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Blogs > lynndd1 > My Blog

Where have all the real people gone!  

lynndd1 66M/66F
10 posts
12/11/2016 1:53 pm
Where have all the real people gone!

Could someone explain to me why there are more fake people here than there are real people. It blows my mind that people pay to be on here and have no intentions of meeting anybody.

milburry1 33M
65 posts
12/11/2016 2:59 pm

 It's their loss at the end of the day. But then again it does just make things harder for the rest of us.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/12/2017 2:18 pm

 Well said!!


strider983 62M

4/20/2018 1:40 pm

 My thoughts exactly.


Trapper69 67G  
2657 posts
5/10/2018 8:58 am

 I think A LOT of the real people have left due to the many problems with this website, but mainly because so many people today treat this as a dating site, or think it's an adult social site like facebook. They come here to socialize and blog, not meet others. They often post negative things about those of us who enjoy sharing sex with others. They believe a man and woman should be faithful, and not go outside the relationship. Others come here for many other reasons....to look at the photos/videos and jack/jill off, some come for the stories, some come to blog, some come to troll others and cause problems., some have many profiles, etc..... Many people complain about nude photos, and hate seeing cock or pussy photos.....on an ADULT website?????

When I first joined in 1995, 99% of the people were real, and we fully involved in the swinging lifestyle. Now, that number is about 30-40% There are still a lot of the real "swingers" here, you just have to look a bit harder as you sift through the chaff....


Trapper69 67G  
2657 posts
5/10/2018 9:03 am
    Quoting Trapper69:
    I think A LOT of the real people have left due to the many problems with this website, but mainly because so many people today treat this as a dating site, or think it's an adult social site like facebook. They come here to socialize and blog, not meet others. They often post negative things about those of us who enjoy sharing sex with others. They believe a man and woman should be faithful, and not go outside the relationship. Others come here for many other reasons....to look at the photos/videos and jack/jill off, some come for the stories, some come to blog, some come to troll others and cause problems., some have many profiles, etc..... Many people complain about nude photos, and hate seeing cock or pussy photos.....on an ADULT website?????

    When I first joined in 1995, 99% of the people were real, and we fully involved in the swinging lifestyle. Now, that number is about 30-40% There are still a lot of the real "swingers" here, you just have to look a bit harder as you sift through the chaff....
I meant to include.....many of the fakes are here simply to string men along, and scam them for what they can get $$$$ from fools, or are nothing more than hookers.... HotMatch.com has allowed this to take place despite the violation of the rules violation


biker57111 67M

2/20/2019 9:24 am

 I don't have a good answer other than HotMatch.com is really screwing a lot of things up I think they're making things worse than it ever has before
lets have some fun together biker57111


19me66 M
19 posts
1/21/2020 7:23 am

 I think the worst are the no-shows. You take time out of your schedule to finally meet and then get ghosted. That truly sucks


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
1/28/2020 10:06 pm

 Well Trapper brings up a number of good points. If I may add a few more. This site may say sex but it has become almost anti sex. My guess is with the new thing of not listing how long since the last log on, it is the sites way of hiding people that just gave up or had it with what has happened here. From my way of thinking after trying gold several years ago and getting nothing from it, the price and what they give you is outlandish. The number of fake woman on here has went out the roof, I get hotlisted by 20 to 30 year olds all the time. Yea right!

Another driving factor on here is just how dam picky the woman have become. I understand how we all have our likes. But when you read couple after couple just want BBC or 20 year old guys after awhile it just seems hopeless. This idea of only big cocks can satisfy is false. I have this nice curve in mine and it does the trick. Not bragging just saying. the worst part is taking IM away so now people can not chat and meet.


20MAR2018 72M/74F  
37 posts
7/17/2021 5:19 am

 I have come to the conclusion they are afraid and on-line without knowledge of their spouses. They prefer to jerk off in the closet so their wives won't see them. The pity of it all is they are over 55. There are also a lot of lone wolves posing as a married couple. I guess another way of looking at it is called having safe sex... ouch!


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