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I see your true colours shining through...  

Horny_Holly 43F
768 posts
7/27/2015 6:02 pm
I see your true colours shining through...

I always find it somewhat amusing when guys message me and think I can't see right through their BS. I think it's funnier when they can't keep track of their messages.

For the record the first message you see from this clown isn't actually his first. I don't recall when he sent the first one, but I know he sent the exact same message word for word to me before.

After every message he sends, he would immediately receive an auto-reply. This, along with my profile gives a very clear idea of what I'm looking for. The auto-reply is for those who claim to have read my profile, ignore my preferences, then go ahead and waste my time by messaging me anyway. And even then...still the messages come, as you can see from below.

People's true colours will always show in the end, as in this case with his last message before he blocked me, haha.



khassogi7#
Hello, how are you doing? Just came across your simple yet lovely profile and thought I should write to you as I liked what I read on your profile and feel we might share similar interests and will love to get to know you

About me: I’m a genuine black, very well–endowed, good looking gregarious guy from London with a wicked sense of humour, who is full of life, 5’11 (185cm) tall, university educated, work in finance, generous, a great listener, very polite and honest who loves to please, intelligent, ambitious, totally independent, mature and very single

I’m definitely no timewaster as can’t stand 1 myself, like to think myself as a gentleman and I’m very much interested in getting to know you more on your terms possibly when you are most comfortable over drinks and see what may transpire as I’m positive it will be fun. Please feel free to check my profile and videos if/when you can which I hope you will like and I’m happy to tell you more about myself should you be interested in taking this further

I don’t have facial or any other pictures on my profile due to personal and professional reasons but I’m happy to send you some via email should you request them (that is if my profile and message is of any interest to you)

Hope I haven't bored you to death with my long email lol; Looking forward to hear back from you even if you are not interested but I’m hoping that won’t be the case and maybe you’ll find what you are looking on this site and in your potential guy in me

Please do reply and kind regards

Romeo

PS: Do check out my video x

18/5/2015 8:36 am

khassogi7#
Hello again...

How you doing again? I sent a previous mail but can only guess you have been busy lol as I’m well aware of the huge amount of mails women receive on HotMatch.com due to the ratio of men to women which in my opinion is like 60:1 if not more and that’s heavily stacked in your favour lol.

I was hoping to hear back from you but never got back a reply but then again can only assume either you are not interested, don’t fit into your criteria or maybe you’ve just been busy to reply since we all have our busy lives and schedules to sort out outside this site and don’t always have the time to reply immediately.

I also understand you might be probably taking your time – as a woman here gets inundated with hundreds of messages a day, and I’m well aware very few are worth responding to, but I know from my own experience that it can reward patience because there are lively, intelligent, sensual people out there worth getting to know – like me lol.

I’m an easy going, down-to-earth, genuine guy and strongly believe I’m worth much more in person; it will be nice to get to know you more at your own terms over drinks or a meal and I will be most obliged to send you a face picture should you request one via email.

Looking forward to your reply even you’re not interested or don’t fit into your criteria for any reason which I’ll totally understand and respect it although I do hope that won’t be the case.

Kind regards and please do reply

Romeo

21/5/2015 5:54 am

khassogi7#
Hi

Accept my sincere apologies to have bothered you in the 1st place and in hindsight now feel maybe I shouldn’t, because with all the mails I sent so far which I got notifications you have all read, guess its best to now assume you are/were never interested but if you weren’t which is cool with me, would have been nice to at least replied telling me so given I did put time and effort into writing to you in great detail a few times (not that you had too )

No worries, I now get the memo lol, will let you be now and leave you alone, really hope you find what you looking for but you really didn't have to ignore every single one of my emails

Kind regards and all the best

Romeo
28/7/2015 12:49 am

Me
You have now had three auto-replies from me which very clearly states IF I am interested in you I will get back to you. I did not reply to you because I'm not interested in you.

The fact that you clearly ignored that part of my auto-reply is very much your own problem, not mine.

So although you appear to enjoy the role of "woe is me..I'm a victim", it simply does not wash with me.

Furthermore, contrary to what you state in your message, you are a time waster, as I state very clearly in my profile and auto reply that I am only interested in white, local guys with face pics. You are neither white, local, nor have any face pictures.

So do not preach to me about what I should or shouldn't do, when, in fact, it is you who is the time waster.

You're an attention-seeking time waster, and now you have your reply. I trust that will be the end of your ridiculous communications.


28/7/2015 1:21 am


khassogi7#
Piuss off...How come it took you bloody 3 moonths to reply...Unlike you I do have a life outside HotMatch.com and ot on here everyday and hide behind a computer to get compliments from men.

You should have replied, funny how you decided to reply now when I sent you that last message...a reply - romeo, not interested wont have been nice

Me; attention seeker, you wish !!!Now jog on....Your backward thinking beats me and wonder why I am even replying

Goodfornothingtimewaster
28/7/2015 1:25 am

His final reply is hilarious. "Unlike you I do have a life outside HotMatch.com...". Hmm, yet it's not me messaging you over and over again

"You should have replied"...ehm, I did, via auto-reply.

"Me; attention seeker, you wish...jog on....backward thinking...blah blah", say what, now? I wish you were an attention seeker? Sure, that makes sense to no one else but you, d'oh Jog on? From where? You're the idiot contacting me. Backward thinking? Yeah, I think he just pulled that one out of his ass for good measure. His claim to being "very polite" didn't last long, but I suspect his claim of being "very single", will.

"Goodfornothingtimewaster". Well, one can only assume he was looking in the mirror as he typed that.

Honest to God, you cannot make this stuff up

Have a wonderful week






"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


BrockmanBites 37M
89 posts
7/29/2015 6:46 pm

Romeo??? lmfao In his dreams

While I can understand people not posting face pics due to "professional" reasons, "personal reasons" probably means he's married and his wife doesn't know that "Romeo" is not only failing in his marriage but also online!!

He's a dickhead who was determined to get his own way and still failed


Horny_Holly replies on 7/31/2015 7:07 am:
Haha, I know, right

Yeah, I thought he was very cagey about giving out a face pic

Agreed!

PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
7/28/2015 6:16 pm

I feel so cheated, he didn't message me wtf is up with that???

Another asshole who treats women like they're fucking idiots then gets abusive when they're revealed for the idiots they are, smh.

I love that you always keep your composure when replying to these fuckwits cuz I know I couldn't LOL

Thanks for sharing!!


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 3:23 pm:
He's not hard to find if you ever get desperate, Polly

Haha, well, I've noticed that staying polite makes them even angrier. I'm not sure why that is

Always!


comingtogetya4me 54M
165 posts
7/28/2015 2:07 pm

Car crash messaging...................love it

No face pics probably means he's a big fat fake.

You really need to choose your suitors better Holly


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 2:46 pm:
I knew you would!

Yeah, he's basically trying to make himself feel good by insisting women ask him for pics, even though they've already told him "No pics, no reply!"

Hahaha, I know, I know!

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/28/2015 5:53 am

    Quoting bisarahsmiles:
    LOL What a tosser!!

    His messages are full of holes; IE trying to sound as if he's intelligent but if you read closely he probably failed basic high school English let along being university educated.

    What happened to him understanding and respecting if you don't like him

    He should have just manned up to being busted and rode off into the sunset on the number 47 bus on his way to his job at the local supermarket.

    Romeo? Sounds more like Juliet with a bad case of PMT
Romeo? Sounds more like Juliet with a bad case of PMT



I'm so glad I didn't say that

I feel sorry for Romeo, can't be easy with a name like that...

"Hi, I'm Romeo"

"Yeah... just fuck off"


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 2:45 pm:
Hahaha, that's exactly what I said when I saw his name

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
7/28/2015 5:04 am

LOL What a tosser!!

His messages are full of holes; IE trying to sound as if he's intelligent but if you read closely he probably failed basic high school English let along being university educated.

What happened to him understanding and respecting if you don't like him

He should have just manned up to being busted and rode off into the sunset on the number 47 bus on his way to his job at the local supermarket.

Romeo? Sounds more like Juliet with a bad case of PMT


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 2:37 pm:
Hahaha, I doubt even Juliet would be that whiny and bitchy!

Yeah, his effort to "sound" intelligent was wasted on me If he attended university I'm FullOn4U's next conquest


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/28/2015 1:44 am

Given that he obviously spams his initial email out to women, I wonder how many times he follows up with his template "Hello again" email, and then follow that up with his charming "I get the memo but you didn't have to ignore me" whine.

If he really did get the memo then he might understand why you ignored him


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 2:14 pm:
He should be made to eat Spam!

Oh, I'm sure everyone gets the same whiny-ass-boo-hoo you don't want me boring reply

Hahaha, I know, his stupidity really knows no bounds

DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
7/27/2015 9:08 pm

Fuckers like this make it impossible for the rest of us.


Horny_Holly replies on 7/29/2015 2:05 pm:
Fuckers like that just make me want to punch someone. Preferably them.

_Pauline_ 43F
85 posts
7/27/2015 6:46 pm

He doesn't address you by name at any point due to the fact his messages are copied and pasted and sent to who knows how many women on the site. Myself included, which is odd considering I'm married and not here to meet anyone. I blocked him because it was obvious he hadn't read my profile and was just another idiot who can't/won't/refuses to read or thinks women will fall for his nonsense.

Classic passive aggressive, IMO.

Like you, I believe they all show their true colours in the end, just as in this case


Horny_Holly replies on 7/27/2015 7:12 pm:
Ha, oh, I knew right away it was copied and pasted, it's so obvious. And I agree about his passive-agressive behaviour. It's there in every message he sent trying to sound like such a nice guy.

Yes, I believe so! Thanks for commenting

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