The lead up to New Years 2011
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Posted:Dec 31, 2010 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2011 9:23 pm
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This was an interesting time to say the least. And it would seem the destination or the results of our efforts to find another couple or F to party with in Spokane is the point of this blog but it isn’t. The results of our effort really didn’t even matter sense Trina's return flight from visiting her family got delayed and re-routed so they her return flight didn’t come into Spokane anymore but came to the Pasco airport and we would not have been able to spend New Years in Spokane anyways.... But the Blog is about the process.
Our story starts with us first putting out the notice we plan on spending new years in Spokane and we send out our initial notices after we make a change in our headline. We, like most couples, would like to experience a single female. We are finding out maybe especially her on HotMatch.com on the East side of WA. Not only is this a misnomer but maybe a farce. We are finding a lot of the Female profiles on here aren’t of single females but of couples trying to.... well Im not sure what they are trying to do. Because I can’t see how it will work. If you are honest about your intentions then you could say that in a couple’s profile. If they are trying to entice through dishonesty, then who wants to deal with them in the first place.
But we have digressed, we sent out our first round of invites and got nothing and we got nothing of course. Cuz we all know the single female is the unicorn. Then one unicorn contacts us. We won’t give profile name but she is a MF in Spokane at this time with a picture of her on her back legs open face not seen. And she just jumps out the box with enthusiasm and moxie. She writes us a couple times telling us how she wants to be with us. IM's us and converses with us saying how she wants to do everything with us wants us to tell of every scenario we want to "use” her in and what not. Let us say this first... We are sending and receiving these messages and IM's around the 10th of Dec. Sooooo it’s a little early to want to jump into those kind of details first right of the start but so far away from the time we could even get together. And we don’t tell her to slow down but just say let’s wait until about a week before then we can start all these scenarios. Well we contact her again about 10 days later and then says she may not be able to make it then of course we never hear from her again.
While that was going on we her from yet another Unicorn contacts us. Again no names but she is saying Hi in her photo. We read her profile and all seems to check out. Of course she is another unicorn that is married. No big deal right. Profile doesn’t state the even though IM on here as a single female if a couple wants to play we only play as a could line that most of these female profiles have. So we contact her (them) back and she writes us back (we can only guess if it was really her) and we go back and forth like most swing conversations go. Hi, how are you? What kind of things are you into? We tell her what we want and even ask about the things she wouldn't be interested in doing? On a side note I find that a better way to finding out what people want to do than just asking them "hey what kind of things do you like to do"...lol asking them what they won’t do is so more enlightening...
Ok back to the story. We find out that she isn’t into doing what we want and just then play it cool and coy and say well if thing s work out we may be able to hang but we may be able to play but it may we not play. They press on... and its good they do nothing wrong with pushy people that how people play someone has to be the aggressor some not. And we still beat around the bush... (I guess I’m giving up our game but hey I like telling a story) and don’t say why we aren’t truly down with hanging with them. Then we finally do. And in that email she (or they) state finally we get somewhere and we don’t have to worry about her hubby playing he is cooler than most in the lifestyle or a fan and we could hang out. So cool we have an F not single but married and hubby to sit on the side. He’d be there (it states that in the profile) but the letter says he wouldn’t have to play. We say yes. Don’t like where they are staying because of the party and the music they are playing. And we do try to find another place but we don’t know Spokane and well have what we are looking for with the female a party and a place to stay and party. You where this is going right?
Well we finally exchange numbers, I make the call and talk to the hubby and say hi, nice to meet you. go over r the plans then I ask or state to make sure we are clear on the rules, at least as we knew thought it was< if we coming along but wife was playing with us. He says cool he can hang, but of course you can hear that tone in the voice saying everything the opposite that was coming out of his mouth. A day comes and we get a letter, from her, saying.... HEY!!! My husband says you asked him not to play and well if I play he has to play also and fair is fair.
And you know what? Fair would be fair if that was how things had gone down and that what we had agreed to. I gave her 3 reasons why we didn’t think that was fair. One being their profile on HotMatch.com is of her not of them as a couple. Two, nowhere in their profile does it state that we only play with a couple as a couple. And three you told us in your letter that you could play without you hubby. And fair would be to follow up on your commitment as you stated you would do.... Lol nonetheless we get an email saying how things aren’t going to work out and we should go our separate ways...
I don’t have a moral to this story just I guess I don’t understand the couples who have the female half of the couple on their own profile. If you are going to let her play alone in all situations why have her own profile in the first place. And second I guess this life style is interesting. [blog TrinaNJerome]
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