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Hey Guys, Did You Really Believe You Were Going To "Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now" ?
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Hey Guys, Did You Really Believe You Were Going To "Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now" ? . I often wonder about this based upon the content of most of the emails I receive.  Seriously, did you really believe you were going to "Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now" when you first signed up for this site? . |
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. Obligatory 1st comment. .
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4/30/2017 8:44 am |
On Here??? Not Likely! 
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4/30/2017 8:48 am |
I was actually looking to find a FWB not into random hookups, i like to get to know my partners and become friends
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Eventually. lol Thoughts from the Garden...
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Very lovely pic! Yes, I seriously believed I'd meet someone when first signed up on here.
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this site at least has some real people, but meets seem scarce
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I saw an ad for the site, and it was curiosity that broght me here. I have made a couple of great friends here, but I have never been one for random hookups. I have gotten a few of the "come meet me tonight" emails, and those are the ones that get a "thank you, but that isn't what I'm looking for" replies.
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I am here to blog, if I meet someone, that will be OK with me
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4/30/2017 9:56 am |
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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I am here to blog, if I meet someone, that will be OK with me
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Hey Guys, Did You Really Believe You Were Going To "Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now" ? ..... Yes. That's called, "Being positive". That can happen. I joined again, in 2007, with a gold membership, and within a week I hooked up with a hottie. The fat and old women were , of course, a nickel a dozen, - didn't want those.
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I did believe it when I first joined on here, and met a few. In 4 months met 8 women from here. But that was about 10 years ago, and I was a fanatic on dating then. I still believe it, and will meet some, when I am ready!
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wasnt sure WHAT to expect when joining. did have a lot of great sex here, but probably not as much as many would brag they had, but more than i would have had had i not joined. now mostly here for the blogging since they changed the rules and made it impossible for standard members to view profiles, let alone try to actually make contact. "well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"
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Heavens no.I'm not a sleep around guy looking for a sleep around gal. The risk is to great and my time is worth more than some conquest with someone that's already thinking about the next guy. The forty to one ratio speaks volumes of the type of people you're going to encounter. It must be an unfortunate by product of my fundamental operating principle ,which is, quite simply ,I've never really cared for the mentality that uses their sexuality for validation or popularity.I think women are more than an option. Using more than all the road!
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In a word, no, which is why I don't pay for it.
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NOW OR NEVER Seems To Be The Motto Of Some Guys On HotMatch.com For Sure! Not How I Operate. Making Friends First And Talking On The Phone Until I'm Comfy Inviting A Guy Over To My Place For A Sceduled Date. Many Guys Are Way Too Impatient So Maybe They Need To Find A Hooker Instead Of A Private Friend... 
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Patti_Kake replies on 4/30/2017 10:33 am: I can't argue with your 'success' of 10 years ago, but your current profile and disparaging remark here make me wonder why you would remain "Being positive"! ------------------------ I can't argue with your 'success' of 10 years ago, .... To even attempt to make an argument out of men signing up to a sex site [not pretending, but "Hoping" they get some action] is ridiculous anyway, and none of your business. but your current profile .... My profile is fine. and disparaging remark here make me wonder why you would remain "Being positive"! .....That's no wonder. I positively don't want any grumpy discontented fat old women. In fact, no men sign up to a sex site with hopes of finding that.
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A lot of men do going by the mail I get and in the chat room I go to. We women are suppose to want to meet any man who shows interest in us. We are not suppose to only want a certain age group. We shouldn't mind if the man is attached. So what if the man wants to f in his limo. Nothing matters except for what men want. The profiles are there just for the heck of it. They mean nothing. I DO NOT mean all men so don't take it that way. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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4/30/2017 9:14 pm |
My first meet up on the site turned out to be a FWB for several months. She was the most attractive of the women I met here. The other two were one time things and were not as good and pretty as the FWB. With each one it took time and it some cases a year or two.
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5/2/2017 12:56 am |
 ... No ... May be happen ... I really did not believe it ... Perhaps, i hoped ... Perhaps, i still hope  Ciao
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I am very skeptical of all advertisements. I actually found this site when I was on the vanilla version of this place. ( Same company, different attitude. ) So I got curious. I really had no expectations other than maybe learning about about how the other half lives. After all, I never had women lining up to meet me in real life so why would a website be any different? . Over the years I have learn that others live a far more edgy life but those are not half but a smaller percentage ( I haven't done the math so I won't give a number ). And regardless of the edginess of the life style, we all want the same things: to be understood and accepted for who we are inside. . I have virtually met many folks I don't think I could have otherwise. A small handful even became friends. Of those, I have actually met three of them in person. The irony is that we have met for coffee or drinks but not "coffee" or "drinks." . As a student of people, this site has given me an opportunity to observe and interact I don't think I would have had. . “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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I'm not I understand your response. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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I've never looked for a hookup, but I actually have met beautiful, hot women on here, a few we had a great friendship, & great sex and are still friends
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I looked at my comment of three yrs ago, & want to add I have and still do! A lot of sifting thru the fakes, then sifting thru the real ones to find the ones who aren't psycho, then yes! sometimes a quickie, a chance meet while travelling, sometimes a girl wants to experience something, and on rare occasions a firendship develops. On average I would say 3-6 times a year I find a great sex partner! And sometimes we stay friends and in touch, but not often. Patti Kake, you seem to just want to give negative responses. tell us..... what did you expect to find on here?
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