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it's a dog's life  

wickedeasy 74F
11198 posts
1/23/2010 3:14 pm
it's a dog's life


charlie is in love........with a puppy named hobbs. and hobbs is in love with charlie....i may have the first gay couple.

hobbs is still very little and attaches himself to charlie's jowls and hangs there. or if charlie gets down, hobbs will climb on his back playing king of the mountain. it is so damn cute.

segue

does your animal like your lover? and would you leave your lover if they didn't get along....or leave the critter in the dust?

charlie adores my ex, loves sam next door and sean downstairs but is generally not a male oriented dog....hobbs excluded.

he never seems to mind any female i bring home but men....not so much. a delivery guy, the plumber, the dude who helps fix my computer. he barks at them all and he's not subtle about it....circling them for the kill....kinda scary.

my Man says he likes dogs but i don't get that hit from him when i see him around dogs. i think he loved his dog..just like he loves his ...but the rest of them, dogs and ...well they're sort of a nuisance.

so far charlie has given it the college try.....licks, lying down on the couch with his head in His lap....but it seems there's not much chemistry there....

i spend more time with charlie than i do my Fellah. in some ways i like charlie more than i do my Fellah. but, charlie and i are not simpatico in the bedroom....ah, there's the rub.

good sex or unconditional love?

i'm thinking.......i'm thinking.....don't rush me.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


ce_64667 60F

1/23/2010 6:00 pm

when I was growing up the neighbors on each side of us had big, male dogs (both fixed, I'm pretty sure), one a Norwegian Elkhound...and the other...I can't remember, a big mountain dog of somesort...they were best buddies...they hung out together all the time, and never ever fought. We used to joke they were gay!

It's so cool Charlie has a buddy...

And, well...if my man didn't like my dog, I'd have to wonder...I'd likely pick the dog...though you do have a point about the sex part...

Even though Charlie and your man are not best buddies, they are at least trying for your sake, aren't they?

hugs we...happy Saturday!
ce



"All you'll get from strangers is surface pleasantry or indifference. Only someone who loves you will criticize you." - Judith Crist, crack film critic


wickedeasy replies on 1/30/2010 4:21 pm:
trying? well Charlie is
my Man is trying......in a completely other way

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
1/23/2010 6:06 pm

Ha - there's a lot to say for that unconditional love. I wish I could have a dog - I'm not home enough for it to be a responsible thing to do. I love hearing about your charlie.


chas4037 75M
4119 posts
1/23/2010 8:46 pm

A dog who is YOUR dog, WE, will likely be protective of you (whether that dog is a male or female, I think); you are part of the pack, so is the dog, the pack sticks together. Now if your man is unble to either become a leader of the pack, or at least a high status member, the dog will never really accept him. As you might imagine, I'm fairly much a dog-person, but like Smarty can't have one due to travel.

IF the guy is both oblivious and does not care to figure out the dog-ways, maybe that is a reason to at least think.

I am not really a cat-person, yet my lady is absolutely a cat-person; I've learned enough cat to more than coexist with the cat, I enjoy and respect him for his perfect cat-ness.

Hope it all works out well for you and Charlie & your guy
Chas


rm_mutiger2009 69M
2853 posts
1/23/2010 10:25 pm

Dogs are better than people, WE.

Unconditional love. Faithful. Always happy to see you. Good listeners. Easier to feed. Never get drunk or come home late. Smell better than some people. More cuddly. Never seen a dog leave one master for another. Dogs won't steal from you. Dogs won't abuse you physically, emotionally or mentally. In fact, I think dogs are more Christian in their behavior than people.

Hang on to Charlie no matter what!


MisterPriapus 64M
6974 posts
1/24/2010 3:28 pm

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I'm amazed that the cybernetic censoring chimps let this Post slip by- All that lascivious doggie love, and intimate incompatibility between a woman and her puppy.

Shocking!

That's a tough question... I've invested SO much love, training, and attention on my Aussie Shepherds that I couldn't conceive the thought of cutting them loose.

Might be easier to convince the dog to evince a little tolerance...


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Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.



And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!

Lately...

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chas4037 75M
4119 posts
1/24/2010 4:00 pm

multiger's comment " I think dogs are more Christian in their behavior than people." reminds me of a short story from years ago, about when Adam & Eve were being expelled from the garden. At the very last possible moment, the DOG jumped back across the ever-widening chasm between A&E and the rest of the animals. In the end, that four-legged animal received the name DOG for god spelled backwards.

Not at all trying to provoke any pro- or con- discussion here, just remembering a great shortstory I should try to find.

Chas


mediumWalter 47M
4236 posts
1/27/2010 2:16 pm

No rush.

I am definitely a dog person.
I'd be a cat person, too, if I wasn't allergic to them.

Blues is a healer. All over the world.
John Lee Hooker

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christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
1/27/2010 3:47 pm

Sounds like you're not quite needing to call the Dog Wheesperer ...

oh, what the hell am I sayin'??? Call him, he's a hottie!



Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


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