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My First Thirty Days on A F F!
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My First Thirty Days on A F F! That was fast. And fun. The first month on A F F just flew by. And I learned a few things. The male to female ratio on this site is hovering in the range of 400:1. As a single, petite blonde, it's like a french chocolate shop. But even some chocolates aren't worth the calories. A Few of the Things I've Learned: (1) The men of HotMatch.com, as a consummate body, think it is of the UTMOST importance to show the world their penis. Flaccid. Erect. Side Lying. Gansta Leanin. G-Spot Curvy. Black. Tan. Huge. Swaying in the Breeze. It's the United Nations of Penis up in here. I know you think it's special. What men don't often get is that many women don't have an interest in seeing these unsolicited images. Have you read the article about the woman who turned the unsolicited dick pics into an actual art exhibition? Based in L.A. and titled, "I Didn't Ask For This: A Lifetime of Dick Pics", the collection consists of about 200 photos. She sees it as men exhibiting their power and that it's not about sex. If you google the exhibition name, you can easily find the interview with her. There is a time when I will want to see your dick. It's at the exact moment that I ASK to see it. Yep. That easy. (2) 30% of the members read the profiles. Half of those 30% throw together an articulate message. If you write up a fancy coherent message, you're already WAY ahead of the pack! (3) In the first thirty days I met three men. I liked all of them! I wish I would've met more, but have a limiting schedule. Every one of them comes from a different background - on the down low, on a hall pass, single and free. I'm picky as shit in the first stages of communication. I can be an asshole, but it's for a good reason. I'm a big fan of genuine kindness. How a man responds to a sometimes succint, direct message says a lot. Does he respond eloquently or defensively? I'm actually easy-going and a caretaker in life. To an unknown solicitor here, I can come across as a total ass. The vetting process is in hopes that only the truly good ones get through the door. Or they're in my bed because they're just fucking hot. There's always that. (4) I'm really attracted to profiles that are openly offering an insight into the man. I'm interested in knowing who you are. Everyone has their unique story and circumstance. I'll typically write men who have shared a snippet. It helps me create a message topic to send you. (5) I spend more time WANTING to have sex than actually having it. Working to balance that out. |
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I hope to leads an extended stay...it can be fun but being selective helps... 
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Well looks like you know everything you need to know about the site and who would of thought you could get it done in 30 days. Well there is a reason I dont have a penis pick on my page.....wouldnt want you to strain your eyes....lol. I dont feel the need to say with a picture hey "look at me". BTW.... A.F.F. measurements are grossly embellished. Glad you werent turned off in the first few days by trolls and creepers and actually met some cool guys.....there are a few of us out here. I have been on here 17 yrs (on and off) mostly off....that being said my profile is accurate as it can be and there isnt enough space on my profile to go into the boring side of me. If you want to get to know me and some friendly people, please check out my Interest Group room its called "Living the Dream". Wishing you the best in A.F.F. luck over the next 30 days.....Ciao for now. SIG
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5/26/2016 7:30 am |
Very nice, thanks for writing this. 400:1 wow, you can be an ass all you want with that, hell yea be picky Great tips for us single guys, thanks again
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you look great, excellent mind - wish I was in Austin!
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I suspect this is one of the more insightful posts about HotMatch.com, and the people here, I have read in quite sometime. I like the time period as well.....the 30 day checkpoint. A little like evaluating a new place of employment after six weeks, when the first gloss of excitement at new people and place have worn off, and you are able to see the cracks and holes and patches about you, and still recall where you worked previously to make a comparison realistic..... Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ. Feel free to travel - click - to my blog: An exploration introduction
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