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Las Vegas fun
Posted:May 2, 2016 11:58 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 4:54 am
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If the Venus de Milo by Michaelangelo is the perfect female form and beauty, at another time in history, she would have been the model as Michaelangelo sculpted the statue. Her face was perfectly formed with brown eyes that seemed to sparkle when she smiled that huge smile that told you she had a bubbly fun personality. Her face was surrounded with long flowing raven black hair. She stood just 5 foot and her body was perfectly formed and toned. Her breasts were perky with big round nipples, neither too large or too small but perfectly sized for her body. Her skin was velvetly soft and smooth. Her pussy, so pretty and fine. But I am getting ahead of myself.

We had met online a few months before and talked on and off for those months. I had a business conference in Las Vegas and suggested she join me there for a couple days. She agreed and I sent her the money for her ticket. I had been at the conference for two days before she arrived. She sent me a text when her plane landed and when she was in the taxi. That gave me time to leave the meetings. We arrived in the lobby at almost the exact same time. I called out to her (I will call her Venus) and she turned with that huge glowing smile and from that moment I knew it was going to be a great time in Vegas. I really do not remember what we talked about as we walked through the casino and hallway to the elevator and into the hotel room. As the door as closing,

I reached out and we melted together, our lips touching, opening and our tongues began a passionate, intense deep kiss. I am sure she could feel my erection. I had been erect almost from the time we met in the hotel lobby, and frankly as we walked I didn’t care who saw the bulge in my pants.

We broke apart and I led her on a very short tour of the room. It was not a suite, but there was a nice sitting room with couch and chairs along one side of the room and a breakfast table on the other side. There was a Jacuzzi in the bathroom, but we were so busy we never used it. That experience will wait another time. Back in the sitting area, we stood and locked once again in a deep passionate kiss. My hand slid down her buttock on the outside of her jeans. Her ass was neither large or small. As I said, her body was perfectly formed and now my hands were beginning to explore, sliding up and down her leg, holding buttock and then sliding up her back and down this time sliding my hand inside her jeans to feel her smooth skin of her ass. Our tongues continued their dance, darting and dashing and twisting. I wanted her shirt off and she helped me slide it up and off over her head. I unsnapped her bra and threw it on the couch. My hand moved up to hold her breast firmly as our mouths met and our tongues continued their hot dance.

My hand slid off her breast and down her stomach. Her hand found my bulge and she began to massage it through my pants. My hand worked down her stomach and inside her pants to touch that magnificent pussy. I twiddled her clit and then my hand went back to her massaging her sides, and back. I unzipped her pants and they dropped to the floor. She began to undress me, and by now I was so ready to be naked. Our mouths were almost always locked together and even when we pulled away momentarily to shed clothes, it was momentary and we were soon locked in a kiss. I do love kissing, hot long, passionate kissing.

It did not take me long to be naked and now I reached into her panties and pulled them down and she kicked them off. I pulled back the covers on the bed and we were soon horizontal crosswise on the bed. Our tongues continued their playful party while our hands were roaming. Her breasts fit nicely in my hand and I twisted her nipple before moving it down between her legs finding her enlarged clit to massage. I rolled her clit moving my fingers from side to side and then sliding my fingers up and down her slit and finally into a very wet pussy. My finger easily slid in and out and I drew her juices out onto her clit while we continued the deep passionate kissing. Her hand was stroking my cock as we rolled around, kissing, stroking, massaging, fingering. She slid her leg between my legs and partly moved on top.

I was so turned on! We continued to kiss and play and I was so ready. She was on top of me slipping my cock into that sweet pussy. It was tight and I am thick. She worked at getting it in, and then began to ride moving back and forth and up and down. She leaned forward and our tongues resumed their play as our hips gyrated together my member feeling her wetness even through the rubber covering it. She rose back up, and my hands was grabbing her tits and fondling her nipples as she moved on me.

She was beginning to moan and maybe I was too. She continued for a while sometimes kissing, sometimes riding upright. Her legs drew tense and her moans got louder and she came. I would feel her clamp down and she stopped moving. It felt good. So good. I had not cum. I did not feel like cumming. I just liked fucking and fucking and fucking.

She lay in my arms. We kissed more, still passionate, still intense. But now it was time to get ready to do one of the traveling Broadway musicals. It was one of my favorites and I had seen it three times before, but I could see it time and time again. We played some blackjack and lost. We played at another table and lost. Then we tried roulette and lost again. It was late and I had early meetings. But I decided maybe we should go dancing. So off to a nightclub we went. It was packed bodies pressing bodies. Dancing? Not really. So we headed to a bar for a night cap. Now I was really tired and it was time for sleep.

We crawled into bed and I intended to sleep, but it began with a deep passionate kiss to say goodnight, but before the kiss was done, I was hard again and playing with her boobs and down into her pussy. So it began. And this time I crawled down and tasted her oh so sweet pussy. My tongue rolling her clit and licking and sucking. It was amazing not just to look at but to taste and play. Oh what a night!

I made my breakfast and meetings the next day, exhausted, but driven. I never fully recovered sleep until I was home. We spent the next evening at dinner. We had steak, Waygu beef.. $85/oz.. she had 6 oz and I had 8 oz.. over $1,000 just for the steak. Then the wine was over $500.. it was a $2,000 dinner... and that was followed by another play time.

I was sad to say goodbye. It was a most amazing time with my Venus de Milo.

Now I am headed again to Las Vegas next week and looking for someone to join me there at my expense of course.
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S O M E T I M E S
Posted:Apr 29, 2016 8:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2016 9:00 am
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Sometimes...

when you cry...

no one sees your tears.

Sometimes...

when you are in pain...

no one sees your hurt.

Sometimes...

when you are worried..

no one sees your stress

Sometimes...

when you are happy..

no one sees your smile .

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But FART!! just ONE time...

And everybody knows!!
Gotcha!! You thought it was going to be one of those heart-touching stories!
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SEX
Posted:Apr 22, 2016 9:29 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 4:54 am
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Everybody I know who has a usually calls him "Rover" or "Spot". I call mine Sex. Now, Sex has been very embarrassing to me. When I went to the City Hall to renew the dog's license, I told the clerk that I would like a license for Sex. He said, "I would like to have one too!" Then I said, "But she is a dog!" He said he didn't care what she looked like. I said, "You don't understand. ... I have had Sex since I was nine years old." He replied, "You must have been quite a strong boy." When I decided to get married, I told the minister that I would like to have Sex at the wedding. He told me to wait until after the wedding was over. I said, "But Sex has played a big part in my life and my whole world revolves around Sex." He said he didn't want to hear about my personal life and would not marry us in his church. I told him everyone would enjoy having Sex at the wedding. The next day we were married at the Justice of the Peace. My family was barred from the church from then on.

When my wife and I went on our honeymoon, I took the with me. When we checked into the motel, I told the clerk that I wanted a room for me and my wife and a special room for Sex. He said that every room in the motel is a place for sex. I said, "You don't understand. ... Sex keeps me awake at night." The clerk said, "Me too!"

One day I entered Sex in a contest. But before the competition began, the ran away. Another contestant asked me why I was just looking around. I told him that I was going to have Sex in the contest. He said that I should have sold my own tickets. "You don't understand," I said, "I hoped to have Sex on TV." He called me a show off.

When my wife and I separated, we went to court to fight for custody of the dog. I said, "Your Honor, I had Sex before I was married but Sex left me after I was married." The Judge said, "Same here!"

Last night Sex ran off again. I spent hours looking all over for her. A cop came over and asked me what I was doing in the alley at 4 o'clock in the morning. I said, "I'm looking for Sex." -- My case comes up next Thursday.

Well now I've been thrown in jail, been divorced and had more damn troubles with that than I ever foresaw. Why just the other day when I went for my first session with the psychiatrist, she asked me, "What seems to be the trouble?" I replied, "Sex has been my best friend all my life but now it has left me for ever. I can't live any longer being so lonely." and the doctor said, "Look mister, you should understand that sex isn't a man's best friend so go get yourself a dog."
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My friend always gets out of traffic tickets. This is how.
Posted:Apr 15, 2016 9:08 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2016 8:21 am
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My friend has an interesting way of getting out of traffic tickets. Let me tell you how. One time he was stopped by a cop for going faster than the posted speed limit. The cop asks my friend his name. See if you can follow this.
 
"Fred," he replies.
 
"Fred what?" the officer asks.
 
"Just Fred," the man responds.
 
When the officer presses him for a last name, the man tells him that he used to have a last name but lost it.
 
The officer thinks he has a nutcase on his hands but plays along with it. "Tell me Fred, how did you lose your last name?"
 
The man replies, "It's a long story so stay with me. I was born Fred Dingaling. I know, funny last name. The used to tease me all the time. So I stayed to myself. I studied hard and got good grades. When I got older I realized that I wanted to be a doctor. I went through college, medical school, internship, residency, finally got my degree so I was Fred Dingaling, MD. After a while I got bored being a doctor so I decided to go back to school. Dentistry was my dream. Got all the way through school, got my degree so I was now Fred Dingaling MD DDS. Got bored doing dentistry, so I started fooling around with my assistant. She gave me an STD. So, I was Fred Dingaling, MD DDS with STD. Well, the ADA found out about the STD so they took away my DDS so I was Fred Dingaling, MD with STD. Then the AMA found out about the ADA taking away my DDS because of the STD, so they took away my MD leaving me as Fred Dingaling with STD. Then the STD took away my 'dingaling' so now I'm just Fred."
 
The officer walked away in tears, laughing so hard and tore up the ticket.
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Springtime and BELLY BUTTONS ARE SHOWING!!
Posted:Apr 12, 2016 8:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2016 5:59 pm
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Isn't this a great testament to springtime bellybuttons??
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Got Stopped by a Cop
Posted:Apr 11, 2016 4:57 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2016 8:22 am
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So this is what happened:
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Then there is my Aunt Hazel who ended up in court.
Posted:Mar 31, 2016 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2016 12:03 pm
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This is the transcript:

Defense Attorney: Will you please state your age?
Auntie Hazel: I am 86 years old.
Defense Attorney: Will you tell us, in your own words, what happened the night of April 1st?
Auntie Hazel: There I was, sitting there in my swing on my front porch on a warm spring evening, when a young man comes creeping up on the porch and sat down beside me.
Defense Attorney: Did you know him?
Auntie Hazel: No, but he sure was friendly.
Defense Attorney: What happened after he sat down?
Auntie Hazel: He started to rub my thigh.
Defense Attorney: Did you stop him?
Auntie Hazel: No, I didn't stop him.
Defense Attorney: Why not?
Auntie Hazel: It felt good. Nobody had done that since my Albert died some 30 years ago.
Defense Attorney: What happened next?
Auntie Hazel: He began to rub my breasts.
Defense Attorney: Did you stop him then?
Auntie Hazel: No, I did not stop him.
Defense Attorney: Why not?
Auntie Hazel: His rubbing made me feel all alive and excited. I haven't felt that good in years!
Defense Attorney: What happened next?
Auntie Hazel: Well, by then, I was feeling so "spicy" that I just laid down and told him, "Take me, young man. Take me now!"
Defense Attorney: Did he take you?
Auntie Hazel: Hell, no! He just yelled, "April Fool!" And that's
When I shot him, the little bastard!!!!
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The banana Test
Posted:Mar 30, 2016 8:20 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2016 8:21 am
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There is a very, very tall coconut tree and there are 4 animals, a Lion, a Chimpanzee, a Giraffe, and a Squirrel, who pass by. They decide to compete to see who is the fastest to get a banana off the tree. Who do you guess will in?

Your answer will reflect your personality.

So think carefully . . . Try and answer within 30 seconds...Got your answer?

Now scroll down to see the analysis.

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If your answer is:

Lion = you're dull.

Chimpanzee = you're a moron.

Giraffe = you're a complete idiot.

Squirrel = you're just hopelessly stupid.

A COCONUT TREE DOESN'T HAVE BANANAS.

Obviously you're stressed and overworked. You should take some time off and relax!
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She had the looks and body of Venus de Milo
Posted:Mar 29, 2016 8:40 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 4:54 am
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If the Venus de Milo by Michaelangelo is the perfect female form and beauty, at another time in history, she would have been the model as Michaelangelo sculpted the statue. Her face was perfectly formed with brown eyes that seemed to sparkle when she smiled that huge smile that told you she had a bubbly fun personality. Her face was surrounded with long flowing raven black hair. She stood just 5 foot and her body was perfectly formed and toned. Her breasts were perky with big round nipples, neither too large or too small but perfectly sized for her body. Her skin was velvetly soft and smooth. Her pussy, so pretty and fine. But I am getting ahead of myself.

We had met online a few months before and talked on and off for those months. I had a business conference in Las Vegas and suggested she join me there for a couple days. She agreed and I sent her the money for her ticket. I had been at the conference for two days before she arrived. She sent me a text when her plane landed and when she was in the taxi. That gave me time to leave the meetings. We arrived in the lobby at almost the exact same time. I called out to her (I will call her Venus) and she turned with that huge glowing smile and from that moment I knew it was going to be a great time in Vegas. I really do not remember what we talked about as we walked through the casino and hallway to the elevator and into the hotel room. As the door as closing, I reached out and we melted together, our lips touching, opening and our tongues began a passionate, intense deep kiss. I am sure she could feel my erection. I had been erect almost from the time we met in the hotel lobby, and frankly as we walked I didn’t care who saw the bulge in my pants.

We broke apart and I led her on a very short tour of the room. It was not a suite, but there was a nice sitting room with couch and chairs along one side of the room and a breakfast table on the other side. There was a Jacuzzi in the bathroom, but we were so busy we never used it. That experience will wait another time. Back in the sitting area, we stood and locked once again in a deep passionate kiss. My hand slid down her buttock on the outside of her jeans. Her ass was neither large or small. As I said, her body was perfectly formed and now my hands were beginning to explore, sliding up and down her leg, holding buttock and then sliding up her back and down this time sliding my hand inside her jeans to feel her smooth skin of her ass. Our tongues continued their dance, darting and dashing and twisting. I wanted her shirt off and she helped me slide it up and off over her head. I unsnapped her bra and threw it on the couch. My hand moved up to hold her breast firmly as our mouths met and our tongues continued their hot dance.

My hand slid off her breast and down her stomach. Her hand found my bulge and she began to massage it through my pants. My hand worked down her stomach and inside her pants to touch that magnificent pussy. I twiddled her clit and then my hand went back to her massaging her sides, and back. I unzipped her pants and they dropped to the floor. She began to undress me, and by now I was so ready to be naked. Our mouths were almost always locked together and even when we pulled away momentarily to shed clothes, it was momentary and we were soon locked in a kiss. I do love kissing, hot long, passionate kissing.

It did not take me long to be naked and now I reached into her panties and pulled them down and she kicked them off. I pulled back the covers on the bed and we were soon horizontal crosswise on the bed. Our tongues continued their playful party while our hands were roaming. Her breasts fit nicely in my hand and I twisted her nipple before moving it down between her legs finding her enlarged clit to massage. I rolled her clit moving my fingers from side to side and then sliding my fingers up and down her slit and finally into a very wet pussy. My finger easily slid in and out and I drew her juices out onto her clit while we continued the deep passionate kissing. Her hand was stroking my cock as we rolled around, kissing, stroking, massaging, fingering. She slid her leg between my legs and partly moved on top.

I was so turned on! We continued to kiss and play and I was so ready. She was on top of me slipping my cock into that sweet pussy. It was tight and I am thick. She worked at getting it in, and then began to ride moving back and forth and up and down. She leaned forward and our tongues resumed their play as our hips gyrated together my member feeling her wetness even through the rubber covering it. She rose back up, and my hands was grabbing her tits and fondling her nipples as she moved on me.

She was beginning to moan and maybe I was too. She continued for a while sometimes kissing, sometimes riding upright. Her legs drew tense and her moans got louder and she came. I would feel her clamp down and she stopped moving. It felt good. So good. I had not cum. I did not feel like cumming. I just liked fucking and fucking and fucking.

She lay in my arms. We kissed more, still passionate, still intense. But now it was time to get ready to do one of the traveling Broadway musicals. It was one of my favorites and I had seen it three times before, but I could see it time and time again. We played some blackjack and lost. We played at another table and lost. Then we tried roulette and lost again. It was late and I had early meetings. But I decided maybe we should go dancing. So off to a nightclub we went. It was packed bodies pressing bodies.

Dancing? Not really. So we headed to a bar for a night cap. Now I was really tired and it was time for sleep.

We crawled into bed and I intended to sleep, but it began with a deep passionate kiss to say goodnight, but before the kiss was done, I was hard again and playing with her boobs and down into her pussy. So it began. And this time I crawled down and tasted her oh so sweet pussy. My tongue rolling her clit and licking and sucking. It was amazing not just to look at but to taste and play. Oh what a night!

I made my breakfast and meetings the next day, exhausted, but driven. I never fully recovered sleep until I was home. We spent the next evening at dinner. We had steak, Waygu beef.. $85/oz.. she had 6 oz and I had 8 oz.. over $1,000 just for the steak. Then the wine was over $500.. it was a $2,000 dinner... and that was followed by another play time.

I was sad to say goodbye. It was a most amazing time with my Venus de Milo.
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She was wiping between her legs
Posted:Mar 25, 2016 10:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2016 5:23 pm
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I am headed to Costa Rica next week for a family vacation. Flying reminds me of one time I was flying and there was a woman sitting next to me in first class. The woman sneezed and took a tissue and wiped between her legs. I saw what she did and thought it was a little strange (wouldn’t you?). When the woman sneezed again and took a tissue and wiped between her legs, I was really puzzled at what she was doing. Once again the woman sneezed and again took a tissue and wiped between her legs.

I could not contain my curiosity any longer; I had to ask her, “I couldn’t help noticing that every time you sneeze you wipe between your legs. Why are you doing that?”

To which she responded, “It's a medical problem. I orgasm when I sneeze.”

“Oh I'm sorry. What do you take for it?”

She smiled and said, “Pepper.”

That is why I always take a can of pepper with me when I am flying.

Have a great rest of the week and great weekend!! (and yes, it was a joke, not a true story) And there is a new scientific study out that says happiness begins at 50 years of age. I am over that. One of the top ten reasons is that when you are over 50 you can tell more jokes and a second reason if when you are over 50, you have an excuse for telling the same stories (and jokes) over and over again.
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The Pasta Diet and Your Health
Posted:Mar 24, 2016 8:33 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 4:54 am
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ITALIAN PASTA DIET -- IT REALLY WORKS !!

1.. You walka pasta da bakery.
2.. You walka pasta da candy store.
3.. You walka pasta da Ice Cream shop.
4... You walka pasta da table and fridge.
You will lose weight!


And...

For those of you who watch what you eat, here's the final word on nutrition and health. It's a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.

1. The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
3. The Chinese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
5. The Germans drink a lot of beer and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION

Eat and drink what you like.

Speaking English is apparently what kills you.
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Up your dating game with strategic touch
Posted:Mar 23, 2016 9:38 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2016 8:23 am
8364 Views

I copied this but forgot where.. It is still worth reading.

How to send your date's sexual mercury through the roof

Cheek
When The moment she arrives.
How Go French and kiss her gently on each cheek says Dr Simon Moore, co-author of Complete Psychology.
Why A recent University of California study found two light, quick kisses was the most positive potential greeting for a member of the opposite sex on a date.

Upper arm
When On the way to the restaurant.
How “Initiate non-predatory, non-sexual contact as quickly as possible,” says Judi James, author of The Body Language Bible. “Think of it as a ‘checking’ touch.”
Why A study by Missouri Western University in the US found even a slight hand brush on the upper arm was enough to cement a positive opinion of the giver.

Shoulder
When Arriving at the restaurant.
How “Help her out of her coat while you continue talking,” says Moore. Touch at least one shoulder cleanly.
Why In a study at DePauw University in the US, volunteers were able to communicate ‘love’ to a blindfolded stranger’s shoulder with 78% accuracy.

Back
When Showing her to her seat.
How “Her back is a hugely sexual area,” says James. “Start with non-sexual, flat-hand touching – you aren’t playing a piano – before graduating to light finger play as the evening progresses: later, try running your fingers in small semicircles on her back.”
Why “This is a non-personal area, so a great place to stroke if you’re not yet certain that anything more obvious would be welcome,” says James.

Forearm
When She’s finished her main course.
How Her temperature is building: it’s time for a definitive move, says James. “The inside of her lower arm – near her wrist – is your target.”
Why A Kinsey Institute study showed the wrist was one of a woman’s most responsive areas.

Palm
When Any time you really make her laugh.
How You’re already one nil up. “As you sell your punch line, touch her palm, almost accidentally as you gesticulate,” says Moore. “If she touches you back, keep this up – increasing duration each time you make a key point or reach a punchline.”
Why “Her hands, mouth and tongue have the most sensory representation in her brain – and are the most responsive to touch,” explains US sex therapist Nan Wise. As you won’t be touching her mouth

Waist
When As you’re leaving the restaurant.
How Don’t whip her into your body, Flamenco dancerstyle, but execute a gentle, non-pressing arm around her waist, says James. “Just keep away from her stomach – women are uncomfortable being touched there.”
Why Close proximity to your body heat will raise hers. Plus, a Queen’s University study in Canada, found women take sexual clues from ‘safe’ touch, such as around her waist.

Hand
When Hailing a cab for your next stop.
How Open the car door for her and take her hand.
Why “This is a friendly, a ectionate gesture and strengthens your bond,” says James. A study by the University of Illinois found that even (seemingly) incidental contact like this between tutors and students could significantly strengthen their bond.

Knee
When In a late-night bar, alone.
How It’s do or die time. “Reach over and gently stroke the back of her knee or top of her calf,” says Wise. “Areas like these and her underarms are both underrated and extremely erogenous.” Just don’t go for her underarms on date one.
Why “Skin surfaces that don’t get a lot of attention are more sensitive to touch because they haven’t been exposed to as many stimuli,” says Wise. Time for another cab soon…

Fingers
When As you’re relaxing in the taxi.
How “Run your fingers around her palm, before gently meshing your fingers with hers,” says James.
Why “This mimics how your bodies interconnect during intercourse,” says James. It’s a protective and intimate move that should get you invited in for coffee.

So, after reading it, what does everybody think? Me personally, I think it might work...in some cases. Here are my thoughts...

If woman is quite interested in the guy and thinking she might be interested in sleeping with him then this touch could be what slowly turns her on enough to get her over the edge. If on the other hand she is going on the date and is not initially all that attracted to the guy this amount of touching could be what turns her off. I think would would be important here would be to do a first time touch, making it look casual and judge her reaction. Is she looks uncomfortable and starts to withdrawn her appendages into a closed off stance then back off and take the hint. If she leans on more, giggles, touches her hair, looks deep into your eyes, etc, then she might be ready for the next subtle touch and will start to do some touching of her own.

Has anyone used these touching techniques to turn a woman on? Does anyone want to try them? Who thinks this is silly and never going to work?
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Why is Fantasy so Important in the Bedroom? Your thoughts
Posted:Mar 21, 2016 9:08 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 4:54 am
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We tend to have a narrow view of fantasy, in terms of when it is incorporated into our sex lives. Specifically, much view fantasy as something that is strictly a solo daydream, or that it is a special or kinky thing we do with our partner when we dress up or engage in role playing.

Really, fantasy is part of nearly every sexual encounter, from sending flirty sexts before the sex actually happens to the different power dynamics we adopt in bed with our partner that ma iny not exist in our regular everyday relationship.

Renowned sex educator, Dr. Ian Kerner, adds, ‘Fantasy is the fast-track to amplifying arousal and enhancing orgasm. The brain is the biggest sex organ and men and women have the power to virtually think their way to orgasm. Unfortunately, couples don’t always develop their sexual imaginations together, so finding ways to stimulate fantasy together is essential.’

Dr. Zhana, sex educator and researcher, says ‘Fantasy allows our brains to play out different scenarios, safely experimenting with different sexual experiences and creating ideal encounters. It helps us decide what we really want to try in the bedroom and what we might want to keep as a fantasy alone. Many people, women especially, find that fantasizing during sex helps them enhance mental, and therefore physical, stimulation needed to reach orgasm. A sexy thought can lead to a physically aroused state and enhance an experience with a partner. So, fantasy is not only important for exploring sexuality, it actually helps people achieve sexual satisfaction. ‘

Fantasy feeds the mind and stretches our understanding of the world. Imagination and the ability to play are essential to great sex! While many think of sex as a predominantly physical activity, the key to good sex isn’t just mastery of physical moves but understanding of the emotional and intellectual elements that make a particular partner tick. That’s why many are attracted to BDSM and role play–it’s not simply the physical sensations of a scene but also the calculated and controlled change in emotional dynamic that occurs between a dominant and submissive partner. Everything counts in a sexual encounter like this.’

So do you agree? What Fantasies do you prefer and practice? What has worked? What has not worked?
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