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What I Want  

nawtyinaus 46F
129 posts
8/26/2016 9:13 pm
What I Want

I've had experiences that expanded my mind and challenged my body. I've had lovers that have allowed me to explore and enough quality time as a single to get to know my true desires.

I think one of the goals of life is to enjoy every moment.

I know what I want. Or rather, who. He is a guy I run into on a regular basis. We have a casual flirtation that has now lasted nearly a year. He has made no move to progress this flirtation, yet will put himself into my space anytime we see each other. I'm not my usual confident, goofy self around this man. Instead I'm shy. Curious. Careful. Sometimes at a loss for words. It's unsettling to see myself acting this way. I fucking hate it. I want to tell him of how I want to get him naked. Invade his personal space. Inhale a big deep breath of his air. Climb atop and straddle his erectness and salsa my hips for all of the carefree hours. And that might be a little too much, so instead each week, it's the same safe scenario, "Hi, how are you?"

I think one of the goals of life is to take risks. Calculate, but still seek risk vs reward. Have a goal and set to achieve it.

If I know what I want, what do I seek to find here? I'm neither dumb nor narrow minded. I don't believe there is that "one" I'm looking for. I connect with far too many people in life to believe that. However, to find someone traveling along a similar life path who is open minded as fuck, would be fairly grand.

That guy who makes fitness a priority. Knows enough about clean living to not guzzle down gatorade because he exercised that day. Takes personal responsibility and can communicate to resolution. He's fairly enigmatic or of the savior faire persuasion. That is the kicker...we have all looked across the room at one time to notice someone that we want to know more about. That person we want to notice us. And that is exactly what I want.

As of late, I've had a string of errored meets. I had a first date today -- guy was easily 40 lbs heavier than his photos. Wtf. Recently connected very well with a guy on A F F to have him flake out on our date. That's happened a bit too often. Total waste of time.

Think about this: if you're unsure of something, take the time to understand why. If it applies, communicate your concerns out loud. Perhaps, then, you can solve the issue. If it's just not worth it to you, move on.



- Naughty is nawtyinaus

My experiences, stories and photos for your enjoyment @ nawtyinaus


rm_yesmaam6970 53M
782 posts
8/26/2016 11:56 pm

Wear those shoes.....any man who doesn't make a move when he sees those is certifiable.


maulstrom 59M

8/27/2016 12:01 am

Very wise advice!


Hehasaname 59M

8/27/2016 2:52 am

No matter what honesty and truth are still paramount in the shared human experience ......so when a brand new desirable character enters your story greet them with everything real and passionate that you've got....throw your fears into the wind and let them flail as you unload every drop of sweat and sweet for them to meet.....give them the river that rages forth until your both knocked from your feet......dead tired but oh so alive as you thrive for that perfect recipe of heat that boils over as we take our temps and say at once "whewwwww....now that was hoittttttt!


snippedshooter 60M
470 posts
8/27/2016 4:20 am

Yes. I meet a woman on regular basis, and every time we flirt.....
Either me start or she does.........This mostly happens at her work.
Now she is doing most of the flirting when we meet........
I tell/ask her we have to go out......she smiles. I flirt more but no O.K. for a date.
Sometimes we flirted for over 20 minutes where they had to open other tills so we could talk.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
8/28/2016 2:40 pm

I like your post and couldn't agree more! That's a sexy as hell pic!


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
9/3/2016 12:59 am

Well said my lady,
truly well said
And adorable photos btw

Cheers - P


nawtyinaus replies on 9/3/2016 6:01 am:
Thanks for reading and for the compliment! I'll keep working on those photos!

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