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JOE'S BLOG
Why some women attract only the creeps on HotMatch.com
Posted:Apr 15, 2010 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2013 1:08 pm
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There are many nice guys here on HotMatch.com and quiet a few creeps and weirdos. I have learned a little from the female point of view from my female friends here, and I have noticed a pattern with the women who complain about the creeps who contact them and that they doubt there are nice guys here.
The thing that they all had in common is a bad profile. by that I mean a profile where there are 2 lines or less in the "about me" section. very little to no words in the "my ideal person" section. and personal information (body type, smoke, drink, etc.) is not fully completed.
What does it have to do with the creeps you ask ?

Though you hold the power of the universe between your legs, and it is not a secret that because you have a vagina you can get as many penises as you wish whenever you want. it is also known that we men are vagina pigs. don't let these facts fool ya.
I am a pussy junkie myself, but I still have standards. believe it or not there are profiles that I skip or don't make contact with. if you didn't take the time to tell me a little about yourself, likes, dislikes, what your looking for and most important, what your not looking for. and if you have horrible, blurry, grainy photos that looks like it was shot in 1982. that is not appealing to me or any man with some intelligence and who is not insanely desperate. who makes contacts with these bad profiles ? the desperate creeps. the ones that don't care about anything besides the fact that you have a vagina.
Believe it or not there are weirdos in the female pool here. the intelligent man is trying to avoid those. if there isn't enough information about the chick, she is either hiding something (Weirdo, crack head, psycho, etc.) or she doesn't think anyone is worthy of her time and effort because she has a vagina.
Women, you are the most amazing, powerful, desirable and beautiful creatures on this planet. BUT, if you wont take the time to show us what you got "inside" you are left with the guys who want only the "outside". those are the dudes who cant hold a conversation before and after sex. the ones who don't care about their own appearance and hygiene.
Hey, even with a one night stand I still want to be able to have a conversation with her before and after sex, even if its a brief conversation, but I gotta know I'm not fucking a mentally challenged chick.

Bottom line, even though all of us here are not looking for the next love of our life, and we are free spirited sexual beings here, you get what you put in (your profile). if you see HotMatch.com as a place for sleaze balls, horny people that's exactly what you will find here. but if you are looking to meet new sexual, open minded, fun, loving friends. invest a little and make a good looking profile with lots of photos and text about yourself. you will only find that a well written profile will scare away the creeps and attract your match for a fun friendship with fun sex.

The reason why I wrote this and share it is because a couple of my female friends who complained about the creepy men who contacted them had a profile with very little information about them and bad or to few pictures. after taking my advise and invested a few minutes to tell about themselves, likes, dislikes, fetishes and what they are looking for. almost immediately after, they have noticed a huge difference by the men and couples who contacted them. not only that, but they became good friendships because they all have the same interests, hobbies, fetishes etc.

We men are all vagina pigs, but take my advise and start attracting the good pigs at least

Have fun my princesses. I love you all. be safe and fuck allot! its healthy!

Joe.
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How to spot a fake profile - for the guys.
Posted:Apr 12, 2010 2:51 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2013 1:09 pm
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This is for the men. though I am sure most experienced members know these signs, this could be helpful for the new male members.

There are 5 major signs that guarantee a fake profile that belongs to spammers;

1) Photos
If there is only one image in her profile, or two or more of the same image. also look for images that are all from the same photo shoot. ie. same clothing/ background. in many cases if the images look like they were professionally made, in most cases they were downloaded/ stolen from the web.
There is always exception to the rule(s). but I guarantee you 99.9% of the time if you see the things mentioned above in a profile its a spammer.

2) Text
If profile text is less than 3 lines most likely its a spammer.
though some do copy & paste a longer "about me" in most cases sign number 1 above will be in effect.

3) Member since
A good way to tell the spammers apart is to look at their date of joining. in most cases spammers get deleted after bugging us and being reported. so if the "hot chick" who is "dying for a cock right now" joined today or yesterday, its a spammer.

4) Friends
Thats an easy one. if they dont have friends its most likely a spammer.

5) Hotness
Not to say that there aren't any hot and beautiful women here (I know, I have been with a few that I met here) but if there is a picture of a model material chick or a "ten" I am willing to bet anything that all rules above 1 through 4 apply to this type of spammer profile.

These spammers who are the like roaches of HotMatch.com that will never go are after your Email and money. a rule of thumb would be not to give out your Email on your first response to a profile you like. a good way to test it is to send a flirt. wink, kiss or hug the potential interest. in most cases if its a spammer you will never hear from her (him) again.
Also when you do get a reply, if your name is not in the reply somewhere or if there is an Email address she wants you to write her because she cant receive Emails on HotMatch.com, that's a red flag right there. the minute you write "her" back on her Email they have your Email addy.
Dont be afraid to report spammers. it helps us all to reduce the number of fake profiles here.
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HotMatch.com Rocks !!
Posted:Apr 12, 2010 2:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2013 10:59 pm
2326 Views

Just wanted to express my satisfaction with HotMatch.com.
I have been a member, off and on, for over 6 years. twice with my significant other. but this time around for some reason the success rate is better than ever! I have met quite a few interesting, fun, sexy women. I have made new friends. its wonderful.
I adore and appreciate the free spirited sexual ladies for being so much fun! you girls ROCK!

XOXO
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