Monday 7/12 Cars are such a pain
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Posted:Jul 12, 2010 9:49 am
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2010 9:13 am
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Gym update - Bike this AM and will try to get weights in tonight
Weight - back to 170 - damn I'm bouncing around LOL
Book - another 5 pages last night
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Cars can be such drama queens! You treat them with kindness, give sips of oil, buy them new tires to make them feel all special and what do the bitches do? They start making new noises - like the AC is going to go out in the middle of the summer. All I ask is one week of peace and quiet. Is that too much to ask?????
Damn, sounds like I'm married to my car doesn't it? Well sometimes cars can be like dates, girl friends and wives so I need to get over it. When working on a car become a labor of love; a hobby, then you enjoy a little "Oh please tighten it up some there" and maybe a little "Put that dipstick in deeper big boy" LOL! The trick is to fall in love with what(who) you love. Then you don't mind the noise when she throws a fan belt at you.
I just spent all morning working on my 8 year old car. 118,000 miles and running strong. How many of you can say that about a wife?
Any ladies out there need a tuneup?
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Sunday Morning 7/11 A convenience store day
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Posted:Jul 11, 2010 4:17 am
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2010 10:38 am
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Gym update - too early in the day
Weight update - same - damn plateau
Book update - read some yesterday - He is setting the basics. We run from pain and run to pleasure. Well Duh!
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Waking up early on a Sunday Morning remind me of when I was in my 20's. The sun just peaking out, cool mist in the air and I was ready for a cup of coffee, paper from a 7/11 of course - Good Morning Abu - and just being on my front porch swing. Hell, it don't get no better than that! Well, maybe - sometimes I had wine.  (Does that make me a drunk? It was 5 o'clock somewhere in the world.)
Anyway, it could have been better but I wasn't married or dating most of the time. Sitting there with something soft would have been nice. Hell, I spent more time with my dog - Rufus was a 90lb yellow lab - then I did dating. Just wasn't on my radar to plan and line up dates(pre-internet remember?). Work, life and being peaceful was about the whole of it.
Been a lot of years since then and I still enjoy Sunday mornings. I have 2 dogs now(Rufus would be able to eat both of these and come back wanting more...LOL ) I now look from the deck over the back yard(swatting the damn bugs) instead of sitting on my front porch swing. The wife is in bed so it seems to be about the same - Me and my dog(s). Such is life...
Oh, this isn't going anywhere.  - no rants, no jokes, just being me. Did this make you long for a simpler time? Peace is where you can find it. Look inside and just be.
Any ladies out there need their coffee warmed up?
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Friday 7/9 Need a little help. Backing up blogs
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Posted:Jul 9, 2010 8:13 am
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2010 9:13 am
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I logged in this morning to check my blog and nearly had a heart attack. It said I was welcomed to start a blog. "WHAT THE F***!" There are over a year of written articles and I have not kept a backup. I know, "you stupid sh**!"
Does anyone know of a way to back these things up besides cutting and pasting or saving the page as an html file? I can do both but it sure would be nice if there was a button to generate a zip file.(yes, I'm too much a techie for this site and all the more reason for someone to bitch slap me for not worrying about backups before now.)
Suggestions are welcome. If this is a problem for a lot of people maybe we need to make a suggestion to the people who censor us.
Enjoy the weekend!
I think I just found one way. There is an RSS feed that you can use. Lets see what I can do that that. If anyone wants me to try to back theirs up I can try to help. Just email me.
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Thursday 7/8 Why do I feel like this is a research paper
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Posted:Jul 8, 2010 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2010 4:45 am
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Reader comment off a prior blog - "Do you have any fantasies that have yet to fulfill? If more than one, which is your ultimate fantasy?
I answered as truthfully as I could below
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fan·ta·sy
1. imagination, esp. when extravagant and unrestrained.
2. the forming of mental images, esp. wondrous or strange fancies; imaginative conceptualizing.
3. a mental image, esp. when unreal or fantastic; vision: a nightmare fantasy.
4. Psychology . an imagined or conjured up sequence fulfilling a psychological need; daydream.
5. a hallucination.
6. a supposition based on no solid foundation; visionary idea; illusion: dreams of Utopias and similar fantasies.
7. caprice; whim.
8. an ingenious or fanciful thought, design, or invention.
9. Also, fantasia. Literature . an imaginative or fanciful work, esp. one dealing with supernatural or unnatural events or characters: The stories of Poe are fantasies of horror.
10. Music . fantasia ( def. 1 ) .
–verb (used with object), verb (used without object)
11. to form mental images; imagine; fantasize.
12. Rare . to write or play fantasias.
Whew! Do I have a sexual fantasy? To decide that I first have to define "fantasy" - to understand what mental story I would love to experience. We all(deep down silly) want someone to love and to be with. This is more of a goal than a fantasy. Whim(def. no 7) is probably the best way to discuss it. You don't have to live it long term and you don't think its possible. A whim is light, flippant and decided to do on the spot - no thinking, planning or thoughts of repercussions.
I used to put my bike on the back of the car, start driving in a direction and then decide where to go for the weekend. That is a whim. The question is what sexual encounter would I like that is a spur of the moment? AH! How off the wall can I get....LOLOLOL!
I've gone down this path so that I can separate my run of the mill dreams from what would knock my socks off. What event would rock my world? What would qualify in your world?
In today's world, filled with porn, sexy ads in the Sunday paper and sites like this, - defining my dream physical encounter is pretty tough. Let's take a different approach. What thoughts gets my blood stirring? Maybe the idea of a gal in a slinky dress(black string straps or sun) coming up to me in a bar. Her dress material sliding over her as she slowly dances with me is a good starting place. The thought of feeling her soft, well rounded tits through that single layer of silk, against my chest, make me smile too. Add in a night at the local swinger lounge and you might have a hot evening. Once the stage is set, the fantasy will have a life of its own.
I'm not looking for a life style change but being physically close to a living porn movie has to be hot! Oh I know the "life style" is a lot more than my simple stated description. You have to remember, for someone who is on the outside looking in, it would appear to be that sometimes. I'm sorry if this offends anyone.
I guess I'm wanting to be close to the heat of the moment. If the night progresses as planned there will be lots of physical contact later. Its the experience of enjoying the energy that I probably crave. Oh and while we are talking about a whim - I might as well throw in a second hot chick. Heck, we all can dream, can't we?
Here's to dreams and fantasies - they are the spice of life.
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Thursday 7/8 Questions? Thoughts? Comments?
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Posted:Jul 8, 2010 7:49 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2010 9:04 pm
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Gym update - this afternoon. Way too much going on this morning.
Weight - 170 out with friends last night
Book - Read a chapter before bed. Only people who believe they can - can
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I've spent a lot of time on here writing, spewing and putting down bluster. I have never asked what you might want to hear. Today is your day! Each question/responce will be taken on its face value and I will answer no matter how silly, embarrassing or truthful I have to be. My reply will give opinions like a political analysis and answers as honest as a 4 year old(can't get much more honest than that unless they know they have been caught ).
I reserve the right to make you laugh and not give away personal information. If requested, the answer will be in a private email...
So any ladies out there want to fire away???
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Wed 7/7 Waiting for the repair woman
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Posted:Jul 7, 2010 11:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2010 9:24 pm
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Gym update - 30 mins on bike and weights
weight - 167.4lbs Don't know why but it seems to be coming down.
Book update - Finished last junk book so my plate is clean. I will start reading Tony tonight.
(Tell me if there are too many update - this is the only way I can make myself do things. If I publish then I either lie or I have to do it.)
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Did I hear the door bell ring twice? Is that the postwoman? How about sitting in the back of a taxi and wondering how she takes propositions? Right now I'm waiting for a fridge repair person. Do you think I can play the horney houseman if its a repair lady?
We all seem to have role reversals today. No silly, I'm not talking about when a gal wants on top. That's called heaven... I'm talking about male nurses, female cops and stay-at-home dads. And before you start in on me, I applaud each and every one for their choice of a job. I'm happy if their decision make them happy. What I'm talking about is how things have changed from when I was growing up. I figured using job reversal would be a good way to get you to think about this.
Our attitude about sex has changed also. So many ads, books and movies pour out hours and hours of arms, legs, boobs and butts. I am amazed at how we have gone from being surprised by nude French playing cards(when I was 12) to saying "ho hum" to a transvestite discussing a pile. Anyone want to call this progress?
Let's take women in the service as another example. Their advancement is one of the best things that has happened. Have you ever watched a WWII movie? The ladies are either hiding in the back ground or standing next to John W.(not Wad silly - Wayne...LOL )showing off their ice breaker tits. Whew! You could chip a tooth on those. The way that today's gals have stepped up has to make a guy smile. Hell, they do that anyway!
I guess what I'm saying is that gender jobs are slowly dieing.(except pole dancers at PT's. UGH! Male pole dancers? Not for me! ) The glass ceiling has been shattered( Oh come on - someone argue that it isn't) and we are on our way to a unisex world. Just waiting for the common public bathrooms - 
I'm not advocating going back - oh no no no! I'm just musing on how things have changed. What has been the biggest change for you? Stories are always welcome.
Any ladies need help stringing up a corset?
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Tuesday 7/6 I Believe
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Posted:Jul 6, 2010 11:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2010 7:45 pm
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Gym update - probably won't happen today. Have a business meeting at 5 and I have lots of running around to do until then.
Tomorrow morning - bright and early - U betcha
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Ever try to read a book that was like quiting smoking? I've had a Tony Robins book I've wanted to read, needed to read and will read one of these days!(Sound like a smoker wanting to quit?) Well I have picked it up and started over - again . [Tony Robbins - Awaken the Giant Within - copyright 1991.] I've had this book since 1995 and still believe in its ability to change my life. (Do I hear an "I AM"? )
The basis of the book is that we are what we believe we are. To phrase it another way - I am sexy because I believe I am sexy. What better way is there to look at yourself and life? He used the book to get across this idea and how to view/change/enhance your life.
There are lots of other organizations that believe this also but his is a non-religion based method. Oh I've seen and talked to some of his followers and they appear to worship him. Some people will latch on to any method to try to make themselves feel better. Worry not! This aint me - I just like the concept and would like to put it into practice.
We all do some of this at one time or another. We buy a great looking outfit and the when we are looking in the mirror, we tell ourselves - "Damn, I'm hot!" And - poof! - you are. Try it sometime. It really really works!
This blog isn't about sex. It's about me using the written word to express my confidence that "I will" finish the book this time.
Good luck to everyone trying to steer their path. Maybe a few "I AM's" will bolster your resolve and speed you on your way.
Any ladies out there want to help me read? I need some handling to stay the course...
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Monday 7/5 What another blog?
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Posted:Jul 5, 2010 7:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2010 7:37 pm
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Gym update - yard work and sweat - don't get no better
Weight was 169 this am so we shall see if it keeps going down. The goal was 160 by June but life happen. Pick yourself up and keep going.
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How was everyone's weekend? Did you have a hot date? BBQ's with friends? How about chilling and getting your head back on straight? Long holiday weekends give us a chance to unwind, kick back and just be - AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
I had a pretty good weekend (if you don't count the refrigerator dieing). Lots of work got accomplished and sweating occurred outside along with replacing the fluids with beer. Always fun! It could have been better but somehow sex just wasn't in the forecast. One hopes and prays but the crystal ball just stays cloudy. It happens when it happens. I also got to see family and talk to friends. A few hours were spent with a buddy who is rehabbing an interesting house. It seems that there is always a breeze. I've been over there at 6 am and 9 pm - heaven. He picked a great house to enjoy.
Picking a house is like picking your friends. You want to feel comfortable in it(with them) any time of the day or night. You want the conversation breeze to flow with no effort and have it filled with light hearted mirth. The back and forth should come easy and you should enjoy being in the company of your house. It should never be strained. Heck, the same could be said about sex.
I've told my friend many times how much I like this house. I hope I've told my friends too. As the summer progresses, I guess I will have to see which way the wind is blowing.
Any ladies out there want to strike up a light and breezy discussion?
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Monday 7/5 Using someone elses words
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Posted:Jul 5, 2010 4:14 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2010 9:06 am
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Little sister by the record machine
l'm tired of dancin', said she's sweet 16
She's goin' out she's gonna party tonight
She's gonna shake and make it last all night
Little girl has got a drivin' machine
about to drive it's such a clean machine
Their goin' out their gonna put out the lights
Their gonna ROCK IT, ROCK IT, ROCK IT!
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, so right
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, all night
You can still rock in America
Little sister makes a move for the door
though it squeeks she's on the second floor
her daddy winks, is everything ok
not a sound and she makes a get away
Little girl has got it ready to roll
tires burnin' as she heads for the show
knock it off until the music gone loud
and ROCK IT, ROCK IT, ROCK IT
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, so right
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, all night
You can still rock in America
Rock in America
You can still
Rock in America
Rock in America
Rock in America
Yeah you can still, Rock in America
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, so right
You can still rock in America
Oh yeah, all night
You can still rock in America
You can still rock in America
Why you can still rock in America
Party on dudes.........
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Sunday 7/4 Happy 4th
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Posted:Jul 4, 2010 4:49 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2010 12:15 pm
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Gym update
5 hrs digging, moving and hauling dirt
Don't need no stinking Gym...
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All I can say is have a bang up day. Make your own fireworks.
Maybe one of these days SB and I will -
Any ladies out there need help with a 5th on this wonderful 4th?
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Sat Morning 7/3 When did I turn into a joke???
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Posted:Jul 3, 2010 5:09 am
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2010 8:22 pm
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Too early for a gym update.....maybe later
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An elderly couple had dinner at another couple's house,
and after eating, the wives left the table and went into the kitchen.
The two gentlemen were talking, and one said, 'Last night
we went out to a new restaurant and it was really great... I would recommend it very highly.'
The other man said, 'What is the name of the restaurant?'
The first man thought and thought and finally said, 'What is the name of that flower you give to someone you love?
You know.... The one that's red and has thorns.'
'Do you mean a rose?'
'Yes, that's the one,' replied the man.
He then turned towards the kitchen and yelled, 'Rose, what's the name of that restaurant we went to last night?'
Enjoy the day and the weekend. Just remember why we have it.
Any ladies out there want to tie a string on my thing to remind me of stuff?
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Friday 7/2 Time to give till it hurts!
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Posted:Jul 2, 2010 6:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2010 8:15 pm
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Gym update
30 mins on bike and yard work this afternoon.
Lets hope that is enough
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This weekend any true AMERICAN will stop and this about the freedoms we enjoy. Along with that is the responsibility and obligation to defend/fight for them. Yes dear friends this is a notice that we should look deep in our souls and ask ourselves - "What have we given to a Veteran lately???"
I propose, since this is a sex web site, that we mix business with pleasure. You know, go fuck em for Old Glory!!!!! Yes, go make an armed forces person smile. Either volunteer for BJ duty or be prepared for short arms inspection. GIVE TILL IT HURTS.....THEY HAVE!
I have a lot of respect to for people that put themselves in harms way so I don't have to. Please, at least, stop one of our fine fighting machines and tell them thanks! They are what stands between us and a Taliban form of government( UGH!)
Too preachy for ya? Get over it! Go fuck a man/woman in uniform and tell them to keep up the good work.
Any Sergent Major ladies want to help me in my quest to give back a little?
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Thursday 7/1 When it turns to phone calls
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Posted:Jul 1, 2010 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2010 8:19 pm
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Gym update
Finally went today - not tired but I really need to keep it going.
Does the body good....
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Ah, the first personal contact! IM's are fun but can you fully gauge the measure of him/her? Emails??? Give me a break. They can be studied, reflected upon and rewritten over and over until each phrase is just right. I know I've seen some that look like they were written by a first grader but that just goes to show you never know the real person behind the keyboard.
Now I contend that it takes a phone call to really start breaking down the mask and finding the soul of your cohort in conversation. You get to hear the timber, tone and soft laughter as you connect(or not...LOL! ). Its like the first kiss. If you hit too many rough patches or dead spots....you have blown it. Its a moment you can never get back.
I had a first encounter today. Just a wonderful lady, smart and sexy. How did it go, you ask? Damn good question(hope she isn't reading this...LOL ) She was at work and I was wandering around the house. How do you engage in a sex crazed conversation when you know the other one is at work? Ya I know, go for it anyway. They will just have to listen and make their coworkers wonder.
Well, I kept it polite and tried to be funny(yep, blew it). Let's hope she thought I was cool and interesting. Next time I will probably start by asking what she is wearing....
Any ladies out there want to help me practice my phone calls?
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