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Whats a deal breaker?  

Jamierain1000 53F
189 posts
1/18/2015 1:55 pm
Whats a deal breaker?

would you not continue a sexual relationship if your partner didnt 'perform oral or anal ? Is oral still good if your not a swallower? for me sex is different with everyone and I only do what Im comfortable with and with some I shock myself lol guess Im wondering if men wouldnt play if you arent into there kink. example some men dont eat pussy yet they wanna have a blow job? ONE SIDED SUCKS

DreamRycher 52M
83 posts
1/18/2015 2:22 pm

 Hmmm, that's a tough one. I've had women before who would give blow jobs, but wouldn't swallow. That didn't bother me, but I found it so much hotter & erotic for those that would! I remember the first time that happened, my mind was the second thing blown that day! lol.

I've always believed in open & honest communication of what we are & aren't comfortable with in the bedroom. I think it would be a deal breaker if limits where discussed and my partner still went ahead and did things I wasn't comfortable with.


demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
1/18/2015 2:22 pm

 Ohhhhh... I would have a HUGE problem if a partner was hypocritical and wanted oral but refused to give.

Dang. Yet one more thing to add to my list of things to ask before a relationship goes in that direction (though usually it's answered by the time we get to that point)


Jamierain1000 53F
45 posts
1/18/2015 2:41 pm

 i find its way hotter to be a pleaser and even hotter if you both are.


tboogie398 49M
387 posts
1/18/2015 2:59 pm

 A deal breaker is SO many things these days,..would I let a sexual kink decide whether or not i maintain a relationship,..no. but I'm only me and now "whoever" knows that persons reason for being in that particular relationship. which does suck i think,..to me "whoever" was just used as a sexual object.
Is my point valid,.. I dont know,..depends where your head's at when you read it


Jamierain1000 53F
45 posts
1/18/2015 6:04 pm

 Im sure we have all had one sided relationships however being a sex site I say get what you want from it.


burblesback07 42M
531 posts
1/18/2015 7:33 pm

 For me, there are no deal breakers in a short term sexual relationship but there would have to be oral, giving and receiving, if I were to consider a longer term relationship. Anal is always just an added bonus, a big one at that but I could go without !


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/1/2015 10:52 am

 Unfortunately it being a sex site you're going to get much more of what you don't like than what you do like.The work that that alone creates tends to make us forget what's important and give in.Good luck and stay safe!JB
Using more than all the road!


Jamierain1000 53F
45 posts
2/1/2015 12:44 pm

 thanks and yes I know and have been single for almost eight yrs. have seen alot of dislikes however been very lucky to attract the pleasers.


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