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Sex And Relationship Question By a person being on this site does it suggest to you that sex is a significant part of other member’s relationship? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. |
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I would suppose that sex and the search for sex is the main reason for this site. In reality there are many people whose behavior seems fueled by needs other than sex. I see a lot of people who seem to seek attention without seeking sex. Some people have very low self esteem and confidence and they seem to do things on this site just to make themselves feel better. They are a long way from meeting for sex.
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I would say Yes. And more importantly, being able to be open about the importance about it. I've seen profiles of same men here and on other vanilla dating sites and, with the exception of one, they claim very different desires.
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I don't think that everyone who joined this site had immediate sexual gratification in mind. Yes, of course sex plays significant role for most everyone on sex site. But let's not forget that A*F*F isn't just a sex site, it's also social networking site with strong sexual undertones. Originally, I signed up to A*F*F seeking short term, no commitment relationships. And yes, if anyone has a doubt, sexual relationship is still a relationship. To some people sex means more that to others; some people prefer NSA type of arrangement while others looking for something better, like FWB, to spend some time together doing things that friends do besides having sex. Everything is a matter of preference. There's no right or wrong way to want and do things. The trick is to find someone who wants the same, and to respect other people's choices. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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This says it all for me...I don't assume anything of anyone...ppl are all different. Sometimes, I wish some guys were less interested in sex from the get go and were more willing to just meet, have a good time (doing something other than having sex), see if there is enough of a connection to have sex. Seems like as soon as I give guys the impression that's what I'm looking for, I never hear from them again...even if they only live 30 miles away lol Sometimes it feels like, if I'm not willing to have sex right away, I'm not worth their time to even meet with (and I know of a couple of bloggers who would say that is exactly right lol). When I let ppl know what I am looking for, I get told this is not the site for me because sex is not #1 priority for me. And then I get assurances from other ppl that I can be on this site even if sex is not a #1 priority for me. Maybe I missed the point of the question lol Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles
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By a person being on this site does it suggest to you that sex is a significant part of other member’s relationship? No. Sex is an important part of a relationship for people on other dating site or not on dating site or living deep in a cave. As a matter fact when I've looked at other sites, I see a lot of the same men I see on this site, they even use the same ( G and PG rated pics) that they use on this site. What a person being on this site suggests to me is that at the time he or she created his or her profile they were horny and looking for someone to have sex with soon (hours or days, not months). Sure there are outliers and exceptions, but not many. Let's face it, no one creates a profile here just because they want to set up a blog 
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Well not that it is, but that they want it to be. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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It seems to be a bit trickier for some people to answer than others   When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Getting sex is the significant reason for being on this particular site.
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First, Lala’s response is on point and well stated. Per Dictionary dot com, Relationship: noun – a connection, association or involvement. Yes it is a pretty general term/definition so IMO they need to be further defined when written about. Especially the way people here use/abuse it in a number of ways. No relationship of any significance is created only due to just having sex. And Only because people meet and have sex doesn't and won't always create a relationship of any significance. There are a significant number of people here (the blogs and the site) who would not agree with those statements, read their profiles and writings. Are you saying no significant relationship can come from this site? Most meet-ups and hook-ups individuals have from this site typically will not lead to anything significant for most people merely because of the nature of the site.
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I guess you would have to have an interest in sex to be here and it would seem natural that sex would form part of a relationship. What you mean by relationship might vary from person to person though.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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I would say it does play a big part being on this site or you would have just been on FB if it didn't matter. hugssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Well, you might be running into the wrong women my friend,who are not honest and have a hidden agenda,or your not conveying what you seek. Its a jungle out here,and exhausting playing the ninja role,that's why I gave up! I'm here to blog,and make friends,that's my real passion now,and if I get some dick along the way, great! But my focus has always,and always will be, tuning myself!! She was not up front and her reason for contacting me again after 5 months of silence became clear after asking her a number of questions which she dodged. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Who's to say I can't have both??? Is there a limit on what people want or crave on this site? Its a site that some pay for,and why not get what ever you want out of it? People are here for different reasons, and its their choice on what those reasons are,and hopefully for sex! Relationships?? Hmmm..AGAIN..people have different opinions about relationships mean to them.... people have different opinions about relationships mean to them True, but many ignore or twist what the definition is, which makes communication about them difficult. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Here it's more open, on other Vanilla sites, t's there, but just not on the surface. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Well said BL and yes I wasn't asking whether the 'relationship' is of significance. I was asking whether a person's presence on this site indicates that sex is a significant part of their relationship with anyone they meet here. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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"Relationship" then becomes a very vague word. A real disappointment for communication. Obviously this is a word in dire need of a defining adjective. No relationship of any significance is created only due to just having sex. This is usually described has "Dating". Some preface it with the adjective "Causal", but it means the same thing. "Casual relationship" , that would be "Dating". Only because people meet and have sex doesn't and won't always create a relationship of any significance. We say "Thank you" to a taxi drive and exit the cab, then a relationship with the driver was formed for driving you somewhere, albeit insignificant. Likewise, you meet and hookup with a woman from here. The relationship of having sex [dating] was also insignificant, because you and the other person are on this site for the purpose of receiving sex. "Sex" is the only reason for the insignificant relationship [aka: date]. Per Dictionary dot com, Relationship: noun – a connection, association or involvement. Yes it is a pretty general term/definition so IMO they need to be further defined when written about. Especially the way people here use/abuse it in a number of ways. No relationship of any significance is created only due to just having sex. And Only because people meet and have sex doesn't and won't always create a relationship of any significance. There are a significant number of people here (the blogs and the site) who would not agree with those statements, read their profiles and writings. Are you saying no significant relationship can come from this site? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I used to think that sex was very significant here but my views have changed slightly, especially regarding the blogging aspect.
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Here it's more open, on other Vanilla sites, t's there, but just not on the surface.
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I can't imagine anybody on this site or it's associated sites that didn't see sex as an important part of their relationship or should I say their desired relationship. Vive La Difference
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I agree that it isn't necessarily the top priority. And yes why be on a sex site if it isn't important in some way. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Some people don't seem to get that or what the word relationship means. Hummm Could there be a post there  is it like FWB??? BF/GF type thingy??? long term???
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Yes, I would assume that sex is a key component in a relationship for them. It needs to be a vital part of the equation but not the sole positive element.
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It's that it's a forum for an open discussion on every aspect pertaining to sex, romance and intimacy.I am sure there are burgeoning relationships and just encounters.Yes I think or assume that sex is a significant part of others relationships. Using more than all the road!
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"Relationship" then becomes a very vague word. A real disappointment for communication. Obviously this is a word in dire need of a defining adjective. No relationship of any significance is created only due to just having sex. This is usually described has "Dating". Some preface it with the adjective "Causal", but it means the same thing. "Casual relationship" , that would be "Dating". Only because people meet and have sex doesn't and won't always create a relationship of any significance. We say "Thank you" to a taxi drive and exit the cab, then a relationship with the driver was formed for driving you somewhere, albeit insignificant. Likewise, you meet and hookup with a woman from here. The relationship of having sex [dating] was also insignificant, because you and the other person are on this site for the purpose of receiving sex. "Sex" is the only reason for the insignificant relationship [aka: date].
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Yes, I would assume that sex is a key component in a relationship for them. It needs to be a vital part of the equation but not the sole positive element.
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