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Again, more bitching. Read at your own peril
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Again, more bitching. Read at your own peril Alright, a fact I am both proud of and a bit shamed by is my continuing state of virgin-ness. Not a word, yes I know. Proud because none of the idiots in my small town ever manned up. Ashamed because well, 21 and still a member of the V club. Eh. Mixed feelings. Anyway, I've been dabbling in porn for a few years because primarily straight, I do enjoy the perfect shape of porn star boobs. And the imperfectness of real boobs. Again, I digress. Now while porn is, well, porn, a movie where behind the scenes the stars all sign away consent and really own the status, and watching it doesn't make me an expert, I feel I have discerned what does and does not catch my fancy. Things like reverse oral does not. And I'm not so easily turned into a melting pile of slut because "Master" gives me a command. No. The dominance does not precede sex for me. It goes with it. Example. If I have your dick in my mouth, my preferred dominance is a firm hand in my hair, holding me in place as my innocent little throat gets pounded. Or something along those lines. I'm not looking for a friend or a master. I'm looking for a regular ole asshole who just doesn't give a fuck. It should honestly not be THIS hard to find. Of course most prefer a girl with experience, which I understand and respect. But legit, I just... nice guys just don't do it for me. Nothing kills my metaphorical lady boner than "Hi beautiful, how are you?" |
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First let me start by saying Congratulations! You really should be very proud of yourself for still being a virgin at your age. I wish I had waited. When I was 17 I just gave it away to some guy i was dating after 3 weeks simply because I didn't want to be a virgin anymore. Boy was that a mistake. Many years ago i worked with a 27 year old man who was still a virgin and he had been in the military....there's nothing to be ashamed of. Sounds like you've figured out some of the things you do and don't like, which is good....keep working on that...when it's right, you'll know it...Good Luck!
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Problem is, very few women communicate, either outright or subtle, what their preference is. The internet being the internet, If i come at you like an asshole and you DON'T like assholes...my chances with you are now non-existent. It doesn't help that some profiles are vague as fuck. It doesn't help that some of the thorough profiles seem to come off to some guys like the woman is being high falootin... Damned if you do, damned if you don't... i guess what i'm trying to say is that communication is the key to most everything. 
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I wasnt saying you didn't, I was merely making an example
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First, being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of, nor is it something to be proud of, it just is. How does one even define what being a virgin is anyway? That being said, it's probably the only major life change that it completely under your control so there is that. One thing to be very, very careful of is not confusing what you like in porn with what you like in real life. It's one thing to get turned on by a vigorous throat fuck, but it might be something else to actually have it done to you. If something turns you on, by all means try it, but go slow and mellow at first, you can aalwaysturn the nasty up. But if you start at a level 10, it's not so esy to dial it back if you don't like it.
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Interesting read.
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There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21. I was older than that when I had sex. I think BrownEyedBBW has great advice about the difference between porn and real life. If you get a good partner, you're going to figure out a lot of stuff together, and that can be tons of fun!
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