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Finding a Fertile Field
Posted:Apr 25, 2016 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 11:06 am
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Sigh.

Well, RED turned out to be a douche-- nothing at all like the good guy I though he was. Shortly after dealing with that fiasco, I met another guy here (we'll call him...well, fuck it-- his name is Mike, lol).

So MIKE and I chatted constantly for a few weeks and then took me to dinner twice... things were going awesome...until he decided he wanted to find a real relationship and start dating. Of course he tells me this AFTER I start caring about him (but before I got too terribly invested). I'm not a fan of the way he handled things, but I'll give him credit for being honest with me. I had a feeling he wasn't gonna work because my marriage was a tough thing for him to reconcile, even though I'm playing with permission.

Anyhoo...the bottom line is that I need a new playground on which to play. Every time I open this site, I see the same cocks and the same smiles and the same guys day in and day out. The local dudes already know me-- either I've already rejected them, or they've already rejected me. I need to move on.

Anyone have any suggestions? I'm not quite ready for Fetlife, and POF doesn't allow married people. I won't play with married folks, so Ashley Madison is out.

Where can I go to see men I don't know???
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I Feel Pretty...
Posted:Feb 23, 2016 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2016 11:45 am
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SO much to catch up on, but as usual...no time to do it, lol.

Quick caption: This is my new bra. There are many bras just like it, but this one is mine . Seriously though-- it's the first PRETTY bra that I've been able to wear since the surgery. I never gave a ton of credence to the impact a piece of lingerie can make on one's outlook, but now I'm convinced...

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