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Yes, absolutely do Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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This is a good poll, but there are not enough option...also the system will not allow for the number of option for the true number of scenarios. Very well put for the selection of vote choices tho!!! The institute of marriage and reasons for marriage do not always line up! This is a very personal choice and decision between the people getting married and whether or not they should stay married when the grow and change as individuals. The reason you get married may not be the reason you stay married. Or not!!!
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Yes, but it can get complicated when there are different perspectives on sex.
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Absolutely it is wonderful to be with and committed to someone who you really love and care far and I say that after 50+ years. At the same time, we have shared each other with friends and that has been incredible, but not marriage threatening.
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Having been widowed, I think I'd prefer to live with someone.
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11/27/2016 7:59 pm |
The subject really is way more complicated than can be covered by any of the simple options on your list. The answer is 'all of the above and much more'.
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The answer is not so black and white. Does it and should it exist - yes! But thats not for everyone. Unfortunatekly, women tend to talk themselves into corners. They may end up in a plce like this looking for a particular and unwaivering criteria and yet fail to learn from their (generally "our"/people, etc.) past mistakes. Most of all, there is a widespread lack of effort in truly defining our expectations, area of compromise and the trade-offs we all make by being rigid and actually failing to discuss those wants, desires and expectations. There's more but you get the point....
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danm nice fuckin ass
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nice
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After certain points in life my lady , no  CHeers - P
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what difference doe it make
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I guess if you found the right person marriage would be great.
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a pc of paper doesn't make a loving relationship, trust, doing for each other , saying I love you often, and other things 
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11/28/2016 7:53 am |
All family law, is based on property law, so one person in a marriage is treated legally as though they were anothers property. Couple that happen to work out being married were going to work out regardless the institution brings nothing to the relationship. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Any vote will be dependent on your experience or expectations. Those who haven't been married probably see it as a good thing, those who are happily married will definitely see it so. Negatives are going to come from those with one or more bad experiences - I've been through it, 15 great years, 5 OK years, 5 years working out that it really was over. Do I see marrying again myself? Highly unlikely. Would I try to dissuade others based on my experience? No. That being said. "marriage" needn't formalized through civil or church ceremonials. If people think of themselves as being in a stable, loving, long-term relationship without formalizing anything then they're more "married" than those who have the paperwork but have lives devoid of love, sex, and friendship. "Staying together for the sake of the children" can be horribly damaging for all concerned - my own experience is that my kids' not only handled separation but thrived once freed from a family environment blighted by constant rows and sullen silences.
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I strongly believe in marriage
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I'm happy single. I don't need someone to get in my way/bed/life or bring more stress than I've already got now. So, not for me. For other's maybe.
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11/28/2016 7:11 pm |
I was married for 26 years. I was monogamous. mentally I am a slut. I feel if people want to be happy what does a piece of paper do ? I found out that my ex played and took advantage of my goodness now she wants everything . I thought it was forever but we fell out of love. I don't regret it but if I could change anything it would have been to get a lawyer.
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With 46 years behind us I have to say "Absolutely". What I don't agree with is that sex should be restricted to only one person forever. Love and sex are two very different things.
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Found out the hard way anyone who gets into the institution of marriage should be institutionalized....lol
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11/29/2016 8:44 am |
I like this site because of its high member involvement and being around "like minded" people. Now, the stigma is that everyone here is doing a giant group orgy and we're all a bunch of promiscuous cum-dumpsters, I disagree. A dick is a dick, a vagina is a vagina, everyone who works hard on their physical appearance likes it when they are complimented. I'm not one to run around screaming "Oh no! You saw my naughty parts." I'm not married but a monogamous relationship or even marriage is something that is good for the mind, body and soul.
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We are very happy. We are very best friends, lovers, and just happen to be married over 40 years. Our kids are all together with their spouses as well so our kids and their kids have been fortunate with a two parent household. Of course we like our alternative activity but we only became involved in it a year ago. So far we have had a lot of fun and love what we do. I guess the short answer is marriage is great if you have the right person for you and are in love.
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MARRIAGE IS TERRIFIC .... IF The Right Two People Come Together- Otherwise It Can Become A NIGHTMARE
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Human beings are NOT hardwired to be monogamous...it's a learned quality. How do we learn it? From the Church. The Church has a VESTED interest in controlling human interactions. Part of that control is through "religious intervention. Marriage is a control mechanism to keep the masses under control. If marriage was simply a legal contract between two people, any two people then I would have more respect for it. Those of you who have been married for a while, I congratulate you and always wish you the best. Make it work. Bottom line is I've been contacted by so many married women who just want great sex with someone other than their husband but like going back to their families and living their lives that I stopped counting. I stand ready to help them because I know monogamy is a challenge. Sin Remember everyday is a great day, just keep overcoming temporary challenges!
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this is way too complicated a question to have just a few answers. Men marry women thinking they will never change. Women marry men and think how they like them to change...call me crazy..(I've been married to crazy) but I think marriage can work if there is compatibility and work put in from both halves.
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