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Posted:May 21, 2008 2:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2019 10:48 pm
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If anyone has something for my eyes only they would like to say this is the place. Any question you would like me to answer in a post, suggestions to improve my blog. Requests of any kind, this is the place to let me know about them. Nothing posted here will be made public unless you want it to be. So go ahead sign my guest book. You know you wanna 
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A question for those with multiple partners
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Posted:Apr 10, 2019 5:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2020 4:24 pm
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I was trying to sleep last night (I'm having a bit of an insomniac spell) and a question kept popping into my head, then I heard a similar one on the Savage Lovecast today. So I thought I'd raise the question here.
I've been in a couple relationships with women who had other partners, more over they had live in partners/spouses. When it came to having sex with them, I was always reluctant to have sex in the bed they shared with said live in partner/spouse. There is just something about wanting to keep that space theirs that I haven't been able to get out of my head.
My question is basically this, is this only a me thing? Does anyone else have this problem. If you are one of the people with live in partners, do you have a problem bringing other partners into that space. Or do you prefer to keep that bed for just your live in partner/spouse?
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kik my friends
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Posted:Mar 31, 2019 5:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2024 2:34 pm
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Just a random thought. I've been on this site less and less as time has passed. So to my friends here that I don't get to chat with as often through the blogs anymore I'd like to offer this as an idea. Have you heard of Kik? It is a messaging app. So if you have it and want to be in touch. I have hidden the comments so no one else will see them. Leave your kick name and I'll shoot you a message.
I'm not saying that I'm leaving. But I have been here less and less as time has gone on.
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Not something I usually do
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Posted:Mar 17, 2019 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2024 2:34 pm
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I don't usually do this. But I was bored, horny as all F'ing get out and watching porn last night. So on a whim I snapped a shot. Needed to do something with it, so I'm sliding it in here. My apologies.
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Would you rather
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Posted:Oct 3, 2018 5:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2024 2:34 pm
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It's October, Halloween is around the corner. So I wanted to play a game of "Would you rather."
Would you rather live on Elm Street and have Freddy Kruger after you?
Or would you rather be at Camp Crystal Lake with Jason Vorhees after you?
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Incels
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Posted:Sep 3, 2018 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2018 7:47 pm
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I was walking to work this morning and getting caught up on the news from the past few days (I always fall a little behind this time of year). Sure enough there was another story of some guy who considered himself an "incel."
As a quick aside. For anyone who doesn't know "incel" is short for involuntary celibate. But there is more too it then just people who can't get laid. The people who identify with this group tend to be very angry (usually at women) for not having sex with them and in many cases the guys they feel are getting the sex. Another point in their theories is that it never seems to be their fault. It is always the woman, other men or just societies fault in general.
In this case a security guard found a homeless man sleeping on the property and literally stomped him to death. After being arrested and convicted he told a prosecutor (I believe) that he identified as an incel and had a lot of pent up frustration and anger because despite efforts in person and online he couldn't get a date or get laid. This is just the latest in a growing list of violence being done by the people calling themselves incels. Because of this I wanted to write an open letter to anyone who might come across it. I realize that for everyone else I might be preaching to the choir.
First off let me point out that not one of the square jawed sex hounds who gets all the sex in the world that you guys hate. I don't think bad looking by any means, but far from a square jawed Adonis. also not a virgin, but I haven't had a lot of sex by anyones count (maybe I shouldn't admit that publicly ... oh well too late). So not the enemy here. Hell until people calling themselves involuntary celibates started shooting people I used to say I was involuntarily celibate. So I know what it's like to go long stretches without sex, to be turned down and ignored by woman after woman both in person and online. I feel that pain. It sucks, I get that.
But here is the big point, the big picture. How do you handle it? Do you blame her for not hopping into bed with you? Do you plan on or think about forcing yourself on the woman no conceptually to prove what a big strong man you are? Decide to take it out on some innocent by stander? Commit other violent acts? If your answer to any of these is yes. Then THAT IS THE PROBLEM. If isn't your looks, it isn't society, it isn't other guys fault and it sure as hell isn't the fault of a woman who isn't interested in you. If you want to know why women aren't interested look into the mirror long and hard. Look into your own eyes and into the black abyss it takes to believe the things you apparently believe. You aren't taking a red pill by believing these things, you're avoiding the hard work it takes to find someone and it is HARD work. But it's hard work that YOU have to do, you can't blame your way into sex or a relationship. Take a little personal responsibility.
I have asked a decent amount of women out and tried to strike up countless more with women on dating sites. Of the ones who I've met, most of them still friends or friendly with, doesn't matter if they broke up with me after 1 date, 3 months or just said no out of the gate. I hold no grudges because they don't want to date or sleep with me. Even the very few people on the outs with it has nothing to do with me being upset that they wouldn't date or sleep with me.
Look I want all of you incels to get laid I really do. I want everyone to get laid well and often. I think the world would be a better place if everyone who wanted to have sex was getting laid and I feel the pain and frustration that comes with not getting any. But until you let go of all that anger and hate, it wont happen for you. Go see a psychiatrist, talk to someone (who isn't an incel) whatever you need to do to get help, masturbate, find a hobby. Do something constructive. Enough of these attacks and killings. I can tell you, if you're not getting any women out in society. You sure as hell aren't getting any in the big house. Unless you like guys named Bubba.
For anyone who sat through this rant. I thank you for your patience. I know this isn't a fun topic and that likely preaching to the people who don't need to hear it. I wish you all well and I hope you're having lots of fun sexy times.
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The Hunt
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Posted:Aug 23, 2018 6:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2024 2:34 pm
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I was out playing Pokemon Go the other day, listening to a podcast that wasn’t really holding my attention and my mind started wandering. I started to get this scenario running through my head. I’m not sure if it’s my love or horror movies, it being far too long since I’ve had sex or the little twisted part of HG that I keep tucked away that fueled this scenario.
Before I get into the scenario I want to make it clear that in my vision of it. It is being done with a consenting and informed partner. That made clear, lets get on with it. I’m going to write it about half as a guide and half as a telling of a scene.
We drive up to park at night. Preferably something self-contained with lots of internal twists and turns and little to no view from the street. I get out of the car and head into the park. Before coming we’ve already agreed on and worked out a couple things. First off is how much of a head start I have, the second being a time limit. After the head start is over my partner follows into the park. She isn’t doing anything special. Just taking a late night walk in the park. She doesn’t know where I am. But I am watching her. Having found a good hiding spot, the hunt has begun.
Her goal for the scenario is to just have a nice walk through the park then after the allotted time leave and meet me back at the car. My goal however is a little more challenging. I have to sneak up on her, stalking her from the shadows until I get close enough and have the opportunity to pounce. Coming up from behind I grab her pulling her off the pass and subduing her.
If this happens, I’ve won, which means park sex is on the menu tonight. That is how it played out in my head. But if I would have been unable to catch her, maybe I couldn’t get close enough without notice, maybe I picked a bad spot to camp and wait for her, or she took another route through the park. Whatever the reason, we meet back at the car and she gets whatever we’d worked out for her when she won.
That’s what I came up with. It’s a relatively vague outline of an idea. Though to be honest I’m not sure if this scenario should turn me on, scare me or both.
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The site monkeys are at it again.
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Posted:Jun 9, 2018 12:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2018 11:40 pm
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For anyone that hasn't been around here for years like I have might not be familiar with the term "site monkeys." That term just refers to the people who run this site, they were given that name by several bloggers because of the of baffling choices they make in how they run things were. I found another of these baffling things.
I don't come around here much anymore, but I logged in the other day and noticed I had a message. And not only that, there is the potential that this might be a real on and not a b.o.t. Problem is I can't read more then the first line/title of the message. So I can't read it or reply unless I pony up some dough. Seriously what the fuck? This is just another ridiculous thing this place does to nickel and dime you. So I'd just like to restate that the best place to contact me is here on the blog. If you have a private message for me, there is a pinned post at the top for just that purpose.
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3.14 Thoughs ...
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Posted:Mar 10, 2018 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2018 2:51 am
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So March 14th is tomorrow. I'm told that is a big day. Pi day. A day when we all eat pie ... I hate pie, fight me ...
Okay, okay I'm kidding. I love apple pie. Might have to get one on the 14th. What I really wanted to talk about is the other thing March 14th represents. Stake and a blow job day. I'm going to assume we all know what Steak and a blow job day is, even though I only found out a few years ago.
I was randomly thinking about this tonight and realized that I don't know how I feel about it and started wondering if that makes me a hypocrite. Why would it make me a hypocrite you ask. I might make me a hypocrite because I don't like Valentines day. I've never been a fan and even when I have a romantic partner around that time of year don't think I should need a special day to show them I care. I hope I do that every day.
So if I'm not a fan of Valentines day I wonder if it makes me a hypocrite that I'm not sure how I feel about Steak and a BJ day. Or does the fact it isn't as main stream and publicized make a difference. I'm really interested to hear what people have to say about this, especially the women who might come across this.
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New Year To Do List
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Posted:Jan 2, 2018 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2018 9:38 pm
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I don't like resolutions. But I don't mind making a new years to do list. So here is the short version.
- Get back to the gym. I'm really behind on my cardio.
- Drink less pepsi. What can I say, it's my one vice.
- Tie some people up. It's been too long since I've gotten my rope out.
- Finally get around to beating Calamity Ganon.
- Keep up my Youtube channel.
- And lastly have more sex then last year. Not that this is saying much since I didn't have sex at all last year. What can I say I'm not much of a fan of celibacy.
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Nega-You
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Posted:Sep 12, 2017 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2017 10:52 am
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Does everyone remember the show Darkwing Duck? You all do good, great show right? Right, good. Does anyone remember a villain named NegaDuck from that show? Well for anyone that might not remember him. Basically he is the exact opposite of Darkwing duck, from the negaverse or some such thing, who had a preoccupation with pulling "the switch."
No I'm not trying to pervert another childhood favorite. Although "The Switch" does sound interesting. No I'm wondering if anyone else ever thought about what the "Nega" version of themselves would be like?
Well I did the other day while playing Pokémon Go. First off I thought that Nega-Al must be a royal asshole. I can be shy and stand offish sometimes, but I don't think I'm an out right asshole. But a smooth talker Nega-Al must be. Especially with women. And he probably gets all the sex in his world (why I'm referring to this fictional person like they were real I don't know, but I'm going to roll with it). I often stumble trough my words when meeting someone new. Especially a woman I find attractive. I wonder what career path if any he would have taken. I chose a path that leads me to a position to help others in my own way. So he would likely have taken a path where he takes from others.
Just one of the random thoughts that crosses my mind while I'm listening to a podcast trying to track down a shiny Magikarp.
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Would you rather ...
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Posted:Sep 11, 2017 5:27 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2017 9:43 pm
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I make no secret that I've been looking for a partner (be it a romantic partner or a partner for kink/sex) for a long time with little luck. One way that I've gone about this is by sending messages on dating sites and apps ... lots of messages. When I'm really going I can send two or three unique messages a night.
Most of the time I just don't hear back. But occasionally I do, most of those are short messages telling me they don't think we'd be a good match (fair enough), and even fewer are people actually reply to my message referring to what I wrote and even fewer then that actually try to engage me in a conversation.
So here's my question. You're on a dating site/app and you send someone a message. Would you rather have someone just no message you back, or send you a short, "Thank you for the message, but I'm not interested" type of message?
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