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Tips about boobs men should know!
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Posted:Apr 28, 2015 8:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2015 6:16 am
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a friend sent this to me, I would love to know what women think about this? are there more things for this list that you would like us guys to know?
Boobies, tatas, jugs, melons, bubbies (if you're a "Real Housewife" from New Jersey).
There are so many nicknames, and about as many ways to show your appreciation for our girlie golden globes. But every lady has a story about some boob hound who did her knockers wrong!
So, dudes, because I can't look in those sweet eyes of yours and lie, I'm going to uncover titties for you, well, with some straight talk.
1. If you keep sucking in a constant, steady motion, like a baby, and don't switch up your moves, we'll get creeped out. Throw a lick or a hand in, or we'll make you use a bottle next time!
2. Even if I like it rough, don't gnaw off my nipple. A little teeth can give that pleasure-y kinda pain, sure. But how'd you like it if I bit off your nipple? Easy there, tiger.
3. In the immortal words of Simple Minds: "Don't you forget about me!" You can go down on me for hours, but if you don't touch my boobs, I won't be satisfied.
4. You can rest your head on my perky pillow, but if you try an elbow or an inanimate (non-sexytime) object, I will wonder if you respect me.
5. Even if my pair is spectacular, and I'm sure they are, you cannot list them among the reasons you like me. Breasts are not a personality trait.
6. FYI: Boobs can get sore and feel like two water balloons strapped to my chest when I'm on the rag and/or PMSing. As if those two things weren't already bad enough.
7. You can be excited when I go up a cup size from birth control or pregnancy (weird coincidence, eh?). But please remember there is a person attached to those new fun bags, and you liked that girl before she grew.
8. Forget you ever learned the word "saggy."
9. Do not make fun of any other woman's rack. They're tits; you get what you get—even if that involved a saline purchase.
10. There may come a time when my cleavage may need some lubrication... Wink, wink. But under no circumstances should you spit directly at them. Too close to the face.
11. Just like when you were in line in preschool, don't push! Or pull too much for that matter. They're flesh! Try a nice massage. Yes, yes, that's it.
12. Bras are never really comfortable. Even the ugly ones.
13. Focus on the nipple. Our boobs are giant tempting play lumps, but stay centered like the pink thing pointing straight at you.
14. If our nipples aren't hard, what you're doing isn't working. Sound familiar?
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Best songs to get you in the mood, or make sex better!
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Posted:Apr 20, 2015 9:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 6:29 am
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Looking for some great songs to make love to? This list will keep things intense.
While you and your man probably have no problem creating your own noise in the bedroom, adding music to the mix can give your lovemaking session a whole new sexy vibe.
Sure, you don't need music to heat things up, but it never hurts to add new elements to keep things interesting and enjoyable. (Also, if you're looking for some powerful sex tips to keep things hot, then maybe you will want to try out these ones.)
Incorporating songs to make love to is especially nice if you tend to fall into the same rhythm and movements each time. Choosing the right song can encourage to slow things down, or speed things up, as your body moves to the beat.
As the beats encourage you to explore different sensations, the lusty, sexual lyrics can set a steamy mood. To start experiencing the pleasure and satisfaction music can bring to the bedroom, try creating a new playlist with these songs to make love to.
1. "Let's Get It On" by Marvin Gaye:
This classic song to make love to deserves a spot on every foreplay playlist. The sexy guitar sounds get the hips swaying and the tempo and smooth feel are perfect for a bit of sensual dancing. Plus, the lyrics leave little doubt about what's on your mind.
2. "I Touch Myself" by Divinyls:
It's certainly not subtle, but this early 90s pop hit is fun and funky. Since many men find seeing a woman give herself pleasure extremely arousing, bringing a little solo-play into the bedroom can really heat things up.
3. "Have Love, Will Travel" by The Sonics:
A strong beat sets a powerful mood for a sweaty love-making session. The sax solo, rough vocals and growling are urgent and primal. As far as songs to make love to go, this one is pretty hot.
4. "Shut It Down" by Drake:
The slow, steady rhythm with brassy beats is just right for savoring a few minutes of steamy foreplay. Plus, at nearly seven minutes long, you'll have enough time to get things going before a track change interrupts the moment.
5. "Naughty Girl" by Beyonce:
The Middle Eastern vibe of this track makes it impossible to sit still. The slow grind and strong beats are just right for swiveling your hips. Plus, the sensuous sounds set a sexy stage.
6. "Do Right Woman, Do Right Man" by Aretha Franklin:
When you want to take things slow but steady, and enjoy lots of touch and eye contact, this ballad sets the mood. Both the lyrics and the instrumentals are intense and powerful, in a slow-burn way.
7. "Wicked Game" by Chris Isaak:
This hypnotizing tune may just lull you into a lovemaking trance. The soft, husky vocals pair with velvety guitar sounds at the perfect pace for a lingering romp.
8. "Slow Dancing In A Burning Room" by John Mayer:
A sultry voice and a steady beat make this a must-have have song for lovemaking. From slow dancing, as the title suggests, to sweet caresses and serious action, there’s no situation this song isn't right for.
9. "Black Magic Woman" by Carlos Santana:
The Latin rhythm of this tune is hot and lusty. There are just enough powerful vocals, but the instrumentals really take center stage. And, with over five minutes of music, you have time to get your own groove going.
10. "Sex Therapy" by Robin Thicke:
As if the pulsating rhythm wasn't enough, the lyrics also encourage selflessness in the bedroom. With the chorus suggesting that you scream and yell as loud as you want to, feel free to release your pleasure in whatever noise you need.
11. "Afternoon Delight" by Starland Vocal Band:
You might remember this oldie from the movie Anchorman. Far from a cheesy folk song, it has a groovy sound that will keep you moving. Plus, it's all about midday sex, which is always a good idea.
12. "Little Red Corvette" by Prince:
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No lovemaking playlist would be complete without at least one Price song. You could go with "Kiss" or "I Wanna Be Your Lover," but this one has the ultimate combination of his sexy voice with enough tempo changes to keep things interesting.
13. "Pour Some Sugar On Me" by Def Leppard:
Perhaps the ultimate lap dance song, this rock favorite has fun lyrics and a fast-paced tempo. One thing is for sure, there's no bedroom boredom when this tune is on.
14. "Drunk In Love" by Beyonce and Jay-Z:
It's no surprise that music's hottest couple put out one of the best songs to make love to. Frisky and fresh, this song makes everyone feel a bit wild and lusty.
15. "I Need Love" by LL Cool J:
With hip-hop vocals over slow-paced beats, 's biggest ladies man delivers one of the best songs to make love to. This ballad is surprisingly tender and sweet
16. "Pony" by Ginuwine:
Seductive and sweet is wonderful, but sometimes you just need to pump and grind. This is the song for that. Not only do the lyrics encourage getting dirty, the background music sets a pace that doesn't hold back.
17. "Would You Mind" by Janet Jackson:
This spine-tingling track is all about slowly enjoying and lingering in every part of sex. With perhaps the most sensual lyrics on this list, Janet suggestions for touching, tasting, teasing and sucking might just help you voice what you want.
When things start heating up, don't hit play on whatever song you were listening to at the gym or in your car. The songs you make love to can make all the difference in how satisfying the experience is.
The wrong tune can throw everything off, but the right one can help you move together towards your mutual pleasure.
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Sleep naked! its worth it!
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Posted:Apr 7, 2015 6:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2015 6:48 am
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Well who doesn't like sleeping naked????
so much easier for waking up to great sex! here has 4 major benefits!
Boost Your Love Life
People who sleep in the buff have happier love lives, according to a survey of 1,000 British adults by a bed sheet company this year. This is not totally surprising, but 57 percent of nude sleepers were happy with their relationship, compared with 48 percent of pajama wearers. It’s not that taking each other’s clothes off isn’t sexy or fun, it’s just that being naked kind of takes the middleman out of the equation. Pardon the expression, unless there truly is a middleman in your bed—in which case, carry on.
Better Sleep Quality
In order to fall asleep, your core body temperature needs to drop by about half a degree. And in order to stay asleep, that ideal body temperature needs to be regulated, otherwise your brain will wake itself up to see why you’re so godforsakenly hot.
The advantage of sleeping naked is that it’s easier for your body to cool down quicker, and to maintain that lower body temperature your brain wants to achieve. Disrupted sleep from being too hot doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll get less overall sleep, but it does mean you’ll have less deep, restorative sleep, which is key for memory consolidation and cell repair. So, think twice about swaddling yourself in quilts and sweatshirts (it’s called a sweatshirt for a reason), especially if you’re partner is in bed with you. You have a perfectly good heat source mere inches away; cozy up when you need warmth and then retreat to your side of the bed when you’re arm starts sweating on theirs. It’s a flawless system, really.
Burn More Calories
Brown fat has gained more notice in recent news, mostly for its ability to produce 300 times more heat than any other organ in your body. While ordinary white body fat (bad fat) piles on when we eat more calories than we burn, brown fat (good fat) generates heat, thusly burning that energy stored in white fat. Though brown fat is common in babies--it’s what keeps them warm--studies have found that we have a small amount in our necks, too.
A U.S. study in the journal Diabetes found that sleeping in a cold bedroom could activate brown fat in adults. In the study, five healthy young men slept in a climate-controlled bedroom for four months. In the first month, the room was kept at 74 degrees Fahrenheit, lowered to 66 degrees Fahrenheit in the second, brought back to 74 degrees Fahrenheit in the third, and raised to 80 degrees Fahrenheit in the fourth.
After the second month of sleeping at 66 degrees Fahrenheit, the men had almost doubled their volumes of brown fat. They burned more calories throughout the day—though not enough to lose weight—and their insulin sensitivity improved. Sleeping naked or in cooler temperatures (or both!) can help to activate brown fat, so this is really a no-brainer.
Lower Blood Pressure
Laying in bed with your partner, naked, is found to generate a boost in oxytocin, a hormone shown to have many health benefits. Skin-to-skin contact sends impulses to the brain, triggering the release of oxytocin, which has a protective effect on the heart, as it lowers blood pressure, boosts the immune system and reduces anxiety. As if you needed another reason to get naked with your partner in bed.
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Slow sensual sex
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Posted:Mar 25, 2015 6:47 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 7:2 am
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Was chatting with someone about how nice slow sensual sex can be but how it takes time to be able to get there with a partner. Don't get me wrong, I love the tear your clothes off passionate hard fucking, but slowing down is sublime as well.
If you want to make sex a more sensual experience, slow down. Take your time. Banning the quickie from your sex life will have a startling and sensual effect, taking your lovemaking to the next level.
Slow sex isn't about endurance, marathon sessions or complicated positions. It's about really being there in the moment, enjoying one another fully. It's about taking the time to touch and to kiss. The point isn't just to have sex, but rather to feel real sensual joy.
Create a bedroom that is a sanctuary for slow sex. Move the television to another room. Turn off the telephone. Shut down the computer. Give full attention to your lover. Install low-level romantic lighting, even if it's just a carefully-placed nightlight.
So what do you do when you slow down for "mutual pleasuring"? Try the following:
• Massage
• Deep, lingering kisses
• Teasing with your fingers and mouth
• Touch that is by turns tender and erotic
Slow sex means learning how to give one another great pleasure. It is a soulful, intimate expression of your love that will make sex far more sensual. It will deepen your emotional, psychological and even spiritual bond with your lover. A quickie can't compete with that!
As Mae West said, "Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly."
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Take your time and please yourself!
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Posted:Mar 24, 2015 6:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2015 1:40 pm
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We don't often talk about men masturbating, I think it is a beautiful thing! mutual masturbation is so fun and intimate with a partner! but from talking to guys, most guys do it as a means to a end! and don't take the time to enjoy the process!
Most men learn to masturbate quickly and quietly, as testosterone-loaded adolescents worried about parents or siblings walking in and disturbing their personal time. And those secretive, fast-and-furious habits can spill into adulthood, says Emily Morse, a sex expert and host of the popular podcast Sex with Emily. “A lot of guys rush the process and never think about how they can spice up their solo sex life,” Morse says.
1. Gain an Edge
The 5-minute speed jerk is fine for most days. But if you have a little extra time, “edging”—also called the stop-and-start method—can help you achieve more intense orgasms, Morse promises. Work yourself right up to the edge of ejaculation and then take a short break—just enough time for your erection to soften a bit. Then start the process over again. Do this three or four times before you orgasm, and you’ll experience more profound, powerful ejaculations, Morse says.
2. Change Hands
You’ve probably tried incorporating your non-dominant hand into your solo act. You may have even attempted the mythical “Stranger”—sitting on your hand until it falls asleep, and then using it to simulate the sensation of someone else doing the dirty work. But Morse advises using your opposite hand in more creative ways. Turn your hand so it slides down your penis forefinger-first, and twist it as you stroke. You could also try holding your penis against your stomach with one hand while rapidly sliding a few fingers up and down the underside of your shaft. Like switching positions during sex, mixing in unfamiliar hand maneuvers can break up the tedium, Morse says.
3. Introduce a New Friend
Toys aren’t just for her pleasure. “I recommend the Fleshlight to any man who really wants to spice up his solo play,” Morse says. The popular piece is a handheld column that you slip over your penis to simulate the feel of real vaginal or anal sex. (You can even buy a phone strap accessory to free up both your hands.)
4. Start from the Bottom
A half dozen research papers—mostly on male dogs or rodents—have shown massaging or stimulating the epididymis can bring about ejaculation. A scan of online message boards related to the masturbatory arts suggests human males really get off on this, too. The epididymis is located at the very base of your penis, between your shaft and your scrotum, and it stores sperm and links your testicles to your vas deferens. Massage it while you do your thing, and prepare for some wild new sensations.
5. Bring Your Boys into the Mix
There are nearly as many sex-specific nerve endings in your testicles as there are in your penis. Don’t neglect them, Morse urges. While individual preferences and sensitivities play a big role in what you’ll enjoy, a lot of men discover an untapped source of stimulation—and more intense orgasms—by pulling down on their testicles rhythmically before ejaculation. (Some guys learn to ignore their penis entirely as they approach the big O, Morse says.)
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Masturbate! for your health of course!
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Posted:Mar 23, 2015 6:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2015 9:52 am
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A recent study from adult product peddler reveals that 27 percent of Americans admit to masturbating once or twice a week.
That number seems suspiciously low to us, especially since science has shown that being master of your domain can provide additional feel-great benefits. (Also because the people surveyed were browsing an adult toy website.)
“Masturbation is part of a healthy sex life,” says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist. “It’s totally safe and harmless. It’s healthier than brushing your teeth every day.”
And just as brushing your teeth should be a regular occurrence, so too should be cleaning your pipes. Here are five reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. You’re welcome.
It prevents cancer. An Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer.
Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder. As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone... even down there.
Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. (These 8 Ways to Protect Your Erection also help.)
“It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,” says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer. Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “an hour before a date will give you more control,” says Brame.
Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D.. If it usually takes 2 minutes solo, try for 3 next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place.
If you’re spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,” Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity. Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses.
“Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,” she says.
It boosts your mood. Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain.
“An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,” says Brame. “A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s.”
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Sex Resolutions!
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Posted:Mar 10, 2015 6:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2015 10:11 am
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I think we should also strive to be the best lover we can be, here are some good resolutions to make sex even better!
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1. Make Porn a Group Activity
Everyone does it. Why not do it together? Watching whatever you watch alone together will eliminate any lingering feelings of weirdness you have about it and start a conversation about new possibilities. The key is to find something you both think is sexy. If girl on girl action isn't turning on your significant other, something else will. It may not be what you expected, but you'll learn something, which makes the whole dinner and dirty movie thing worthwhile.
2. Take a Bit Longer
As we've mentioned before, single digit pumps do not a sexual encounter make. Vow to go the extra mile (or at least the extra couple of minutes) to satisfy both yourself and your partner. She'll likely come back for seconds and you'll get a decent workout. When it comes to sexual longevity, men are outgunned. The best we can do is keep up and, yes, that might require feeling a bit of a burn. No one has ever drowned in sweat.
3. Get Cast
Naughty teacher reprimanding a student? Skipper saving a shipwrecked beauty? Whatever floats your boat, give it a go in the new year. Rather than thinking about it as kink, think about it as an exercise is suspending disbelief and giving your partner the chance to be someone new. Being any one thing - even beautiful - gets dull after a while.
4. Go Public
Step out of the bedroom and resolve to get weird in public. The risk and rush of getting caught adds to the experience. A bar bathroom, the back of a movie theater, the great outdoors - pick a place, and go for it. She'll appreciate your spontaneity and the sense that anything might happen at any time will lend a bit more flavor to that next cocktail party.
5. Wake Up a Bit Earlier
Research shows that morning sex is actually good for your health. Not only is it a healthy way to start your day, but it will make you more productive and stress-free. Satisfying your lady in bed leads to satisfying your boss in the boardroom. Weird? Sure, but a helpful little hack that makes changing your alarm worthwhile.
6. Make Some Noise
Getting loud isn't just fun, it's a great way of getting what you want. So speak up - just choose your words carefully. As a rule of thumb, you should be talking about her not yourself and her bits, not yours. Encourage her to talk as well. And listen.
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how to undress her
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Posted:Mar 3, 2015 7:30 am
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2015 6:17 am
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I have always loved removing my partners clothes ever since I was a , learning how to remove a bra! saw this list and thought I would share, taking sex beyond intercourse is such a turn on!
Enjoy!
Women start measuring a man's performance well before his pants come off. Sex starts as soon as the first zipper makes a southern slide and what follows – the process by which two people become two naked people – colors the entire experience that follows. Fortunately, it's mostly intuitive. but there are actually five tested methods for doing it right.
Method 1: Tell Her to Undress for You
Sometimes, women love when their man takes control in the bedroom. And they love when their man focuses on them and only them. By telling her to undress for you, not only are you putting her on display, which makes her feel sexy, but you exude confidence and power - forever a turn on. Tell her what to take off, piece by piece, until the both of you are nicely primed for action.
When to Use It: The politely-phrased demand is good for all seasons. In our experience, it works particular well in hotels, where sex is always a bit more of an adventure.
Method 2: Take Your Own Sweet Time
Slow and steady wins the race. While undressing a woman slowly, you're able to tease and take note. Keep in mind how much a woman puts into her looks - she wants you to see her and appreciate her. Take the time to kiss, feel, explore and figure out her sensitive zones while you're stripping off her clothing. If you've really brought your A game with you, throw some teeth in the mix. Nibble on a bra strap and pull it off with your mouth if you are so bold. She'll appreciate both your creativity and dedication to the hustle.
When to Use It: This is your every day go-to. You’ll never run the risk of looking desperate and she’ll either be impressed by your skills or pondering why you might be hesitant.
Method 3: Pretend to Beg For It
This one is complicated so listen close: Tell the woman that you want it and that you’ll do anything to get it, say she’s a goddess and be completely shameless. The key is to appear abject and helpless without actually being abject or helpless. You’re taking control of the situation by making it about what you want. Is she in control? Not after she lets you get that first button undone.
When to Use It: This is not a smart way to undress a woman for the first time. Consider this the go-to for repeat flings.
Method 4: Rip Off the Wrapping Paper
Skip the foreplay. Sometimes, you have to have it no matter where you are or what you're wearing. In this situation, do whatever you gotta do, just remember that you might have to replace her clothes.
When to Use It: Don’t force it. If you feel it, just let ‘er rip.
Method 5: Make It a Joke
Sex and alcohol are a classic cocktail, which can be troublesome when your date is wearing anything more complicated than a training bra (meaning those bras you trained on in college). If you think that you might struggle with all the clasps, do yourself a favor and make the whole thing a game. If you laugh your way through it, she won’t worry that you’re a little too drunk or a little too goal oriented.
When to Use It: After the after party.
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6 fun ways to really turn on your partner!
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Posted:Feb 26, 2015 6:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2015 1:40 pm
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Obvious and standard foreplay moves that women respond to are a good bet for any lovemaking occasion, but foreplay is not just about giving oral sex or loving attention to her well-known erogenous zones. The really good stuff has a lot more to it. It involves her entire body, as well as her mind. Don’t get me wrong: Chances are there are tons of things you already do to her that she loves, and luckily for you, none of them require you to be a rocket scientist or Dirk Diggler to figure out.
An important thing to keep in mind is that the best foreplay is not necessarily original or adventurous, but it is done with full attention to the job at hand (or mouth for that matter). Here are six foreplay moves that girls chitchat and giggle about when they’re talking about their best sexual experiences.
1. Making Out On The Couch, High-School Style
Dry humping and “kissathons” are fun because they take you right back to when you were a and making out was exciting and adventurous. Couch make-out sessions take the pressure off a girl from having to take her clothes off and be ready for sex, allowing her to relax and enjoy the moment. Women like to be teased. Making out with her for hours and never moving into the bedroom will get her so turned on she’ll be wanting you more than ever before.
The rules: Use the skills you gained in high school. Dry humping is one of the greatest turn-ons known to mankind, because it is so suggestive without the actual skin-on-skin touching. It has an element of driving hard for what is inaccessible. The many layers of clothing provide the padding for the crazed writhing that ensues a good D.H. session. Playing with your clothes on could ordinarily be construed as lazy or immature, but not when you are doing it deliberately. Keeping clothes on can be very sexy.
2. Spontaneous Combustion
Risky, light touching in inappropriate places when sex cannot happen right then and there is very hot to women and it warms you both up nicely for later. For example, a warm hand up her top during a movie, or a hand down the side of her pants while you choose a song from the jukebox at a bar gets her feeling tingly in all the right places.
The rules: Stop! Keep her wanting: Give her a taste of it then pull back and watch her rub up against you and begin to purr. The trick with this little baby is she knows you can’t have sex. Reverse psychology is your friend; she wants what she can’t have. By the time you get somewhere you can have sex, she will be tearing at your clothes like a wild woman.
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3. Deep Tongue Kissing
The long, lingering kiss that doesn’t progress anywhere (just yet) is the sort of kiss that will moisten up her underwear in no time flat, but is deep and long and slow. She likes it when you savor her, and doing this gets her hot under the collar.
Deep tongue kissing is one of many formulas to turning you both on. Apparently, we like deep tongue kissing because it mimics sex — the wet, writhing, sucking, licking motions get our juices flowing and almost always kick-start our sexual desire. Increased saliva flow is associated with higher arousal, which makes sense — the wetter the better. Save the slobbering though.
The rules: The trick with this one is to choose the proper time and place for this long kiss, and not to overpower her with too much tongue or speed. It is quite hard to know when a big French kiss is going to go down well. Everyone loves a decent “snog,” but all people are slightly different, so choose your moment and make it good.
Instead of using the kiss as a two second start to sex, use it as a moment to share your passion. Kissing is an intimate sport, creating more intimacy and closeness between two people, whether it be an emotional closeness, a sexual one or both.
4. Massage
When you flip her onto her stomach, and turn her "main zones" away from you, you are saying to her, “I am not just after the ‘prize,’ I want to make you feel good.” This will allow her to relax and get her juices flowing more than ever. A good will sexualize and wake up new parts of her body, increasing the scope of her pleasure.
The rules: Don’t put her to sleep. Massages, especially after a hard week’s work or a heavy night of drinking, can easily slip a woman into sleep mode. The trick to giving a good is to keep it sensuous, which means taking breaks between touches to lick and kiss her, and involving her whole body. Stroke her with your whole hand and enjoy her curves while you do this.
The effect of the is that it creates occasional deep and delicious feelings while generating light and tickly feelings as you glide and graze your hands and fingers over her. These tickly feelings keep the brain and skin active and awake, while relaxing and arousing her at the same time.
Use a small amount of oil, because using too much oil with cover the gentle friction of your hands on her skin, and can end up giving an itchy feeling which isn’t sexy. Be careful where you put oil if you are using condoms, as it breaks down latex quickly. Use long strokes going down her body, all the way to her feet.
A good place to end is on her butt. Let her tell you with her writhing when she is ready for you to go further. Butt massages are the absolute best, and once you start there, she won’t want you to stop. The easiest way to encourage her arousal from a bum massage is to include her inner thighs occasionally, and skate near her anus and vaginal lips, without actually touching them but just very slightly brushing past them with your fingers. The tease will drive her wild, and before you know it, she'll be begging for more of you.
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5. Kissing Her On The Neck
Chicks dig this. Their necks are far more sensitive than yours. This is good news for guys who aren’t sure what to do to get their girls hot. It is really easy to turn her on if you kiss her neck. It works like magic.
The rules: Be sensuous and take your time. Use a sexy combination of soft and firm kisses, and keep the pace on the slower side. Kissing her neck from behind is almost guaranteed to turn her on, and you know when she turns around to face you she is ready for more. The back of her neck and shoulders are great places to start. Progress onto the sides of her neck, and up by her ears, maybe working your way around to the front, near her jugular.
Small, soft, closed-mouth kisses work well for starters, but should be worked up to open-mouthed kisses. A warm, moist tongue on her throat (without slobbering all over her, of course) is the wet feeling that may just lurch her into outer space. She will probably moan a lot when you do this. Women also love being held by strong man hands, so use them while you do your thing.
6. Turning Her On Without Touch
The brain is the largest sexual organ in our bodies. If you really understand this concept, you can use this to your advantage anytime you like. Include nonphysical moves such as reading her an erotic story, or telling her what you want to do to her either on the phone, by writing her a note and tucking it into her pocket, sending a text message, or emailing her. If you can get her wet before you even touch her, you are doing very, very well.
The rules: Don’t go overboard. Use words and actions that will force her to use her imagination instead of giving her every detail. Touchless foreplay is a less obvious arouser because she isn’t going to be moaning into your neck, but it is just as effective as touching her. Her imagination will run rampant when a sexy suggestion is put in place, so get her worked up with evocative words.
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Sex positions from Europe
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Posted:Feb 24, 2015 7:34 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2015 5:56 am
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Here are the top sex positions from some other countries! did not know countries had sex positions, maybe its like national flags or birds ha ha ha! seem to me like they are all Kama Sutra positions! so in all things including sex colonialism is alive and well!
who wants to try these out??
The Elephant
Where: Italy and France
Also called "The Lazy Doggy", your partner lies on her stomach, often with a pillow under her stomach to prop up her hips and you penetrate from behind, using your arms to support your torso.
The Hot Factor: It gives you the naughty thrill of rear entry sex, but with a little more romance. "Your bodies remain quite close, so you're still able to kiss," says Gaia Polloni, psychologist and sex therapist in Italy. "The pillow under her helps provide G-spot stimulation."
SPAIN - The Lotus
She sits in your lap, with her legs wrapped around your waist (so your bodies create the shape of a flower).
The Hot Factor: For Spaniards, the position represents sexual freedom: "In the 1970s, movies with sex scenes were forbidden in Spain," says Molineuvo. "So we went to France to see them. Last Tango in Paris was one of the most popular, and The Lotus is in that movie. It's still in our minds." For you, it symbolises connection. "A lot of American couples avoid eye contact. Even during missionary, the guy puts his head to the side," says Engler. But with The Lotus, you're truly face-to-face. Try to keep your eyes open.
THE NETHERLANDS - Missionary, with Attitude
Normal missionary position - except she's spread eagle.
The Hot Factor: "The more open the woman's body is - spreading her legs or arms wide - the more vulnerable she is," says Engler. "That makes it more erotic, less guarded."
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How to bring the sex goddess out of your woman!
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Posted:Feb 23, 2015 6:04 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2015 1:48 pm
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I would love to know what the ladies of HotMatch.com think of this list!
#1 Support & Love Her
A woman’s turn-on is directly affected by her levels of oxytoxin, the love hormone.
“A woman has to have regular doses of this “good stuff” to counteract her stress hormones–the one’s that make her feel overwhelmed, brittle, tapped-out, bitchy and decidedly NOT sexy.”
A woman needs to make time for pleasure and relaxation – a warm bath, massage, shopping, cooking, a pedicure, or a glass of wine – or a girl’s night out for her health and well being.
“To keep the juice flowing, a woman needs to feel supported. She needs to know that she has help, that she does not have to do everything by herself, and that she can count on others.”
#2 Be Present
Women often complain that men touch them in a way that feels like they’re trying to “get” something.
“The masculine – being directional and goal-oriented – may understandably be trying to turn her on or arouse her, perhaps to pave the way for sex, orgasm, or some other goal.”
In the moment, however, the signal of a man’s “future” agenda can make a woman feel pressured to perform or get somewhere else other than where she currently is.
Instead, be present in the now.
#3 Touch Her With Reverence
“Send love through your touch into her body. Bring curiosity to your touch, as if you’ve never touched a body before.”
As you touch her body, bring your awareness to the actual sensation of your skin on hers.
If your mind wanders towards habitual thoughts of: “what’s coming next?” gently bring your awareness back to the present moment, and reconnect to your breath and the sensations in your hands through your touch.
#4 Pace Yourself
The powerful force known as the Goddess cannot be found on the surface of things; she resides deep within, where she is protected.
“Women are slow to warm, while men are quick to fire. Taking time to stoke her fires will naturally open one gateway after the next, until you find yourself approaching the inner chambers of the Goddess herself.”
When you approach a woman too quickly, or with an agenda instead of presence, she may become aroused and enjoy herself, but you’ll miss an opportunity to connect with the hidden parts of her. Those corridors will be off limits and guarded because the conditions haven’t been met to warrant access.
Instead of settling for something superficial, take your time and experience her on a whole new level!
#5 Build Trust
Without first establishing trust with a woman, you won’t get very far with her. In the hierarchy of our sexual needs, there’s nothing more important for a woman than feeling safe.
“Because our authentic feminine sexual energy has the potential to be so potent – our orgasms so annihilating to our ego-identity, our pleasure so transformational – we need to be able to trust that it’s safe for us to completely let go.”
If we are going to truly dissolve into the void of ‘Divine Union’, we have to trust that someone or something is going to hold space while we’re “away” and help us come back and reawaken ourselves.
#6 Create A Heartfelt Connectiontantra4
The seat of a woman’s orgasmic potential lies not in her genitals, but in her heart and her breasts. Her sex center is often cooler and more passive whereas her heart center is hotter and more active (for men it’s typically the opposite).
“Spend time with her breasts, the gateway to (and protectors of) her heart. By lovingly touching her breasts in the way that they want to be touched, this can help a woman relax, signaling to the rest of her body that it’s safe to open.”
So if you want to warm her up sexually, meet her at the heart first so that energy can melt down. Make sure she feels loved and appreciated. Encourage her to share her feelings and speak about what’s in her heart.
#7 Honor Her
A receptive and awake yoni will literally magnetize to her what she wants. Allow her to draw you in and welcome you before entering her.
Before entering her, consider asking,
“May I enter your sacred space?”
Women will respond instantly to such expressions of honor and reverence!
#8 Surrender To The Journey
The masculine in all of us loves to rush to the finish line, meet the goal, and win the prize. But the feminine in us prefers to go with the flow, feel everything along the way, and surrender to the journey itself.
“As the arousal builds during lovemaking, surrender to the flow of orgasmic energy will inspire the Goddess within. Rather than rushing to the peak of orgasm and crashing back down again, allow the orgasmic energy to build, then relax and surrender to it.”
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