About this site
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Posted:Apr 15, 2009 4:00 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 7:44 am
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So I was outside earlier raking my yard and I seemed to remember reading a blog yesterday on what exactly this site was suppose to be. Or what people thought it meant. Yeah I know your wondering ok why is she thinking about that raking her yard. Hey believe me I am always thinking. Except during sex.
Anyway, sorry I cant link back to you cause I dont remember which blog I read that on. But what Im tryin to get at is there are a couple sites all linked to one. And I dont think some people know that. There is HotMatch.com,friendfinder,and passion. So you can pick one of those and sign on to it.
Yes HotMatch.com is basically a swingers site, adult site.
But because I have my profile on here doesnt mean I dont seek more. Yeah I wonder sometimes why I keep my profile on here but
for me right now this is my way of exploring.
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Another blogger asked Does Size Matter
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Posted:Apr 15, 2009 3:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2010 11:10 am
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Well lets see if I can follow directions good. LOL
Mystic_Writer is a blogger and I have been reading his blogs his recent blog was Asking if Size Matters. Plese be sure to check his out. [post 1903080]
So I myself was curious and decided to browse the web. Here is what I found out.
Is bigger always better? When most people hear that question they either immediately or eventually think about penis size, and the more direct question that many men and women want to know, does penis size matter?
The reality is that sometimes penis size matters, and sometimes it doesn’t. There are those of us who have unique personal tastes (affectionately known as size queens), but others prefer variety. Some folks might be happy driving a Tercel one day and an SUV the next. Another key piece of information when talking about how much penis size matters, is making sure we know we agree on what is an average penis size.
Rather than rely on old sayings, fashion magazines, and the hundreds of emails in your inbox every day, let’s look at what research tells us about whether penis size matters?
Does penis size matter to women?
A survey of 556 women between the ages of 19-49 asked participants whether penis length and girth matter. The findings included:
18% said penis length was very important, 22% said penis girth was very important
57% said penis length was somewhat important, 53% said penis girth was somewhat important
25% said penis length was unimportant, 25% said penis girth was unimportant
A major flaw of this study was that it did not specify an optimal size. So women who felt penis girth mattered may have different ideas of what the ideal penis girth is. The assumption might be bigger is better, but this isn’t confirmed by this study.
Another ingenious study, done by Canadians, had women read erotic passages and rate them on the steaminess of the passage. The only thing they altered was the size of the penis. While some respondents did score the larger penises to be hotter, the differences were not statistically significant. Indicating that in a fantasy realm at least, bigger may not necessarily mean more arousing and penis size may not matter as much as other things.
While there have been other surveys that have asked women about the importance of penis length and girth, and most report that where this is a preference, girth is reported as more important then length, there doesn’t seem to be any academic research that actually addresses what size is preferable. If there were such research we could expect, of course, there to be great variability in size preferences.
Does penis size matter to men?
There is no question that men have a preoccupation with penis size. Most men seem to think penis size matters, and many worry about the size of their penis at some point in their lives. There have been several studies that have confirmed that men’s perception of penis size is skewed:
An Internet-based survey of 52 031 heterosexual men and women found that while 85% of women were satisfied with their partners’ penis size, but only 55% of the men were satisfied with their penis size.
Several studies that have asked men to evaluate the size of their penis, compare it to “normal” and then have actually measured their penis size, have shown that most men underestimate the size of their penis, and overestimate what is average penis size.
Studies have also shown that men tend to compare penises in a way that is likely to end up with negative evaluation (e.g. they compare flaccid penis to an erect penis).
One study of men who were seeking penile enlargement surgery found that most of the men had penises that were in the average size range, despite their belief that they had unusually small penises.
It seems from what research we have, that men think penis size matters more than women. Which begs the question, Why do guys worry and talk about penis size so much?
One answer is that we’re still stuck in this penis-centered idea of sex, where great sex comes solely from a man doing unbelievable things with his penis.
Let’s remember first, that lots of people are having great sex with no penis involved at all! And beyond that, most women don’t orgasm from penetration at all, so most orgasms are not being produced from a penis of any size. I think we still focus on penis size, because we still think that a dick is the measure of a man. And this is the worst misconception of all.
My thought to this is NO size doesnt matter. Its how a person is treated.
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A Little About Wolves
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Posted:Apr 14, 2009 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2009 3:00 pm
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I am a wolf lover so I will tell a little about the wolf totem.
To understand totem wolf symbols, one must first understand the heart of the Wolf. This takes time because the Wolf has had to endure many false stereotypes, misconceptions and misunderstandings.
Some common traits that accompany totem wolf symbols:
Intelligence
Cunning
Communication
Friendliness
Loyalty
Generosity
Compassionate
Wolves are the epitome of stamina, known to run 35 miles a day in pursuit of prey. They are highly misunderstood animals, who have gained the reputation of being cold blooded. In reality wolves are friendly and social creatures. Aggression is something they avoid, preferring rather to growl or create a posture to show dominance.
Even though living in close knit packs provide wolves with a strong sense of family, they are still able to maintain their individuality. Wolves represent the spirit of freedom, but they realize that having individual freedom requires having responsibilities.
Because wolf is a teacher and pathfinder, he comes when we need guidance in our lives. Those who have a Wolf Totem will move on to teach others about sacredness and spirituality. Wolf can also teach how to balance the responsibility of family needs and not to lose one's personal identity.
Wolf teaches us to develop strength and confidence in our decisions. He shows we will learn to trust our insights once we learn how to value our inner voice. This wisdom keeps us from inappropriate action. If wolf appears in your life examine where you need to develop more confidence and if you need more balance between friends, family, and yourself.
Taken from animaltotem
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Question about first meetings
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Posted:Apr 14, 2009 5:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2009 9:44 pm
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Ok everyone Im curious for those who have met people from here. On your first meeting do you have a sexual encounter? Or do you just meet get to know each other and decide from there. Im just curious to here some others first meets.
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Been awhile for these blogs
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Posted:Apr 13, 2009 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2009 9:15 pm
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Wow I sure must say this site has done a lot since I first was on here and did my blogging. Now I'll have to learn all this stuff and try and catch up. Boy I tell you all these different sites have all these html things Im lucky I remember my name in the morning. Ha ha. Although Im a quick learner I'll pick it up quick. Well at least I hope so. So bare with me, I'll get my blog going soon.
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