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Labels... I have been asked a few times on HotMatch.com but MANY times outside the world of HotMatch.com if I am aware of the fact I am a “” or “slut”. Well…should I say ouch lol? It got me to thinking a LOT about how everyone feels the need today to put a label on other people…especially ones they are jealous of or don’t understand. So I decided to look “into” it a little lol. Dictionary.com defines a as “A woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse…”. It also defines slut as “…a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way”. Soooo….let me compare lol. Am I a sexually promiscuous woman? CHECK! Do I behave in an overtly sexual way? CHECK! Do I DRESS many times in an overtly sexual way? CHECK! Well…it would appear that they would be correct then…I AM a AND a slut! Who knew??? Everybody today has to label somebody else. It is the “in” thing. I like girls in the “biblical sense” so that makes me a “lesbian”. I like guys too so that makes me a “bisexual”. I looove black guys so that makes me a “snow bunny”, “bbc ”, “white trash”, etc…I loooove sex and have it as much as possible with as many partners as I want so that makes me a “”, “slut”, “cum dumpster”, etc…Well lol…I seem to possess an abundance of labels under those conditions and definitions  .So here is how I feel about those labels and my advice to anyone else who is “labeled” because of their kinks, fetishes, or sexual proclivities….OWN those labels! Make sure your picture is next to the definition if you are going to be labeled anyway lol. When they call you by those labels or others…look at them and say “Damn Right”! Don’t shy away from who you are or what you are or what you like just because someone else wants to tell you how you should live YOUR own life! I used to try and “hide” who I was…then I progressed to trying to “change” who I was…then I tried to just “accept” who I was…now…I OWN who I AM and what I like and what I want! You get only one bite at this apple…only one chance to live…so why live that one life how someone ELSE tells you? They have their own life as YOU should have YOURS! My daddy used to say “pick one thing and be good at it”. Well…Lord KNOWS I am sure he did not necessarily mean what I picked lol…but…it was still great advice. So feel free to “label” me however you feel necessary lol. Chances are, I already OWN that label anyway lol and you are probably just turning me on. I am very proud of who and WHAT I am and what’s more? I LOVE who and what I am! Frankly, many, MANY others ALSO love who and what I am lol  . I have gained more freedom, more courage, and more satisfaction since I allowed myself to just be “me” than I ever knew or even THOUGHT possible. I have developed a new thirst and zeal for life that has absolutely invigorated me to my core lol. We are ALL on HotMatch.com for a reason…EMBRACE what that reason is and just go with it! That is all lol . HAVE A SEXY DAY |
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1/12/2016 4:58 pm |
Well put. The worlds definitely full of haters, if your happy with what your doing and who you are, no ones opinion should ever bother you. Make yourself Happy.
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1/4/2016 7:50 pm |
That was one erudite and on point blog. Many labels are often adopted by the very group they are designed to hurt thereby turning the tables on the hurtful user. Gay guys and gay friendly can call each other faggot without hurt which diminishes the effect the hurtful person wants to display. Simply put, you go girl.
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well said
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YES! OWN IT! More power to you.
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The words by themselves are not bad. Its' the judgement that comes with the word/label which makes them bad/immoral. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Its easy, even natural to draw conclusions - usually upon first sight - but to say some of them out loud is just rude illustrating a magnitude in the absence of manners. Think about that when people say stupid things. And, who's saying it. Then ask yourself if these are the type of people you want in your life. The answers are always easier.
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