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Rant of the day...  

ColoradoGoddes71 53F
96 posts
6/25/2015 8:45 pm
Rant of the day...

I'll start with the disclaimer that I know this is not a traditional "dating" site, so this rant does not apply to this site... I just need to blow off some steam!!!

So I don't understand the way that men think and work. You put a profile up that literally describes you as "fat." Even post full body shot pictures (fully clothed of course because it's not HotMatch.com after all). So the guys say they want to meet and that they really like "big girls." But they rarely want to meet in public... And then they want to just exchange naked pictures and have sex. But they want to keep you a secrete from their friends...

So why are guys like that??? Are they just curious about what it is like to be with a fat chick?

Are they just embarrassed and ashamed to be with one in front of their friends?

Somebody tell me the deal...

letstalk580 53M
166 posts
6/25/2015 9:18 pm

 As a general rule, run4fun is right.....guys suck. They are primarily focused on satisfying themselves, not the woman they're with. There are decent guys around, but you gotta sort through the frogs and dogs to find 'em. Good luck.


rm_blueriver216 40M
6 posts
6/25/2015 10:50 pm

 Sadly, there are so many idiots on dating websites that ruin it all for both men and women. For men because they take up slots that the serious men now need to compete against. For women because they waste their time and energy and now they're discouraged and think all men on the website are idiots... But there are some good ones out there. Good luck!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/25/2015 10:56 pm

 Anyone who assumes all guys/gals are idiots because of one or two incidents is'nt someone you want to be around.
Using more than all the road!


lodown66 41M
10 posts
6/25/2015 11:41 pm

 I adore big girls and have no problem being seen in public with one. I like what I like, don't care what people think regardless if they are friends or strangers.


ColoradoGoddes71 53F
14 posts
6/26/2015 10:01 pm

 Thanks all... Just feeling frustrated... Came across another lame ass idiot tonight... Beginning to think that maybe I should just give up on the whole relationship thing, just settle for a FWB, and accept the fact that I will probably end up alone with just the dog... (and maybe about 50 cats???)


lodown66 41M
10 posts
6/27/2015 12:05 pm

 Nah, you'll find someone eventually


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