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Sugar and Spice
 
Variety is the spice of life. Sugar n spice/day n night/ying n yang. My blog is of my opinions and thoughts. If you do not like them do not read them.
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Microsoft Not happy
Posted:Feb 27, 2012 8:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2012 1:03 am
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Alright I am suddenly not very happy with dang Microsoft Office. Yes I like the features, being able to store documents online and what not. But it sure is being a pain in the butt keeps telling me "oh we're sorry you're running a trial version" blah blah blah. And it will not register. This laptop was given to me, but it's a newer model and the person said office was installed and bought for. So I'm kinda stuck without the key. GRRRRR. Even to uninstall it puts a click to run thing back on. So microsoft you're confusing.

Anyone have similar issues?
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Sleeping with married/attached people
Posted:Feb 23, 2012 4:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2012 5:47 pm
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Alright, so I know this blog will probably cause some debate. However I am not afraid to say how I feel on this. Yes I know every situation is very different but if we stop to take a look before jumping. I myself can speak from being married at one point and my other half cheating on me. And now myself have been seeing a married person for over 5yrs. I will say if I knew now knowing back then I would have thought a lot harder.
Yes we really did talk a lot about the what if. Though no one can predict. As in a conversation recently not even money can stand in someones way.
Why, really do people want to go and fuck someone and not be with them. Yes, I do again know what site I am on. But has a lot of society become so lost in communication and honesty with their partners.
Or perhaps it is my complex thinking. And I do know being with someone is more then sex. So why if someone you are with isn't pleasing you talk about it. Am I really missing something??????
5 Comments , 2 Pending
Guys-15 Facts
Posted:Feb 10, 2012 9:41 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2012 2:48 pm
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Average Size Penis
Ok Men here are 15 facts I bet you never knew about your penis.
This was found in a mens health article


-Smoking can shorten your penis by as much as a centimeter. Erections are all about good bloodflow, and lighting up calcifies blood vessels, stifling erectile circulation. So even if you don't care all that much about your lungs or dying young, spare the li'l guy.
-Doctors can now grow skin for burn victims using the foreskins of circumcised infants. One foreskin can produce 23,000 square meters, which would be enough to tarp every Major League infield with human flesh.
-An enlarged prostate gland can cause both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. If you have an unexplained case of either, your doctor's looking forward to checking your prostate. Even if you're not.
-The average male orgasm lasts 6 seconds. Women get 23 seconds. Which means if women were really interested in equality, they'd make sure we have four orgasms for every one of theirs.
-The oldest known species with a penis is a hard-shelled sea creature called Colymbosathon ecplecticos. That's Greek for "amazing swimmer with large penis." Which officially supplants Buck Naked as the best porn name, ever.
-Circumcised foreskin can be reconstructed. Movable skin on the shaft of the penis is pulled toward the tip and set in place with tape. Later, doctors apply plastic rings, caps, and weights. Years can pass until complete coverage is attained....Okay, we'll shut up now.
-Only one man in 400 is flexible enough to give himself oral pleasure. It's estimated, however, that all 400 have given it their best shot at some point.
-There are two types of penises. One kind expands and lengthens when becoming erect (a grower). The other appears big most of the time, but doesn't get much bigger after achieving erection (a shower).
-An international Men's Health survey reports that 79 percent of men have growers, 21 percent have showers.
-German researchers say the average intercourse lasts 2 minutes, 50 seconds, yet women perceive it as lasting 5 minutes, 30 seconds. Are we that good or that bad?
-Turns out size does matter: The longer your penis, the better "semen displacement" you'll achieve when having sex with a woman flush with competing sperm. That's according to researchers at the State University of New York, who used artificial phalluses (ahem) to test the "scooping" mechanism of the penis's coronal ridge. Next up: curing cancer.
-The penis that's been enjoyed by the most women could be that of King Fatefehi of Tonga, who supposedly deflowered 37,800 women between the years 1770 and 1784—that's about seven virgins a day. Go ahead, say it: It's good to be king.
-Better-looking men may have stronger sperm. Spanish researchers showed women photos of guys who had good, average, and lousy sperm—and told them to pick the handsomest men. The women chose the best sperm producers most often.
-No brain is necessary for ejaculation. That order comes from the spinal cord. Finding a living vessel for said ejaculation, however, takes hours of careful thought and, often, considerable amounts of alcohol.
-The most common cause of penile rupture: vigorous masturbation. Some risks are just worth taking.



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6 Days
Posted:Jan 19, 2012 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2012 12:13 pm
5205 Views

Ok I am on day six to no smoking I honestly must say I didn't think it would be that hard or maybe that easy. I will keep everyone up to date on my progress. LOL
6 Comments
To Lust and have no lust back
Posted:Nov 30, 2011 9:37 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2011 3:15 pm
5044 Views

First off let me define for everyone the definition of

LUST
1.intense sexual desire or appetite.

2.uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.

3.a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually followed by for ): a lust for power.

4.ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: an enviable lust for life.

5.Obsolete
a.pleasure or delight.
b.desire; inclination; wish.

Now we have that out of the way, of course by first glance a lot of us may have lust right away. Just bare with me for a little bit my mind has to sort my words lol.
So, lets say we come across this one person we think we may click with but maybe really he isn't worth the time cause he keeps his focus so narrow. I am not someone to write all my secrets on how to make the best love and my tips to please a women. I use to write blogs that like before but I've stepped back. Maybe I sound like a bitch sometimes but I sure have learned the hard way from sharing what I know.
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Passing of an online friend
Posted:Oct 19, 2011 10:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2011 9:10 am
4826 Views

My thoughts go out to a fellow chat room chatter. As I have learned of her passing away. She was a frequent chatter of the upper midwest room. Thorny_Orchid was always very nice, always willing to say hello to new people of the room. A chat room can kind of become like a little family at times. It will be very strange to not see Thornys name not appear on the list. To have her pop in the room. We will miss you Thorny_Orchid.
2 Comments
No More Viewing Profiles?
Posted:Sep 6, 2011 6:38 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 10:12 pm
5162 Views

So is there no more viewing profiles or what? Has the point system gone out the window? Haven't really seen any blogs so not sure what is going on.
4 Comments
Question of meeting
Posted:Aug 15, 2011 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2011 3:20 pm
5358 Views

When meeting someone from this site do you take into account if they have met others from here or not?
Yes
No
Only ask but doesnt bother me
5 Comments , 46 votes
Body Parts
Posted:Aug 15, 2011 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2011 8:28 pm
4752 Views

Alright, since most people are contacted based upon pictures on their profile. I'm curious to find out the opinions of who likes what. Sorry I'm a female so not adding the choice of a cock pic lol
Ass
Boobs
Face (eyes)
pussy shot
not about the picture its about the profile
2 Comments , 47 votes
Things You Can't Have
Posted:Aug 13, 2011 8:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2012 7:44 am
4894 Views

How many times in life do you try and go after things you want but can't have. I'm sure I've said that phrase before, my mind is always trying to figure it out. Sometimes it's not even about that you can't have it or them perhaps its the other thing not wanting you. Or they are just not being honest with themselves.

Ok, forgive this blog it may be in some kind of ramble lol.
I am usually a very easy person to talk to, but there is one person and I dont know if its him or just the way I've come across to him but he just doesnt say much when we talk. And this person is no one on this site. Its kind of a strange story so not even gonna try and explain it. (yeah I know not much help) Do guys ever say how they really feel or do we have to guess?
6 Comments
Nice Guy Act
Posted:Jul 25, 2011 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2011 11:23 pm
4696 Views

Well Mr Nice Guy you played your little game I pretty much knew what you were doing. Yet I the fool that I am fell for your little game. If I were so cruel I would call you out, yet I am not that way. Always remember its called treat people how you wanna be treated. "Mr So Called Nice Guy"
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