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1 post 12/25/2016 8:19 pm |
No doubt... be assured pleasant enough company i imagine 
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Sure it could be very exciting the best is to give her so much pleasure!!!!
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12/27/2016 5:31 am |
if I have to pay for sex we may as well be married.
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as long as shes hot 
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Have never done it, the thought never hit my mind, and I never thought it a good idea. But lately with all my issues, maybe paying for a person to give me a one night not one hour will release all this built up tension from the past few years of serving and not being served. It would be interesting, maybe not judgmental, wouldn't mind probably letting him eat me and a nice 69. Which I haven't done in almost a decade.
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For me, this is all about being wanted. So to pay someone means I'm not important to her, not her focus, she doesn't desire me ....
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Don't think I would hire one, wish my wife were one, though! Mr Desire
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12/28/2016 7:51 am |
NEVER CONFUSE Sex for Love.............I think 99% got it wrong Sex is like a activity it can have emotion but it is not Love
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I thought about paying a guy for sex many times in my 20's and 30's. I've battled obesity my entire life and felt worthless for a lot of that. I grew up hearing from my family that no man would ever want me if I didn't lose weight, and I believed it. I was a virgin until I was 30 and I thought about paying for sex because I thought that's the only way I could get it. I joined HotMatch.com for the first time instead (mind you, this was 15 years ago now) and found that men did want to have sex with me. Granted, it wasn't great sex and I settled for what I thought I could get until I finally got my sex life right a few years ago. Now that that's all behind me and I'm in tune with my sexual power, I would still hire someone. I'd be paying for the exact experience I want. I don't find it demeaning at all to pay for sex or be paid for sex (not that I have been). Several people have said, and I agree, that there's no such thing as "free sex". No strings attached does not exist. Everyone wants something, whether it's money, love, companionship, erotic sensation, passion...there's something.
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Totally have paid for sex and probaly will continue to do so, as it gives yousuch a wide variety of ladies, ages, races etc. One left on my bucket list is a TS/TG as round here they are very hard to find
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It has crossed our minds more than once, We were so tired of getting canceled on at the last minute....
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I haven't paid for sex as the sole purpose of our meeting. That being said, I was in a long term marriage (30 years), with children and paid dearly for that. I dated many ladies before and after my marriage and there were and are financial and emotional costs associated with that also. I did not get into the kind of sexual dating which this site and others supposed to project until after marriage and a few vanilla relationships. NSA, well to a certain extent...there always seem a certain amount present. Right from the beginning part of our involvement after my marriage, I specifically told them that is any long term healthy relationship was to thrive, it would be the decision of both of us and not just the lady. Well they all agreed at the beginning and during the course of the relationships the lines in the sand kept being re-drawn more towards the lady than mine. To me, a lady should want to be with me as much as I want to be with her and at this stage in my life, I should not have to pay just for the "privilege" of sex and or companionship. Is that not prostitution? Can two people just enjoy the moments they spend together and really enjoy themselves without all the "strings" involved. Well yeah in a perfect world. If a lady does not want to be with me, then I do not want to be with her either emotionally or sexually. I just find it to be so much better living mostly alone and happy venturing out every now and then and dipping my toes into the water. I currently have a couple of sexually minded ladies which I satisfy that part of my life. Will I ever find my true soulmate? Prospects don't look too promising now. And with so many ladies not financially secure...well let's say they have alterier motives.
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In response to Miss Shy, I agree the flow is very important, we don't want to cause any distractions. ...\8
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I have n the experience was not worth it
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sex for me is something out of this world.. its god gift and you can never pay for it.. i Really value each and every encounter.. so can never pay and lower its standard...
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1 post 1/12/2017 9:37 pm |
It is not something that has to be done but it's been here since the first day and I don't see how it can stop
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It is very nice, sometime to have a professional in a threesome with your partner, she makes very funny besitos
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I would do with out before I pay for it. You never know when you are going to end up as part of a pay for play sting round up...hope you have a good lawyer!!!
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1 post 1/20/2017 7:00 pm |
yes we strongly agree with Shannon , free has no value
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At some point it can be necessary to do so...
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1 post 1/25/2017 5:54 pm |
The comments on this are definitely very interesting, I think many people have a judgemental attitude on either the people providing the service or the person seeking it, and a lot of us have deep convictions about it for one reason or another. Personally, and I'm sure other men would agree, one way or another we always pay. Whether a date, a gift, and so on. I respect the fact that its cut and dry to get an escort. Both parties know exactly what they will get. No games, amd i respect the skill set the women (or any sex trade professional) have, and i think its that skill set that is what someone pays for. For an hour you feel like a king! Then back to normal life...
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Having read through all this, i have gone from "I would" to "I should probably start charging as there are a Lot of very good arguments here" Probably better i finish fixing up my looks before i do that. But in all seriousness, Babylon's whores embodied it best, people will pay for many kinds of company, be it erotic and intimate, conversational, general touching and tenderness, Intellectual debate.... They say never do something you are good at for free, when your skill is people skills or advice or whatever, wouldn't escorting be the correct answer? if you wish to enjoy an evening is it better to go to a concert of professional musicians or your local amateur garage bands? Is company not to be measured in the same way? those that are social, or philosophical, or romantic, or sexual for a casual hobby, or those that treat it as a mastery, ever to improve and refine, something worthy of Professional attention?
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Not I've never paid to have sex ... in fact I have been for some time .... stripper, entertainer women and gigolo ... but that's enough ...{=}
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each to ther own. so many reasons why you should and the same why you should not.
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