Life is messy
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Posted:Jun 13, 2013 8:11 am
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2013 1:11 pm
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It's human nature to make mistakes, to say stupid things, to do stupid things. We have all done it. Life gets messy. There are emotions and feelings and moods. There are problems and solutions. There are different personalities.
We spend so much time looking for something, when sometimes it's right in front of us and we don't see it. At times we accept people because its who we think we want but they aren't meant for us. Life is full of the unknown. But, it's also full of excitement.
So forgive easily, don't judge people for their mistakes, don't get down on yourself for yours. Life is supposed to be messy. 
We aren't supposed to arrive at the pearly gates pristine and perfect but, slide in...out of breath, rumpled...with a smile saying "wow what a ride" 
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Mars or Venus?
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Posted:Jun 11, 2013 12:03 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2013 12:34 pm
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They say "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" I think there's something to that. We definitely think differently. Our brains are not wired the same. It's kind of the universe's (or God or whomever you believe in) way of stickin' it to us really.
To make it so we are attracted to each other, want to be with each other, but we see the world and each other differently. But, I guess we can compliment each other as well, if you are lucky enough to find that.
Sometimes, I think gay or lesbian couples have it easier in that regard. But that's not for me. I love my female friends but, I really love men. I love their touch, their smell, I love it all. I guess I will continue to try to navigate the universe and see if I can learn "martianese" 
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Ripple effect
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Posted:Jun 11, 2013 10:10 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2013 12:13 pm
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If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?
I love to dress in naughty, sexy outfits. It plays into the whole feel good, look good thing and it has a ripple effect. When a woman wears lingerie for you, she feels sexier. When you admire it on her, she feels more confident. When she feels more confident, she is more enthusiastic sexually. If she's going to, that would be the time that she tries something new, or helps you fulfill one of your fantasies. 
It's the same thing when you make your partner happy. Guys that's why all those little things we like are important. When we are happy and feel appreciated, you are more likely to be met at the door when we have nothing on but a smile or some other naughty thing we think you would like. *Y*
So, make your partner happy and she'll make you happy...and satisfied. Share your fantasies with her, you never know when she will try to surprise you with it. o-o
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Meat Market??
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Posted:Jun 8, 2013 12:56 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2013 10:42 am
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So on my mind today is how we meet as sexually active people without treating people like a slab of meat, or a toy?
Maybe there are those who like that, but I don't. I don't treat prospective partners that way either. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect. Can you not have a conversation with someone with asking their breast size or if they like anal sex....in the first 5 minutes??
Spend a few minutes to get to know people first. If you are like minded, the conversation will go that way eventually. The question is always..."what are you into?" Well what do you say? Shouldn't that be a face to face question, after you meet and see if you like each other? If there is no chemistry, what is the point?
I'd love to hear your thoughts??
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Do unto others!
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Posted:Jun 3, 2013 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2013 2:36 pm
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`Sometimes ....we expect more from others...because we would be willing to do that much for them` 
I am a caregiver by nature and when I care about someone in any type of relationship, friend, aunt, girlfriend or whatever, I `look after them` in one way or the other. I get pleasure and satisfaction by ensuring they are looked after and whatever I can do to make life easier for them is worth it. Some people if they aren`t used to it, can misunderstand. It`s quite innocent, no ulterior motives lol.
Others, take it for granted and come to expect it. I can deal with that. It`s those people that push their luck and take advantage of me. that really bugs me. If I was discouraged easily I would have given up by now.
All I really want from anyone I care about is to treat me with the 3`C`s` Caring, Courtesy and Cooperation. That is the least anyone can offer. Someday I hope to find a special friend, who will be comfortable receiving that from me as well as giving it. Fingers crossed.
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Alive
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Posted:Jun 3, 2013 8:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:24 am
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It's amazing how much better I feel with the onset of summer! It's like a re-awakening. Got some sun, went swimming, had a BBQ. My soul feels lighter, more free.
Maybe it's all in my head, lol but, the fact remains that my energy level is up, my outlook has widened and I'm more optimistic about the future. So instead of questioning it or over-thinking it, I'm just going to go with it.{=}
Those people who are in my life to enhance it, let's do it! Those that are here to cause me problems, look out....I will steam roll right over you!!!!!!
Having a good karma day.....let's hope some asshole doesn't mess it up!!
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Boobies
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Posted:May 31, 2013 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2013 6:17 pm
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Well a funny thing happened to me today. I have largeish sized boobs and so show cleavage no matter what I wear. I'm told they look pretty good too! *Y*
Today as I was ordering at a coffee shop, the guy behind the counter was very obviously gay. He was very nice so we chatted a bit. During the conversation he kept looking at my boobs. Then he looked me in the eye and said "those are awesome boobies...you know if you like that sorta thing" Well it was hilarious!! He made my day! So honey, whoever you are....my boobies thank you and so do I for the laughs. 
Have a great weekend everyone....blog on.
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Life ugghh
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Posted:May 30, 2013 8:53 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2013 9:46 pm
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Did you ever part ways with someone and you are so mad or hurt or both, that you say or do stupid things? It's the worst !! You know you will regret the shit coming out of your mouth, or your fingertips as you text, but the verbal diarrhea continues. You say things that you know will hurt the other person so they will know how it feels. Sometimes, you even become melodramatic lol
Then what? You can't take it back and sorry doesn't help by that time. Then you try too hard and end up sounding stupid !! Don't deny it, we have all said or done things we wish we could undo or unsay. Of course it's more a woman thing as we have all those hormones causing havoc inside us. Sometimes I hate being a hormonal woman! And for those that have medical issues in that area, the moods are even worse. So after I have put my foot in my mouth.....what next.....I'd love to hear your thoughts. Ok that's it for my late night rant It's funny the stupid things you think of when you can't sleep lmao
In the meantime, I'm changing my marital status from single to independently, owned and operated
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Cougars
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Posted:May 30, 2013 11:45 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2013 4:18 pm
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Well I have to say it was a little scary putting my thoughts out there for the world but the great feedback has been awesome. It's nice to know other's share my opinions. Thanks for reading.
So musing of the day....what is a cougar? There seem to be a lot of young guys looking for mature women. When you ask them, the answers are varied but boils down to knowing our way around the bedroom. Honestly, it's a turn on to be desired by a younger man but, it gets old quickly when you have nothing in common. I'm not generalizing because I have met younger men that I can talk to and identify with, but as a rule, not so much. The big turn off is when they are cocky and act like they would be doing you a favor by having sex with you. Please.... I admit to having sex with a few younger guys, but did not set out to be a cougar and find the term insulting. I choose a man to be with based on personality and chemistry.
And by the way......unless you are miniature or huge....I don't care what size your penis is
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r-e-s-p-e-c-t
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Posted:May 29, 2013 7:08 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2013 11:16 am
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Wow, seriously guys, you need to come up with some new and original pick up lines. If your opening line is "do you want to suck my big cock?" mine will be, not even a little bit! Whether its for sex or dating women want to be treated with respect. Half of the fun is the anticipation, flirting, teasing, building up to sex.
It's like foreplay for us. Necessary to complete the deal.
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FWB
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Posted:May 29, 2013 11:55 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 1:31 pm
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Friends with benefits is a great concept but in reality not so much. If you are a caring person, how do you have regular, ongoing sex and /or friendship without feelings getting involved? If you stay aloof enough not to get involved you have to censor your activities, words and actions. It is human nature to care about each other. Everyone needs human contact and affection and also needs to give it. Unless you are looking for notches on your belt then fwb is not always possible.
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People
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Posted:May 28, 2013 3:46 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 11:46 am
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Isn`t it ironic...We ignore the ones who adore us, adore the ones who ignore us, love the ones who hurt us, and hurt the ones who love us.
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Suprise!
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Posted:May 26, 2013 6:13 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:24 am
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People constantly surprise me. Some with the depths of their kindness. Others with how self centered and mean they are. I guess we need the bad to appreciate the good in people.
Lesson learned.
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