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PDA and intimate sexual touching  

Oralmourner 47F
67 posts
5/23/2018 10:33 pm
PDA and intimate sexual touching
I once had a conversation with a guy friend of mine about my distain for PDA. He was shocked and wonder how I had been in long term relationships. I told him it is something I had to get my head wrapped around it as a form of compromise. But exes always complained that I’m not affectionate. I think it’s because I didn’t grow up in an environment of touchy feelies. That touching is reserved more for sexual interactions. I don’t like to be touch or have my space invaded unless it is someone I know like a friend who likes to hug or a lover who wants to initiate sex.
That being said, I like my breast massaged to initiate sex. I’m not into kissing to initiate sex. I think kissing is a sexual act and not really a passive sign of affection or something to initiate sex.
Also, I have given so many massages that I’ve stopped because it’s never reciprocated. It’s one of the very few things I like about being touch. Perhaps it’s because it feels really good, sexy and relaxing at once. So far I have only had one ex who knows how to give massages and that this is a huge turn on for me.

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