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Why Do This?
 
My thoughts. I tend to ramble, so I'll try to stick to my thoughts vis a vis sex.
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Happy Valentine's Day!
Posted:Feb 12, 2016 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2016 7:45 pm
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I finally found it...

I went online, and went to Google: I had a mission to find an appropriate photograph to post here for Valentine's day. So, I typed in the search, "sexy valentine", and clicked on images.

Ok, so most of the images that came up were of hot, delicious, lovely women in skimpy lingerie and provocative poses. Well, that's not really me, is it? I mean, yeah, I enjoy looking at the pics, but they really wouldn't capture the real me. So I kept searching.

The ones that weren't of lovely women in lingerie were of hunky men in their skivvies, or even less. While that is closer to me, it does not reflect the real me. So I kept searching.

Scrolling back to the top, I found a link that was for images of men. So I clicked it. Ok, most of the images were of men in their skivvies (again), but this time many of them were involved with another man. Well, that doesn't reflect the real me. So I kept searching.

Finally - a photo I can identify with! Something that I think speaks more about me than any of those photos of poseurs and shallow men who only live to show off their beauty.

Happy Valentine's Day - I hope you enjoy the photo I have chosen to share with all of you!
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Ok, let's try again...
Posted:Feb 7, 2016 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2016 8:34 pm
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How about I post a few key words, only this time, I won't write my own version? I still want to see what you would write, what turns you on. If you would rather keep it private, please let me know.

Ok, ready for the fun? How about these words...

tickle
nibble
tweak
spooning
butterfly kisses

Hmm... that looks good to me. Why don't you give it a try?
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Where did I stop...? Oh, yes...
Posted:Jan 23, 2016 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2016 7:54 pm
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He ran his hand down her belly. While his mouth was kept busy going back and forth between those perfect breasts, her neck, her lips, his hands had found their way to her panties. He gently reached inside, and found that she was already starting to get ready for him. The moisture of her fueled something in him, a need to possess, a need to pleasure her as he had not done all those years before.

If you were the author - and I do ask this seriously, as I love to see what you think and what turns you on - where would you take this? I will be posting my continuation of this story in the comments section. Feel free to take a look, and to leave some comments of what happens in your version!
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Images...
Posted:Jan 12, 2016 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2016 7:34 pm
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A darkened room...

A rustle...

A little nudge...

A kiss... a sigh... a touch...

Ready? Fill in the blanks. What's so great about this room? What was rustling? Who got nudged - and, more importantly, why? Where was the kiss? Why did it cause a sigh? Who got touched, where?

I get thoughts like these in my head from time to time. Usually, it starts as dialogue, frequently with one person saying something to a second person, like, "What do you want? Do you even know?"

Setting is important - to me, sometimes it is even more important than what is being said. The setting can prepare a mood, a feeling, usually in a more subtle way, and subtle can be good. What is the setting in your story?

Characters. I usually end up basing characters in my thought-stories on myself and various other people I know. I actually find that... well, limiting. Since I have such a poor self-esteem, I usually cannot come up with really good thought-stories involving me getting anything I want. If I can't get any action in my own imagination, how could I imagine I could do so in reality? lol

Actions. What is it that is going on, and how does it drive the plot? What are they doing, and how can you describe it so your reader can picture it in their mind? Will the action get in the way, or will it add to the picture your reader is painting in their mind?

I thought I would give this little story starter a try. You will be able to find it in the comment section... once I write it. Take a look, then give it a try for yourself. What images did you see when you read those first opening lines of this post?
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Happy New Year...?
Posted:Jan 1, 2016 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2016 7:01 pm
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Another year over, another one begun...
Time flies when you're having so much fun...

A photo here, a video or two
All for pleasure for me and you.

IM's are down, then up, then down,
After trying it, I feel like a clown.

Perving on pics, on videos, on cams
Of women so hot I feel like saying, "Damn!"

A flirt? Oh, heavens! Oh, my!
Oops! It's just another guy...

Count your many lovers, how many you hold dear,
And hold tight to them all, and repeat it next year!

Happy New Year!
May the new year bring you your fondest desires, whether it be monetarily, professionally, or sexually!
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Happy Holidays!
Posted:Dec 25, 2015 7:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2015 7:40 pm
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Whatever holidays you celebrate, I hope this time of year is joyous, and filled with laughter, fun, food, family, and friends!

I also hope we all find whatever we desire in the upcoming new year - new year, new possibilities, right?
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The End...?
Posted:Dec 12, 2015 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2015 9:34 am
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Ok, it may be, it may not be...

My wife has purchased a device that will track all access to the internet from all our WiFi devices... maybe mine as well.

Oh, and I agreed with her for the need, knowing it would put my visiting out here at risk - one of our is having some troubles with the internet, so being able to monitor what she is doing could help us prepare for whatever trouble she may have.

come first, folks. No matter how I may feel about it, and no matter what pleasure I get from visiting here, If helping my deal with this issue she has now means giving up the blogs, the cams, the pics, the perving... well, it is a price I am willing to pay.

It all depends upon what it takes to monitor devices: if my wife doesn't set herself up for this device, why should I? If it needs a download, I might just "forget" to download the app. What a shame.

However, I have a feeling, this just is a set and go kind of thing, in which case, well, it's been fun and all.

Keep it sexy, folks!
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Hmm...
Posted:Dec 5, 2015 7:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2016 4:31 pm
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I was wondering...

I frequently ask questions in my posts. These are not rhetorical - I really do wonder what people think about. And, yet, I only receive one or two comments on most of my posts, even though they may receive hundreds of views. And these comments come courtesy of only a few people (thank you for commenting, by the way! ).

So, here goes nothing...

Recently, I have started adding some pictures to my posts, some photos form the internet of women in lingerie I find attractive. I have been wondering if folks have been enjoying them, or not.

So, the question is, do you find photos of people (other than the blogger) to be an acceptable use of space? Frankly, I like putting photos out there, and I do enjoy looking for these pictures;, so I continue to do it, no matter what the pole says. I'm just curious, and, as I said before, I receive very few comments from folks regarding my posts. Maybe the poll will work better.
I'm not a fan of pictures of women in general...
I'm not a fan of pictures in the blogs...
I'm not a fan of pictures of people other than the blogger in the blogs...
I love the idea of pictures, but yours are not enjoyable to me...
I love pictures, and I think these women are lovely!
I wish more people would include pictures of what they think is sexy!
Something else... (feel free to leave a comment)
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A Hint of Seduction...
Posted:Dec 2, 2015 8:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2015 6:31 pm
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There are times...

I believe I have mentioned this before, but I love to come out here and look at the various photographs of members. Sometimes, I want to see something totally raunchy, totally naked, and sweaty, and dripping.

Other times, I prefer a little lingerie.

A long time, I described lingerie as a "hint of seduction". There's something there, but it's not always what you see that's important. It's the hidden gems, the hidden places that you need to find to help her find so she can have a good time, too.

Ladies, what are your favorite pieces of lingerie? Do you wear them to please your partner - or to please yourself? Men, would you rather see a woman buck naked, or wearing something slinky?

(only 2 pics this time)

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I've got a pussy...
Posted:Nov 21, 2015 8:14 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 12:56 am
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Ok, no, I don't - I think that's why I'm out here, frankly.

But I do have a cat. She's very friendly, and she loves petting.

Ah, petting. Been a while since I've had that pleasure. Running my hand along her back, feeling her shiver... having her run her nails down my back... oh, yeah...

A lot of kissing. I love kissing women. I love pulling them up tightly against my body, feeling their curves through their clothes. I love reaching under a blouse, and working my hand up, up, up, until the only thing that separates me from my target is a sheer bra.

I used to cup the breast first - feel its weight, feel its shape, feel how soft, how smooth the skin is around the breast. If I could cup both of them at the same time, I was a very happy man!

I believe the last time I was involved in some heavy petting, it was in a bed. In a nice, dark room. We were laying in bed, her head rested upon my left arm while we kissed, and my right hand was wandering around.

I remember slowly pulling her blouse off, and pulling the bra strap down, and slowly exposing her lovely breast to my hungry eyes. I remember kissing a path down her neck, across her chest, until I could kiss her breast. Lick her nipple. Blow cool air on her nipple, still with some saliva on it from when I was licking it. Once it was nice and hard, I would suck on it, trying to pull as much of it as I could into my mouth.

Of course, my hand was still roaming her body, sliding down, until I hit her pants. A little pull, and th snap comes undone, and we would slowly push her pants off her while we were still greedily kissing each other. A finger running along the outside of her panties, just to make sure she is getting wet... oh, yeah!

My hands would trail off down her legs, as I hoped to prolong her pleasure, as well as to tease her. By now, she's untucking my shirt, unbuttoning it, and trying to slide it off my shoulders. But I still have a bit of a lead in the removing clothes department... one piece left!

I loved to finger her clit through the fabric. Something about the silky soft panties and her clit, well, it really turned her on. Far be it from me to skip using something so handy!

One she starts to soak through her panties, they need to come off. I kiss a path down along her belly, across her hips, and down the inside of one leg, all the way down to the ankle, and then switch to the other side and kiss my way leisurely back up, until I am face to face with her pussy.

The fragrance... the feel of her... the total control I had over her while I was licking her, while I was finger-fucking her... I would sometimes reach up and tweak one of her nipples, trying to keep a pattern with the tongue lashing I was giving her.

My free hand is roaming along her belly, holding her in place, as she starts to squirm, trying either to get away - a futile hope, at best - or to rub herself a little harder on my face.

Eventually, all good things must come to an end, so I would work my way back up, kissing a path along her hip, her belly, her breasts (sucking on those beautiful nipples), her neck, all the while continuing to finger fuck her. I would hold her tight against me as my finger kept up its dance, and my lips and tongue would move to the beat my fingers were making,

If I was lucky, she would return the favor. One of my favorite things to do during foreplay was 69. But I would frequently lose myself in pleasuring her, ad her sucking me would be quite pointless; but, if I concentrated on her sucking me, I wouldn't last very long.

Sometimes, a feather would be involved; maybe a mask, so she wouldn't know what was coming next.

You know what we never tried? A vibrator. That might have been a lot of fun!

What's your favorite part of foreplay?
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An Interlude...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 11:52 am
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2015 9:33 am
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A quick kiss...

A brief moment...

Feeling aroused, you see him take her behind the curtain...

You decide to follow. Why? Does it matter?

Just beyond the curtain is a dark hallway. Only enough light to see two silhouettes a little beyond where you stand. And, from how busy they are, you can safely guess they haven't noticed you yet.

Kissing again, you hear her sigh... she is as excited as he is, both have wanted this for so long. Was it worth it?, you think.

They break apart for a quick moment, just long enough for her to reach down and place her hand on his crotch. As your eyes become more adjusted to the dark, you see her hand move quickly, until you hear the sound of a zipper being gently tugged down. Her hand reaches in, and you watch as her arm moves gently up and down.

Some more cloth moves, and he bends down to place he face against her chest. You hear some gentle sounds, wet sounds, and you realize he has opened up her blouse and is licking at her nipples. From the way her face turns up, and the the way her pumping in his pants escalates, you know she is enjoying the attention.

You stand in the shadows, listening and watching, as things start to get hot and heavy. Reaching down, you start to feel your own excitement, as he turns her around and pushes gently on her back to get her to bend over. Pulling up her dress, you hear the sound of cloth tearing, right before his first thrust - and you hear her responding moan.

You start to pull aside your clothing... she hears you... looking over, she beckons you to join in.

What do you do?
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Spending more time here...
Posted:Oct 24, 2015 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2016 8:10 pm
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Ok, I'm back... kind of...

I've read a few blogs of folks who are either leaving or are preparing to leave.

Let me set your minds at ease, dear readers... I ain't planning on going anywhere right now.

I'm not copying, I'm not packing up, I'm not clearing out... I am here because I like some things here, and, even though the new policies are twisting my knickers, this is the most action my knickers have seen in years!

All kidding aside, why do this? You know, the title of my blog. I could even expand upon it further: why am I on HotMatch.com?

For me, HotMatch.com is a getaway. I can leave behind my marriage, my age, my lack of "hung" status... everything. I can be cool... for a while. I can be attractive... for now. I can be the person I see in my mind. And, let's be honest - What I see of me in my mind is not what I see when I look at photographs of me.

Inside my head, I am still a young man, with hopes, dreams, desires. Inside my head, I have vigor, I have a full head of hair (I just noticed, it's starting to go in the back now). In my head, I can smile at a woman - and she can smile back - and I don't have to wonder if I remind her of her long-dead grandfather, father, or uncle.

In my head, my wife loves me - and still shows it. In my head, my are not struggling with identity crises, or with puberty, or with - gulp! - boys. In my head, the world is a peaceful, harmonic place. Unfortunately, there isn't much space inside my head. I'd invite you, but I don't know if there would be room for me to show you around. And it's a lovely place in here...

All the books I've read? Over in the corner over to your right. To your left, all the amateur and professional porn I've seen - and how they could be improved by having me in the scene with them. Toward the back is all the women I've dreamed of making love to - and, yes, many of you are back there.

Up in front, however, is reality. And, in reality, I am who I am. No amount of wishing, reading, watching is going to change that. I can - and have - effected some changes in my life. And, sure, I could dye my hair (tried it a couple of times, it didn't work out well), or try to find a way to regrow or transplant hair (like no one would ever notice that! Hah!). Or I can try to accept it.

Is me being on HotMatch.com helping me to accept reality? No. Ok, well, somewhat. I have looked in on some profiles, wondering what I would do if I had the courage... but most of the women I am attracted to are way out of my league. I have pretty high standards for a guy (I had a roommate once, who's only criteria for sleeping with a woman was that, well, she was a woman. Oh, and she was breathing. That was about it). So I have daydreamed about our encounters, but never followed through, because I remind myself of what I am.

So, HotMatch.com allows me to perv pictures and videos and cams from the safety of my home. I get to read blogs by people I consider friends. I get to chat with adults about sex, about making love, and about the philosophical differences between the two.

What about you: why are you here? What do you get out of your HotMatch.com experience? Do the changes brought about by management reduce your enjoyment of the site to the point where leaving is not just a possibility, but an inevitability? What do you want to say?
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I haven't been out much recently...
Posted:Oct 16, 2015 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2015 6:51 pm
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Real life is becoming a bit overbearing right now.

The ' school work is starting to pick up a bit, which means I have less time to play out here, plus my own work is picking up, which also cuts into my time.

I will peek in, when I can, mostly to get caught up on the blogs, maybe to watch a cam or two, but I need to cut back for a bit. How long? I really don't know.

So, Friends, Gold Members, Standards... lend me your rears...

Uh... wait a minute, I think I missed... ah. Yes. There it is.

So, Friends, Gold Members, Standards... lend me your tears...

Nope... still not right.

Eh. I'll try again later.

Until we meet again - adieu!
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