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The challenge of being a bi male on AdultFriendFinder
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3/12/2015 5:09 pm |
I could not have written this better myself. I am a closeted "straight" guy in my everyday life, and this is an outlet to be honest about my true sexuality and desires as well as to connect with likeminded people. I used to have a straight profile myself for years, and I often received flirts and messages from other "st8" guys before I realized and accepted my bi-ness. However I did not care to have my intelligence insulted nor do I care to do the same to others. It is exactly this sort of behavior that elevates the sexual risk factors and complicates personal relationships. I do not like deceiving people for the sake of "maximizing the pussy potential", so I created this bi profile as an experiment last year. Since then I now feel much more comfortable and confident in myself by being honest and upfront about what and whom I seek. I do agree that many if not most people still perceive bi guys in general as being indiscriminate, recklessly promiscuous, unsafe and unclean. Additionally in some regards I felt that other bi men actually did seduce and corrupt me and sucked me into their unnatural lifestyle lol! Nonetheless those covert and deceitful behaviors of "st8" men and married bi men playing behind their spouses' back facilitates and reinforces negative perceptions of bi-men. I have no issue with truly hetero couples that do not want to deal with bi-men; it's their prerogative and it narrows the my search options. I have seen so many couples and women that are adamant about not associating with bi males, yet when I investigate their friends list a few to many of the guys are connected to gay/bi men or transsexuals. Or conversely I either see guys in a bisexual or trans group but list themselves as straight as if they can fool everyone into believing so, or I notice them leaving comments on other cock, M2M or trans pictures as if they could not be traced back. Maybe those such couples just are not that astute or discerning to realize with whom they deal with, or they are merely putting up a front themselves. I have had a few straight couples and women look at my profile repeatedly that have expressed disinterest in biways guys; I would for one would rather not deal with that kind of headache. And bi-women that do not like bi-males? Hell I should start my own comedy blog about that myself! Seems that most people here are not as kinky nor openminded as they think that they are. Excellent post!
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I could not agree more. Thank you for your blog.
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Well done post SB. If you have an interest I recently posted something similar on my other profile which is verybisexualme. It's titled "The B in LGBTQ".
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*fist bump
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1 post 8/3/2019 2:51 pm |
Wonderfully written. We are a happily married MF couple whose male is bi, and who has ongoing relationships with 2 bi men. We firmly believe that MFM sex where the 2 males are bi and the the female loves that dynamic, is simply the most erotic, sensual, and basically hot sex possible. We are fortunate to have 2 boyfriends (who know about each other) with whom we have long term relationships, and the boys coordinate their visits with us, each of them several times a month. But it took us many years and many strikeouts to finally establish these stable relationships ........ since the average guy on HotMatch.com, or whatever adult site, is likely lying if he says he's bi, saying that to get a foot in the door with us. Anyhow, love your blog, and you have a standing invitation for cocktails if you're ever visiting the Palm Desert area and have a bit of time. Take care ..... Molly and Curt Palm Desert
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