Feet Phreakz? Grow a Pair!
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Posted:Feb 19, 2012 6:06 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2012 6:31 am
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Anyone besides me spent any time checking out the forums on here? Take this one for instance, the Foot Fetish Forum. I'd expect to find posts here from foot aficionados, connoisseurs of fine footwear, pedicure lovers, massage therapists, reflexologists, possibly even an occasional shoe sniffer, whatever. What I found instead, mostly anyway, is a bunch of questioners and apologists. WTF? You either have a particular fetish or you don't. If you don't, where do you get off questioning those who might? They're the only ones who have any right to get on here and post, so in defense of those who should but don't or could but won't, please allow this rant... I discovered the allure of a pretty pair of peds in my prepubescent youth, at the beach as you might suppose. Nobody had to explain to me why women spent so much money on shoes and pedicures, nope, not even why women endured the torture of totally non-sensible too high heels. Men look, men stare, men gawk, men drool, yeah, works for me. By the time I was old enough to wear heels myself, I'd perfected the art of the 'dangle' and thanks to Hollywood, even the occasional, innocent, under the table crotch rub, just to see the guy squirm in a public situation, hehee. So what? This makes them deviant? Sorry, this makes them normal in my book. Perhaps even above normal, special if you will, certainly sensitive, and in my experience, above average in intellect and most likely everything else. So I'll ask again, WTF? Now, here's the rub (as I see it)... Most men, when questioned, especially by other guys, will cop to a 'leg' fetish, even a shoe fetish, but rarely a foot fetish. I guess it goes against the grain of machismo to see feet as possibly erotic. Go figure. Symptomatic of our conformist society I suppose. Why do 90% of men sport military style short hair or the shaved headed, goatee look? Conformity, sigh. Well, all I can say is, 'Grow a Pair!' Some of my more political friends refer to the average Joe out there as 'sheeple'. Whatever happened to rugged individualism? How 'bout original thought? What are 'established norms' and who gave anyone the power to establish them? For what it's worth, I consider it courageous to openly express one's innermost desires. So long as one's proclivities don't involve or animals, I'll most likely have an open mind. I've always found foot fetishists amongst the easiest of all men to please, and when you reach my age, you take advantage where it's there for the taking. For those women who haven't figured this out yet, consider this: it just might be me they're dreaming about while they're lying there with you!
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Posted:Feb 17, 2012 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2012 6:28 am
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They say we're living in a 'dumbed down' society and there's no greater evidence of that than a quick read through my 'Inbox' messages. Sigh. I'm sure I speak for all the ladies here when I state categorically that HotMatch.com's a Woman's World. It really is. It's the only place I know of that is. You guys all know it, and many of you resent it, but it is what it is so you make your decisions and live with them, just like you do anywhere else, right? Okay then, we're on the same page. It's a meet market or a meat market or however you choose to perceive it. I only ask you take these moments to perceive this through our (women's) eyes. Yeah we know you deal with fakes and flakes here all the time. I've read their profiles, they're easy to spot. The supermodel, cheerleader pics alone should give them away. Other than that, their profiles resemble most guy's, no substance whatever. Is this where you get your clues how to compose them? You pay good money and slap up a profile that leaves everyone wondering? Take your time, be as honest as possible, answer as many questions as possible and revise and revive it as often as you feel necessary. Give us something to work with, stimulate our imaginations, some of us actually read them, I do. Pictures are secondary in my book, but they do rate a strong second. Try to avoid posing alongside anything dead, like Bambi or Nemo. It's a turn off. Bodybuilder pics are weird too, I mean it's great to maintain one's health and physique, but it can be taken waaay too seriously and most women are left wondering which gender it is you're actually trying to impress, or in my case, where'd you find the time to build that bod, prison? You wanna tug at my heartstrings? Show me a faceshot with some little hanging about your neck or hugging Rover or something. Appendage shots are fine too, but given the choice, I wanna see your face, your eyes! (I'll probably ask for that cock pic before we meet, but that's just me, hehee) Now that you're an expert at profiles, try reading the chick's! Look for clues, things hidden in plain sight. Some of us are sex addicts, some of us are OCD, some are bored, neglected, hopeless romantics, hoping to live out some fantasy, try something different, out for revenge or even grudge fucking. Some of us are experienced, some not so, some of us are confident, other's scared shitless. Try to get a feel for whom it is you'll be writing and at least some idea what she's looking for. Lastly, try and make your message personal. I can spot the cut and pastes a mile away and resent the shotgun approach aimed my way. Try to avoid the one liners and the cliches. If the chick is a paying member, don't attach your profile. Attach a couple pics (see above). A little humor goes a long ways, and it's even okay to get graphic, just don't overdo it or leave it at that. We need to be enticed and convinced you're worthy of that second glance. This is our world, remember? My favorite definition of insanity is the one that goes something like; 'Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over, always expecting different results!'
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