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well with the new year I have decided to rebuild my self.
After being on HotMatch.com for sometime now. It has become apparent the ladies here don't like heavyset men. So this blog will cover how I am doing and how things change and just who will be "catching the vapors" Later lol
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Time for a bit of comedy my first experiance with zumba
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Posted:Jan 9, 2015 6:04 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 5:33 am
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Well on my days I don't lift weights I am normally on my exercise bike. Well that does get a bit boring to use hrs and hrs a day so I decided to get some zumba videos and figured that once I had it down good at home I might go the the zumba classes they have at the gym.
So I put the first one of the disk in that shows you how to do the the steps. It start with 2 really good looking gals walking you each of the steps slow at first then faster. so far so good right? As I watched this and tried to do this stuff I keep almost falling over laughing.
See as much as they try to say zumba is for everybody It was too obvious that it is geared for ladies. So I am trying to do this video and every so often I see a refection of my self while I am doing this and see my big bald head goat tee wearing ass looking like a freaking Mary doing this. I will admit it was a very good work out, but doing this In a class? In front of people I don't see happening, It may be grounds to have my man card pulled.
I am sure there are guys some where who do that, but so far I have to say there is no way to look very manly do zumba so don't expect me to post any videos of me doing it any time soon.
I spent the money on it so I will go ahead and keep using it at home why not at least I know I will get my daily laugh in and give my bike a rest. Its just a shame the whole thing is so girly I would have liked the social interaction but not at cost of my dignity.
I will let you all tell me ,Those of you who do zumba do you ever see guys at your classes? Do you feel that guys can do it and not look like total sissy's?
I guess the whole thing is till good because it did make me laugh. I just thought I would share it will ya because if the image of big ruff looking guy doing zumba don't crack ya up I don't know what will. lol
see ya next time HotMatch.com world keep having fun.
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its been a few days and the first weight in.
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Posted:Jan 8, 2015 10:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2015 2:03 pm
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Its been a few days since my last post I have just been too busy with what I have been doing make them.
Today was my first weight in since I started this and I am off to a great start I am down 14 lbs. If I can keep up like this I will get to where I want to be in no time.
Its is always nice to be surprised like that. I was not expecting near as much of a drop. I plan to keep on going with what I am doing and if nothing else add to it.
My gym seems to have lots of classes and events going on so I might start doing that more. Heck I might have better odds than HotMatch.com there too lol.
So today has been a happy day for me even with the snow dropping bad here. I seem to be feeling a bit better everyday I am doing this. So I am going to keep going and i am not looking back.
I look forward to the day I will be able post some new pictures for you all.If I keep up at this rate it may be by the end of the month we will see. What I do know is I am feeling great and looking to add some other things to my scheduled soon. May be some swing dance or ball room classes my be even yoga who knows. I am just seeing more and more outside opportunities beginning to open up to me and that feels great..
Well so long till next time HotMatch.com world. keep having fun till then.
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days 3 : The day after and winter sucks!! lol
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Posted:Jan 5, 2015 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 2:15 pm
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Well I am on day three of all this working out as you can guess I woke up so sore I could not move. Now may be someone with sense my have taken the day off. Myself being a bit stubborn about all this I decided to push though.
One thing I do know is once you stop its to easy to stay stopped.I was stiff to the point I could not move but I went about doing my workouts anyways. The good news is once I did start moving I was able to work a lot of the stiffness out.
I still had a certain about of pain going on as I have arthritis kinda bad in the hip I was shot in .Just as I started doing all this working out it dropped a bunch of snow outside that does not help me one bit.
I was not going to let it stop me. I made up my mind when I started this I was not going to let anything stop me.
What helped me a lot as I was going though what seems to be one of the worst days I was going to have, Was thinking of the end result and how things will be when I get there.
I have a long way to go with what I am trying to do but it seems I have made it past the worst part of it and see what I am trying to do is very achievable
Well I am cutting this post a bit short today as ya can guess I am very tired and yes a bit sore and I have the whole thing to do over again tomorrow as insane as that sounds. lol
The things a guy does to get a little love right!
see ya next time HotMatch.com world till then keep having fun.
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day 2 Enter the midnight club and starting off at rock bottem
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Posted:Jan 4, 2015 5:59 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2015 3:00 am
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I know when ya take on a task like I have. You have to look it all dead in the face like I did tonight. I had to step on a scale and it was at 286 yikes!! So I started off with a sigh kinda feeling at rock bottom and start my power lifting. Every thing did go well with that and I found out I am still strong as bull.
I did realize hey! I have to start somewhere and it could have been a lot worst. I could have had gym full of people watching me. lol
I did join a 24 hrs gym and I call my work outs the Midnight club because that's about the time when I go in and I have the whole place to my self without any one giving me funny looks and I can work out in peace. Plus there could always be a possible penthouse letter come out of it (Local gal makes it big at a late night gym) LOL
It did make me reflect on how people are. Here I am at midnight or later working out in a gym for what? All so I can fit in? So I can be accepted by the very people who think they have a right to treat someone like me as less than?
It is a bit de-motivational and I realize as much as I would like to change the world I cant. I can only change me and that's what I am working on with my first steps here.
So what are my worries for when I wake up this morning? Will I be able to move? LOL
I know no matter what I feel like I have to keep moving forward. As I suffer though this I just think about what my life to be will be like? See this isn't about just being healthier for me I have to go far above and beyond that I mean I do want all you ladies out there to want me and drool at the very site of me
I feel the need to pull back the curtain and show everyone what people find so special and attractive isn't special at all its there for anyone to have you just got to do a little work to get it. So I can! I will! I must get to the 10% body fat marker to do that.(Hulk mad!)LOL
Right now it looks impossible but it is possible.
The things a guy has to do for a little love Right ?
well If your reading my blog here ya will have a ringside seat for it.
You get watch a guy go though hell for a year.
Well I make it? well I give up? well I drop over from a heart attack before I make it? LOL
Well your just going to have to keep reading my blog to find out
I plan to make it and all I can say is there is a lot of people who may wish they got in while the price is low because I can guarantee you when I get there my standards are sure as hell going up.
Tell next time HotMatch.com world have fun.
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My first post
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Posted:Jan 4, 2015 12:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 2:15 pm
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Well you already read the intro to this blog so you have a good idea what it is about.
After being here for sometime I have seen this site sadly is almost based all on looks for a male.
Now I wont even start a debate on that as people will fight to the death they have a right to be that way or that it is not he way I say it is. After over 2 years its how it is for me.
At the end of the day this blog is about what I am doing to change and how people respond to that.
So a little about me.
I used to have that Ideal look all the ladies here like back in my army days. Then when I was deployed to Bosnia I was shot in the hip and that ended my army career and also took a long time to rehab and took me off my feet. In those years of getting better I put a lot of weight way to much weight.
Now being retired In smaller town like mine don't give you a lot of opportunities to meet people. I mean ya don't meet people at a job and I don't drink so the bars in this city are out because there all just little cowboy bars with nothing much to do but get drunk. So I made up my mind to join HotMatch.com.
After being on here for a long time as gold member. It became very obvious the ladies here have no real interest in you if your a heavy set man. So this lead me to this decision to do what every it takes to get back where I once was.
Now I am not gona put up any silly before pics because lets face it no one wants to see that lol Ya can see my profile pics to get a good idea they don't embarrass me to much
what i am going to do is post progress on what I am doing and The ups and downs that come with that.
Who hates on me and who cheers me on.
Most of all how I get treated different as I change.
Once I do make changes to a good degree I will be adding Pictures and videos.
I may even turn this in to video blog as I am not the best writer in the world. We will see how it goes.
So you all have an idea of how hard I am working to do this I will spell out exactly what I am doing,
I am blessed with being retired so I have the time to put into this,
I will be training 7 days a week with a very low cal diet i all ready know is going to make me cranky lol
4 hrs of cardio a day
and power lifting 3 days a week with that,
I know it may sound like a lot but when ya retired and have 24 hrs of nothing to do it don't add up to that much as most people work 8 hrs a day.
Thanks all for taking the time to read this and I will try to give you a post every day so you can be on this adventure with me.
Till next time HotMatch.com world, keep having fun
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