lost, So, I have to pick a team I want to see win. It looks like its going to be atlanta.
The superbowl is in houston again. I was in houston a few years ago, when it iced and snowed during the superbowl. If I could have found someone to go, it was relatively easy to get tickets. But, alas I didn't go.
The game is going to be at Houston, it brought back my fond memories of houston.
Hopefully I get to work or visit the city for a week or so.
Anyhow, I have never been to a superbowl.
I hope I get the opportunity to do so again one day.
I can only imiagine the fun and excitement.
I'm off work this week, don't have a lover close to home. It's going to be a long week off.
Have a wonderful day.
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my favorite part of the day
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Posted:Jan 22, 2017 4:08 am
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2017 2:42 pm
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Good morning, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
This is my favorite part of the day.
I am enjoying my first cup of coffee.
Sitting in bed, listienting to the quiet.
On line, reading and answering emails.
The day has so many possibilities, make the best of them.
I think, the quiet is so lovely in the morning.
The only thing that would be more pleasurable is
you rolling over, giving me that lazy smile as you kiss me.
A lil morning fun, all the possibliities.
Have a great day.
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Can you love 2 people at the same time
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Posted:Jan 21, 2017 7:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2017 2:43 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I do have one.
One of my crew, and I had a discussion about can you love 2 people at the same time.
I guess first, it would depend on someones definiton of love, and do you believe in love. If you don't, then this is a moot blog.
My definition of love, is a person doing something for someone without expectations. Doing something because you want to, not because you are obligated. That is not putting them above you or below you, I believe two people should work together. Yes, one may require more attention then the other, and there are always more ifs, ands, or buts involved.
One statement said to me has stuck with me. "maybe if I loved her more".
I feel you either love someone or you don't. You can't love someone more, you either love them or not. Of course, what do I know.
For whatever reason, some of us are in relationships, and seeing other people as well. It could be for sex, compantionship, or whatever, but it's happening.
I have come to understand there are extenuating circumstances, such as an Illness. From talking to both parties, the sick one, and the other one, I can understand that situation. My eyes were opened when a female friend said she hoped her husband, would find someone for sex, as she had not had it with him, since she had some major medical stuff going on that would not change. The discussion was very involved, and it did open my eyes.
It seems many couples stay together for whatever reason, and one or both are stepping out. I guess from my perspective unless its medical, get a divorce, and move on.
I can understand being the person that loves someone you cannot be with, for whatever reason.
If that is you, you have some choices. 1) continue to see that person only
2) see that person enjoying what time you can with them, and seeing other people as well, or 3) move on.
Let's put it this way, I'm not saving myself for anybody. Unless someone says, Linda, I want to be exclusive, I am my own person, and will see whom ever I want to.
I believe there is always going to be that one person we will always love, people stay together for whatever reason and will step out, we can see others while still loving one.
If that person died, you would move on. If they are alive and not your partner, you figure out what is best for you.
I believe you can truly love one person, and care about the other. But, like I said earlier, what do I know.
So, my question to you is, can you love 2 people at the same time.
Have a great day.
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My bad
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Posted:Jan 9, 2017 7:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2017 4:02 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Plans are actually falling into place this week. yaaaaaaay
I showed up to the job site with my crew.
I evidentally read the email wrong, actually not the first one, but i missed the second one.
I received 2 emails with two different dates. For some reason, I clicked on the first attachment both times, and thought the date had been changed. It was on the first one, but not the second. ooooooops.
We are 2 days early. I told my boss when he was geting a lil lippy, what do you want us to do.
drive 5 hours home today, and drive 5 hours back on tuesday. A mistake has been made.
I would have been wonderful to have someone to whole up with for 2 days had I known, Oh, well.
It's colder then a well diggers ass here. It's not getting above freezing.
On Wednsday however, it will be in the high 60's, go figure. Of course that is the day we will start work. damn.
Have a wonderfuld day, and play nice in the sandbox today.
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North Carolina here I come
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Posted:Jan 7, 2017 10:33 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2017 2:40 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Like I said, I know mine will be there in a few days.
When it rains it pours. It's been a lil dry spell, not for lack of volunteers, haha
volunteers for sex, who would turn it down. you might be surprised, including me.
I have been under the weather since Christmas day, or trust me, things would have been going down.
This week in North Carolina will be very interesting.
My favorite by far best lover, I have not seen in about 5 years, lives close to my job site. . i definitely plan on seeing him.
One of my fwb's lives in NC. I know i have to tap that. I already talked to him.
There is a newbie, that I have contact with through my job, and he is going to be in NC for one or 2 days. This one and I have been tap dancing around this the last couple times we have been on the same job.
There is also a very first lover I would love to meet and catch up on old times.
I did a lot of work in North Carolina when I first started on line dating. I have very fond memories, and look forward to enjoying some of the best pleasure I know can be had.
So, it has been a couple weeks, I have been sick, and I am so ready.
I just wish I had more days to the job then I do. I am up for some much needed pampering.
Plus, I have a lot of work buddies I plan on seeing, Just to catch up with life.
Even though we will be traveling in the cold and snow, this will prove to be an interesting busy week.
Of course all this could go to hell in a hand basket as well. And then, there is always Plan B.
Lets the games begin.
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Who's the daddy
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Posted:Jan 5, 2017 6:54 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2017 7:12 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It seems mine will be there within the week.
This has been a crazy couple weeks off work for the holidays.
I traveled to wisconsin to see my family, got home to kentucky a couple days before new years.
I had new years plans change at least 3 times as well as plans this week get changed.
I figured for whatever reason, i was supposed to be, home, and just sat my ass at the house.
I had so much time with my two adult , it was fun.
I also had some sort of stomach virus that hit me on christmas day. I have had nausea which finally led to vomitting a couple days ago. which led me to the doctor. (If I remember, that is a decent blog as well).
Thank God, I feel like a new person this morning. My beloved coffee is staying right where it belongs. And, I can actually drink more then one cup, another thank God.
Where is all this going, well, here goes.
My who has a great boyfriend that I do like, took me out for dinner on new years eve day.
This dinner was actually our christmas. During dinner, she brings out her phone and says i have something to tell you.
I'm thinking, holy shit what is going down. The only thing I could think of was they were getting married. Noooooooooooooooo, they are having a baby. I totally thought she was pranking me.
Nooooooooooooooo, she wasn't.
I am totally excited for her. She is 31 and this is the first, and I am mom.
So, where am I going with this.
Everyone said I have been getting her morning sickness. Since I have been nauseous since christmas day. She found out she was pregnant on christmas eve.
Hey, it was a thought. Anyway, we were laughing and talking on the phone, about that, and she said jokingly you could be pregnant, and we could end up on
Jerry Springer. haha. 
The funny thing would be, Who's the daddy, not for my , but for me.
Wouldn't that be a hoot, a 60 year old and a 31 year old on the stage for Whoooooo's the daddy.
But, it would be the 60 year old looking for the baby's daddy. Toooooo funny.
I know, I have a crazy sense of humour.
It gave us both a good laugh.
Thank God, that won't be either one of us.
So, the stomach thing is finally gone, I'm off to traveling again. Have some work that dropped I will be doing this weekend.
Then off to North Carolina for a week to open a new store.
Have a great day.
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my new year wish
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Posted:Dec 31, 2016 11:09 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 11:38 am
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good morning, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Alas, my smile is there, but it is not secret.
It has been a crazay llast few days to say the least.
My new years plans got changed several times. I did have a dinner date, finished up the night at the swingers club in Lexington.
No, I didn't get lucky. I wasnt looking. At the sex club, I love to be a voyuer.
The guy that took me to dinner had never been. He enjoyed it.
Two things happened today. The first neighbor I met when I moved to the neighborhood, 10 years ago, was found dead this morning.
Another death to add to the many we had this year.
Second, My proceeded to announce she was pregnant while her and I were having our chirstmas. Im still letting that settle in. Definitely not what i expected, but it's also not a bad thing.
I just want to say, Life changes in blink of an eye. Be ready for anything.
If you are not happy in your current situation, whatever it is, do something to make a change.
Or, accept things, and do the best you can.
My wish for you is happiness. Everything else will fall into place.
Live to enjoy life and everything it has to offer.
Have a wonderful evening, and happy new year.
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Damn, I didnt show any skin
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Posted:Dec 30, 2016 10:07 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 11:38 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I'm smiling, but it's not that secret smile.
So, I was doing the chit chat thing. The getting to know you thing on the fish vanilla site.
We had the meet n greet set, and the new years date made. I'm like what the hell it's new years go for it all.
My profile pictures and profile words on the fish site are not at all as open as they are on this site. In other words, there is not a whole lot of skin going on.
Me and the guy were talking on a daily basis and texting as well.
The meat of the conversations and texts went from some sexual content to full blown on his part.
The guy kept wanting pictures. If you know me at all, you know I won't send naked pics until we are lovers.
Then you can take as many pictures of me naked.
Plus, I am soooooooooo lousy with phone sex.
So, this is where this is all going with this guy.
He would let me know he was getting his rocks off or just enjoyed getting the woody. Little did he realize this did not turn me on.
I would get the send me a picture all the time. Oh no it doesn't have to be naked, just more skin.
He sends me a dick picture. If any of you know me, that gets you no where. And he was wanting me to talk dirty on the phone. Did I say I suck at phone sex.
3 days ago, after I told him no with the pic again. I got the dear John letter.
I told him I had never had a guy tell me he had to reconsider and we wouldn't work out.
I'm like,a picture is a deal breaker. yikes.
For him it was. If he had only saw my HotMatch.com profile. He would have seen all the skin he wanted to. And he would have learned who i really was.
But, he was from a vanilla site. Some things we discussed, some not.
I totally love my sexual pleasure as well as yours. Once we do, I will send you all the naked pictures you want, and there will be some sexting in there.
But until I know you, a naked pic and some phone sex, is not going to make me cream my jeans.
I'm still chuckling on this one.
Make someone smile.
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sometimes we are in a slump
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Posted:Dec 28, 2016 7:17 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2017 7:19 am
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good morning, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. mine will be there eventually.
It seems forever, since i have posted a regular blog. i have let life get in the way, and i have had a lot of things going on since halloween. sometimes we let things get to us, and this has been the time for me. To me, it started about 6 months ago, with the change in my job. Right now though, that is my job, i still enjoy it, and hopefully i am dealing with the change as well.
I spent christmas with my family in wisconsin. My dad is 86 and not stopping. Since mom has passed a couple years ago, I want to spend christmas with daddy as long as he is here. He also loves his birthday party every year now. Those are the 2 times i will make sure i get to wisconsin.
I love my daddy and my family time with my siblings, even though it is not the same, and can be stressful. I am the peacemaker in the family, so I get everybody's moments dumped on me, but that is ok.
It seems also with all this, I have lost some of my interest on HotMatch.com as well. I guess, I get tired of all the BS that mainly goes on with any kind of dating site.
I still prefer HotMatch.com, as it allows me to blog, even though I have not posted on a regular basis, and I have not read many other blogs, something I also enjoy.
I also realize as things happen in life, we change our views and even our ways. I have been reflecting on things, and have come to some conclusions about my life.
I will be making some changes. I already have. I will eventually blog about them.
For now, I hope you did have a wonderful christmas, and you are getting back in the swing of things.
Have a wonderful day
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Merry Christmas
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Posted:Dec 25, 2016 5:17 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 11:38 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Merry Christmas, I hope you have a wonderful and blessed day.
As always, share that beautiful smile.
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What I learned about myself on the road to hana
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Posted:Dec 3, 2016 9:28 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 11:38 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there.
The road to Hana is about the experience and beauty on the way to Hana.
When you arrive at Hana, you will find some nice people, a post office and a lot of water.
You can turn around and go back, or continue on a much rougher road for about an hour, and you will find more beauty along the way. Time permitting, I would have drove on, but it was going to be dark before I got down that windy road. I headed back.
What I learned about myself while driving this road.
The beauty and the many stops along the way to my destination were the journey.
How many times have we not taken the time to enjoy the trip on the way to the destination.
How many times have we gone somewhere only to be disappointed at the end.
Here are a couple things I discovered about mymtrip,to Hana.
1. Enjoy the road to the destination, including your life story. Enjoy the ride, and take in as much as you can.
2. While on vacation, I want to enjoy myself. That may include getting high at any time, including when I wake up. Or, I may want to have an early morning drink. After all its vacation. I can't do either if I'm driving a rented car. I got rid of the car.
3. I chose public transportation, and walking, when my Ride was not available . It was enjoyable. And I could relax. It's awesome getting on a bus and having no specific destination. Just enjoy the ride.
4. Doing all the things in the tour guide, are not exactly my thing. The snorkeling cruises, the sunset cruises, the para sailing, and whatever else, is pretty much the same. Just a different country or state, and tend to be pricey. Do what you enjoy, not what theyntell,you,to enjoy.
5. No matter what I do chose to do, if I'm doing it with someone I enjoy being with,, I find pleasure in that.
The things one can discover about themselves on a 5 hour round trip on a windy curvy road, with several one lane bridges and passes to a destination and back.
Have a wonderful day.
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The road to hana
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Posted:Dec 1, 2016 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2016 5:54 pm
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Good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there.
I am in Maui on vacation. When asked what to do, we had several people suggest the road to Hana.
I figure this must be a pretty good place to visit.
It's about a 5 hour trip up and back, but only around 80 miles round trip.
It's up this windy curvy road. If you are driving, you are screwed.
You better be straight as a judge while driving this thing.
I drove to Hana. When you arrive there, there is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
It's all about the drive there.
Don't get me wrong, it was beautiful. But I won't drive it again. I will ride it.
The beauty is on the road to Hana.
How many of us have gone somewhere with so much anticipation only to be a lil disillusioned.
The pictures are from some of my stops. Like I said it was beautiful.
Have a great evening.
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