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I'm not saying she's a gold digger  

nerdygirl721 34F  
2073 posts
10/23/2016 12:37 pm
I'm not saying she's a gold digger


"I think when you got a naked pic or your profile says you want to gag on a big dick I mean what do you expect honestly a gentleman gtfoh!"
A clown that I really doubt get pussy on the regular said this one one of my post.

I don't give two fucks if I'm standing on a corner naked giving out blowjobs. If I don't disrespect you, don't disrespect me if I refuse you. Now to all the clowns out there that can’t figure out why a female would not want to fuck you if you disrespect them, I'll try to explain it in a way you can understand.

If I looked at you as my personal bank account, you would feel some type of way. If I treated you like an object, it wouldn't make you feel good.

Treating me like a free which is a contradiction, does not make me want to fuck you. Honestly it makes me not look at you as a person but my personal ATM machine. It makes me wonder exactly how much money can I get out of you before you figure out I'm not giving up any pussy. It makes me want to take advantage of your stupidity, ego and desperation. Luckily, I'm playing nicely and won't try to take advantage, but man I'm tempted.

Having good dick doesn't matter if you don't have anything else to add value, like intelligence, a gift of gab and other qualities that a female will look for in a mate. Having a good dick and nothing else is just being a living dildo. And my dildos don't bitch and complain about not getting any pussy.

I'm very hard pressed not to be an asshole, but that stupid ass comment made my day. As I told him, clowns are only here for amusement, but when that's not useful then what?

BabyGirlTay74 49F
507 posts
10/23/2016 1:16 pm

First off let me say, this.. I like your way to of thinking.

Second, the dude needs to have several seats. Showing your body doesn't mean it is up for grabs to any person who raises their hand. Saying what you enjoy sexually doesn't mean you get should get treated a prostitute.

It is called FULL DISCLOSURE assholes. Maybe some of those types should try it. "Hi! I am guy who thinks all women who desire sex should have it with me because I asked them. I do not have any imagination or skills to get sex any other way. Oh, my self esteem is so fragile, if you are say no, I am going to complain about your having standards and alluded you are not able to be sex positive. Then I am going to call you a bitch."

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nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 1:37 pm

    Quoting BabyGirlTay74:
    First off let me say, this.. I like your way to of thinking.

    Second, the dude needs to have several seats. Showing your body doesn't mean it is up for grabs to any person who raises their hand. Saying what you enjoy sexually doesn't mean you get should get treated a prostitute.

    It is called FULL DISCLOSURE assholes. Maybe some of those types should try it. "Hi! I am guy who thinks all women who desire sex should have it with me because I asked them. I do not have any imagination or skills to get sex any other way. Oh, my self esteem is so fragile, if you are say no, I am going to complain about your having standards and alluded you are not able to be sex positive. Then I am going to call you a bitch."
Right? It's awful that those are the thoughts that pass through clowns' mind. Expecting full disclosure from them would mean having to get to know them, I prefer they play their hand quickly so I don't waste much time.

If I had run into this site in my younger years before I developed a conscience, it would definitely been a whole different ballgame. I would be laughing all the way to the bank, but I'm a good girl now and acting accordingly.


SoftWetKisser 59M
130 posts
10/23/2016 3:10 pm

The guys on this site are generally whacked. I enjoy going on women's cams and just watching the most inane stuff these guys type. I can't believe they think that stuff somehow ingratiates themselves to the ladies. They really must be completely clueless.


scott6250 61M

10/23/2016 3:40 pm

Very well said my friend!

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Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
10/23/2016 4:10 pm

I remember what my grandpa ( probably the wisest man that ever lived ) said to me . He said . " Listen up Otis you respect the woman if you want to get the pussy . Now while you're getting the skinny if you make her do disrespect things that you promised you would keep your mouth shut about that is fine as long as you don't go blabbing it all over town . " I said grandpa " you know me I ain't the type to go blabbing all over town some folks can't keep their mouth shut but not me boy I can keep things quite and keep my mouth shut . And if I did want to tell anybody I would just Nip it Nip Nip Nip it in the Bud !




kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/23/2016 4:23 pm

Good post. I was hoping you might have some more to say about that!

That "What did you expect" bullshit is just an excuse for being an asshole.

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nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 6:24 pm

    Quoting Otis_Good:
    I remember what my grandpa ( probably the wisest man that ever lived ) said to me . He said . " Listen up Otis you respect the woman if you want to get the pussy . Now while you're getting the skinny if you make her do disrespect things that you promised you would keep your mouth shut about that is fine as long as you don't go blabbing it all over town . " I said grandpa " you know me I ain't the type to go blabbing all over town some folks can't keep their mouth shut but not me boy I can keep things quite and keep my mouth shut . And if I did want to tell anybody I would just Nip it Nip Nip Nip it in the Bud !




First, can I have that Nerdy girl signature, please, pretty please with sugar on top? Second, just keep your mouth shut and I'll rock your world and be a dirty little slut. Yup your grandpa was correct.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 6:26 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Good post. I was hoping you might have some more to say about that!

    That "What did you expect" bullshit is just an excuse for being an asshole.
I did have a lot more to say but I didn't want to rip off any balls yet so I pulled back and only said the least offensive things.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 6:28 pm

Thanks. I love the pumpkin. Are you going dress up for Halloween?


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 6:31 pm

    Quoting Louisa2016:
    Well said. There really are some total fuckwits on here, at times.
Thanks. Fuckwits? Fuck and dim witted gets together and make fuckwits. Too funny.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/23/2016 6:33 pm

    Quoting SoftWetKisser:
    The guys on this site are generally whacked. I enjoy going on women's cams and just watching the most inane stuff these guys type. I can't believe they think that stuff somehow ingratiates themselves to the ladies. They really must be completely clueless.
I wish I can call a meeting with all their mothers and just have a old fashioned ass whipping session. If only....


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
10/24/2016 1:10 am

Poor excuses, for poor , distraught people my lady
Don't let this get you down , though,
continue with your original gusto

Cheers my lady !

P


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/24/2016 2:47 am

Alright, you're entitled to be upset about behavior that bothers you, and we don't know the entire conversation or what led up to it , but, consider this website, consider the usual clientele, and most importantly, consider the ambiguity of "What is disrespectful to whom" in this pc sensitive time we live in. [I'll reference this youtube video, at this point; On youtube, you can watch it, type in , "Dave Chappelle whore uniform". The take-away from that video are two words, "Fucking confusing".

People actually do characteristically respond to advertisements they read, women who dress a certain way, and even women positively react to men who dress and behave a certain way, and to make it worse, people drink [get wasted] and respond.

People are always talking about how phony people can be, or how there are phony profiles on here. [For instance, about "Phony", look at how some of these men, on here, respond to you communicating your distress. "The guys are wacked", and the nice fellow response, "I agree ladies". LOL.

Online, is the place to be the genuine you. Why? Because people can't sense you. So for this reason, I don't condone a man "Acting" like a gentleman, and I don't condone a woman "Acting" like a lady. Those two costumes are just a different version of being phony, especially in an environment where you are unable to sense the person you're communicating with. So in this environment, you communicate your mind by what you type, and what show. Simple as that.

You said, he noted, ""I think when you got a naked pic or your profile says you want to gag on a big dick I mean what do you expect honestly a gentleman gtfoh!"" ... You know what, [from that one sentence] he does have a valid point, I can't crucify him for that one comment.

If I had a blog, and my header was, "I love a pussy that will choke my cock", I'm certain there will be those women who come at me with a very aggressive sexual overtone. Can I get justifiably upset because they don't behave all polite and lady like? No. Definitely not.

I don't give two fucks if I'm standing on a corner naked giving out blowjobs. ..[If you did that] You know which sex would give you the most trouble? Females. Why? Because you, and every other woman who decided to do that, would be raising the bar for other women. They would have to up their game, if attractive women are just giving away that which makes the heterosexual male the happiest.

If I don't disrespect you, don't disrespect me if I refuse you. .... "If I refuse you, don't disrespect me". That's funny, but not in a "Haha" way. Back in the 80s and 90s I did a lot of nightclubbing. There were a number of women who got what you could say is "Disrespectuful" when I refused them. So obviously peoples feelings get hurt and sometimes they will lash out.

Now to all the clowns out there that can’t figure out why a female would not want to fuck you if you disrespect them, .... Another point. There are millions of women who will fuck you when you treat them bad. How often do women tell the new man she's dating , her ex was a jerk, an asshole, a bastard, very mean, very disrespectful?
Over the decades, I've heard women say how rotten their ex was , all the time. But I've also heard women say, "My ex was boring, he was too nice".
Now she's out looking for some asshole/jerk action.

If I looked at you as my personal bank account, you would feel some type of way. .... The men who can afford to lose thousands , and she's young and attractive, the type of way he's going to feel is pretty good.

If I treated you like an object, it wouldn't make you feel good. ... Let's look at that. Men ARE , most often, treated like an object. For instance they think a woman loves him, but really she 32 never married, and wants to have children. So instead of , "Love of her life", she has , "Most convenient sperm donor".
Also today, women who have had careers, for two decades, and now she coming up on her 40s, and she wants a baby now, time to treat a man like an object, but with a veil of romance about it.
What about the women [single mothers or not] who were just not smart enough to have a career, and hopped from one minimum wage job to another. You think the man she hooks up with is the man of her dreams? Hell no. He's a wallet.

Even the well educated and successful men, once married, then go through divorce court, find out very quickly how fast he goes from , "A person" to "Objectified financially".

Treating me like a free whore which is a contradiction, does not make me want to fuck you. .... True, however treating a woman badly does work. It's historically proven to work. Bad boys, assholes, jerks get way more tail than the nice polite manner-minding "fellows".

Honestly it makes me not look at you [not] as a person but my personal ATM machine. It makes me wonder exactly how much money can I get out of you before you figure out I'm not giving up any pussy. .... Sure, this is called, "Going out with the nice guy", the sucker actually thinks he is dating the woman by just being out with her and buying her stuff. She's going to make him wait for sex, if he gets any at all. She has no incentive to have sex with him.

It makes me want to take advantage of your stupidity, ego and desperation. .... That's what happens when women "Go out" with the "Nice fellow" who mines his manners.

Luckily, I'm playing nicely and won't try to take advantage, but man I'm tempted. ... You play nicely today, but some years ago, I betcha you had some manner-minding guys hit on you [as best as they could] and you got free dinners out of it , for awhile.

Having good dick doesn't matter if you don't have anything else to add value, like intelligence, a gift of gab and other qualities that a female will look for in a mate..... "Will look for in a mate". Why would any woman think a man is on a sex site, looking for a mate?
Women are not going to publically admit it , but they want sex , too. The man who plays dress up [Lady and gentleman], is boring the fuck out literally out of her. Just like men, women like to be primitively sexually aroused, and "Bad boys" sexually arouse women. She may not like him, she may not like what he says, how he talks about women, but she gets viscerally sexually aroused. He nails it.

Having a good dick and nothing else is just being a living dildo. And my dildos don't bitch and complain about not getting any pussy. .... If he has good dick, he doesn't stay around with a woman long enough to bitch and complain about not getting pussy, because , for men with confidence/game, he's got more than plenty of pussy prospects.


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
10/24/2016 3:34 pm

Well ..shit, this just makes me realize how far out there I am compared to so many guys -- I mean half the time I can't figure out when/why a woman would want to fuck me ..check that make it "have sex with me" as there's been more than enough women (and men) that have either fucked me over (or tried to) in some non-sexual way that I tend to have a hard time accepting/believing it when someone actually does want to connect with me as a human being.....

So after seeing how inhumanely so many humans treat each other (and having gotten sucked into playing that game at times ), I can't say I have a problem with being "de-humanized" because honestly why would anyone want to put up with that much .... negativity? (I though about using "crap" there, but fecal matter has far many more uses than the negativity. After all, without crap and thunderstorms there'd never be any flowers )


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/25/2016 1:58 pm

    Quoting ChocolateNinja1:
    I just think in my humble opinion that whomever that guy is he is just WRONG for stating what he said to you and I am personally offended as a man for his comment towards you as you do not deserve any of it period!
Thank you. There are many other women on here who have gotten worse all because we're on a sex site. I wish there were more guys like you and my regular readers on here, so many females probably wouldn't leave the site if there was


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/25/2016 2:05 pm

    Quoting cs1df2:
    Well ..shit, this just makes me realize how far out there I am compared to so many guys -- I mean half the time I can't figure out when/why a woman would want to fuck me ..check that make it "have sex with me" as there's been more than enough women (and men) that have either fucked me over (or tried to) in some non-sexual way that I tend to have a hard time accepting/believing it when someone actually does want to connect with me as a human being.....

    So after seeing how inhumanely so many humans treat each other (and having gotten sucked into playing that game at times ), I can't say I have a problem with being "de-humanized" because honestly why would anyone want to put up with that much .... negativity? (I though about using "crap" there, but fecal matter has far many more uses than the negativity. After all, without crap and thunderstorms there'd never be any flowers )
When I was younger, I had no problems with dehumanizing men because how I grew up. But as I got older and became a parent, it's harder to do so. At one point in time these assholes was someone's baby. Due to how they was raised or innate attributes they grew up to what they are now. It's not as easy to be how I was because I know better now. It's just frustrating to see people treat others like shit.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/25/2016 2:11 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Alright, you're entitled to be upset about behavior that bothers you, and we don't know the entire conversation or what led up to it , but, consider this website, consider the usual clientele, and most importantly, consider the ambiguity of "What is disrespectful to whom" in this pc sensitive time we live in. [I'll reference this youtube video, at this point; On youtube, you can watch it, type in , "Dave Chappelle whore uniform". The take-away from that video are two words, "Fucking confusing".

    People actually do characteristically respond to advertisements they read, women who dress a certain way, and even women positively react to men who dress and behave a certain way, and to make it worse, people drink [get wasted] and respond.

    People are always talking about how phony people can be, or how there are phony profiles on here. [For instance, about "Phony", look at how some of these men, on here, respond to you communicating your distress. "The guys are wacked", and the nice fellow response, "I agree ladies". LOL.

    Online, is the place to be the genuine you. Why? Because people can't sense you. So for this reason, I don't condone a man "Acting" like a gentleman, and I don't condone a woman "Acting" like a lady. Those two costumes are just a different version of being phony, especially in an environment where you are unable to sense the person you're communicating with. So in this environment, you communicate your mind by what you type, and what show. Simple as that.

    You said, he noted, ""I think when you got a naked pic or your profile says you want to gag on a big dick I mean what do you expect honestly a gentleman gtfoh!"" ... You know what, [from that one sentence] he does have a valid point, I can't crucify him for that one comment.

    If I had a blog, and my header was, "I love a pussy that will choke my cock", I'm certain there will be those women who come at me with a very aggressive sexual overtone. Can I get justifiably upset because they don't behave all polite and lady like? No. Definitely not.

    I don't give two fucks if I'm standing on a corner naked giving out blowjobs. ..[If you did that] You know which sex would give you the most trouble? Females. Why? Because you, and every other woman who decided to do that, would be raising the bar for other women. They would have to up their game, if attractive women are just giving away that which makes the heterosexual male the happiest.

    If I don't disrespect you, don't disrespect me if I refuse you. .... "If I refuse you, don't disrespect me". That's funny, but not in a "Haha" way. Back in the 80s and 90s I did a lot of nightclubbing. There were a number of women who got what you could say is "Disrespectuful" when I refused them. So obviously peoples feelings get hurt and sometimes they will lash out.

    Now to all the clowns out there that can’t figure out why a female would not want to fuck you if you disrespect them, .... Another point. There are millions of women who will fuck you when you treat them bad. How often do women tell the new man she's dating , her ex was a jerk, an asshole, a bastard, very mean, very disrespectful?
    Over the decades, I've heard women say how rotten their ex was , all the time. But I've also heard women say, "My ex was boring, he was too nice".
    Now she's out looking for some asshole/jerk action.

    If I looked at you as my personal bank account, you would feel some type of way. .... The men who can afford to lose thousands , and she's young and attractive, the type of way he's going to feel is pretty good.

    If I treated you like an object, it wouldn't make you feel good. ... Let's look at that. Men ARE , most often, treated like an object. For instance they think a woman loves him, but really she 32 never married, and wants to have children. So instead of , "Love of her life", she has , "Most convenient sperm donor".
    Also today, women who have had careers, for two decades, and now she coming up on her 40s, and she wants a baby now, time to treat a man like an object, but with a veil of romance about it.
    What about the women [single mothers or not] who were just not smart enough to have a career, and hopped from one minimum wage job to another. You think the man she hooks up with is the man of her dreams? Hell no. He's a wallet.

    Even the well educated and successful men, once married, then go through divorce court, find out very quickly how fast he goes from , "A person" to "Objectified financially".

    Treating me like a free whore which is a contradiction, does not make me want to fuck you. .... True, however treating a woman badly does work. It's historically proven to work. Bad boys, assholes, jerks get way more tail than the nice polite manner-minding "fellows".

    Honestly it makes me not look at you [not] as a person but my personal ATM machine. It makes me wonder exactly how much money can I get out of you before you figure out I'm not giving up any pussy. .... Sure, this is called, "Going out with the nice guy", the sucker actually thinks he is dating the woman by just being out with her and buying her stuff. She's going to make him wait for sex, if he gets any at all. She has no incentive to have sex with him.

    It makes me want to take advantage of your stupidity, ego and desperation. .... That's what happens when women "Go out" with the "Nice fellow" who mines his manners.

    Luckily, I'm playing nicely and won't try to take advantage, but man I'm tempted. ... You play nicely today, but some years ago, I betcha you had some manner-minding guys hit on you [as best as they could] and you got free dinners out of it , for awhile.

    Having good dick doesn't matter if you don't have anything else to add value, like intelligence, a gift of gab and other qualities that a female will look for in a mate..... "Will look for in a mate". Why would any woman think a man is on a sex site, looking for a mate?
    Women are not going to publically admit it , but they want sex , too. The man who plays dress up [Lady and gentleman], is boring the fuck out literally out of her. Just like men, women like to be primitively sexually aroused, and "Bad boys" sexually arouse women. She may not like him, she may not like what he says, how he talks about women, but she gets viscerally sexually aroused. He nails it.

    Having a good dick and nothing else is just being a living dildo. And my dildos don't bitch and complain about not getting any pussy. .... If he has good dick, he doesn't stay around with a woman long enough to bitch and complain about not getting pussy, because , for men with confidence/game, he's got more than plenty of pussy prospects.
The whole thing is on another post that I put up about emotional manipulation games that men play. I do agree to a certain extent. The only part I disagree with was using nice guys.When I was getting money out of guys, it wasn't the nice guys. It was assholes that I targeted.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
10/25/2016 2:13 pm

    Quoting  :

See, this is also another reason why I'm so picky. I dont want to regret a fuck.


iwalkstilts 49M
2869 posts
10/25/2016 5:35 pm


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