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Your Partner's History  

fun4usin313 48M/48F  
35 posts
8/13/2015 12:41 am
Your Partner's History

Do you enjoy hearing about your partner's past sexual encounters? Do you want to know, but don't enjoy it? Would you prefer to be in the dark? I don't mean questions regarding diseases, etc.,- I mean details about previous experiences- who, what. when, where, how, was it good or not? That sort of thing.
I want to know every detail & I love it!
I need to know, but I hate hearing it.
Just give me the basics, no details.
I don't want to know a thing!
Other- explain in the comments.


fun4usin313 48M/48F  
15 posts
8/13/2015 12:44 am

I enjoy hearing the details- it turns me on. I don't get jealous- he's with me now, that's what matters.


er2011rg 57M/57F
289 posts
8/13/2015 2:04 am

I have to agree with RQ, it varies . Dependent on how my friendship is built. I have had a lover where we did swap details , it did not effect me at all bc I knew exactly the perimeters of our friendship.

I would say most do not want to hear anything. Just leave it tucked away in a special place.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
8/13/2015 4:58 am

This is a tricky one. Some people do and some people don't. I've tried analyzing what makes one do and another don't, and I don't think there's a science to it (Of course, I'm sure there's some journal published about this...there's one for almost everything these days). Basically I've stopped wondering who does and who don't. It really doesn't matter to me.

Personally, I don't mind knowing. It's fun. I might learn something. Like what my partner likes, how he/she likes it and so forth. I think it's worth knowing.


Nancy106025 63F
110 posts
8/13/2015 10:12 pm

I love hearing about past experiences. It usually puts ideas in my head and I might learn something new. [3678723]


FudgePackerNW 69M
2 posts
8/15/2015 12:05 pm

Ditto to what Nancy says...


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