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Re: Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles  

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/3/2016 9:16 am

    Quoting cedarman55:
    Got my vote,,keep the perverts away.......................
What perverts? I don't understand your comment. It's vague.

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/4/2016 7:13 pm

Guys I am back, no worries, things will be Ok. nothing to worry about. Thank you for your concerns.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/4/2016 7:21 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Guys I am back, no worries, things will be Ok. nothing to worry about. Thank you for your concerns.
I know. But we were mad. What happened was wrong! And there is still lingering carping and bitching about it, as if it were THEY and not you who was mistreated.

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/4/2016 7:33 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I know. But we were mad. What happened was wrong! And there is still lingering carping and bitching about it, as if it were THEY and not you who was mistreated.
Yes, I seen that. is Ok, they turn will come


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/4/2016 7:34 pm

Meant their turn will come. Not they. sorry about that.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/4/2016 7:55 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Meant their turn will come. Not they. sorry about that.
I understood you, Thalia. We might have to help that turn come. That kind of harassment can't be tolerated.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/4/2016 9:41 pm

    Quoting  :

Are we in Wonderland, Missy? It gets curiouser and curiouser.

NOW she's all politically correct, and the best friend the transgendered ever had? Fuck me runnin'!

Well....she IS a delicate flower with a sick pussy. Maybe the infection has spread.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/4/2016 9:44 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree with you, Missy. This is far from over.

(For some reason my responses to comments here are disappearing. I responded to this comment by you earlier.)

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/6/2016 11:44 am

    Quoting 80SROCKR:
    The real truth here is not who the top blogger is (the top two currently being real women), but what the top blogger was pretending to be. This person is no longer the top blogger because the lie has been exposed. If this person were truthful they would still be the top blogger or would have never been the top blogger.
Sure


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 12:24 pm

    Quoting FireVixen2015:
    Glad I live in the UK. We're miles ahead and shame on these Un-United States.
    We also have advanced Hate Crime laws in place. But then again our Health Care is free for Trans and everyone else.
It's shameful what conservative politics has brought us to.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 12:27 pm

    Quoting  :

It blows many of our minds too, Missy. It's no surprise to anyone that there are hateful bigots here- there are hateful bigots everywhere. What's really shocking is that they've managed to acquire such political clout in the United States.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 12:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Unfortunately the bigots and busybodies are doing a fairly effective job of shouting down tolerance lately. They won't win in the end, but these are scary times.

The troll with a big ass has no principles and therefore no shame. That seems to me to mirror the conservative demagogues who are only looking to win at any price. Look what it's brought us to- Donald J. Trump as the fascist candidate for president of a major political party. You might not be a bigot if you're a Republican, but if you're a bigot you're probably a Republican.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 12:41 pm

    Quoting 80SROCKR:
    The real truth here is not who the top blogger is (the top two currently being real women), but what the top blogger was pretending to be. This person is no longer the top blogger because the lie has been exposed. If this person were truthful they would still be the top blogger or would have never been the top blogger.
Why has it been so difficult for you to get it through your head that there was no pretense by nicelipss? She is, as I stated in my post, honest about who and what she is. The pretense was perpetrated by a jealous former top blogger who will manufacture any slander to try to get back the position she once had. That blogger is no more than a troll. She knows she can't win on her own merits so she trashes and bullies other women to drive them away.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/6/2016 3:32 pm

    Quoting  :

I was impressed with Thalia's restraint too. i suspect he's determined to see it only one way.

And to answer you, yeah I figure he really does think Sour Puss is interested in him. The site sells fantasy and some guys are buying.

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anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/7/2016 1:19 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Resident,

Happy Weekend to you too. I am doing great & enjoying the Rio Games on tv. I spotted the new " blog " and the second one done in her " honour " and made sure to report both. The moment Nice returned here these new so called " blogs " were posted. Obviously she is doing this because Nice came back. What I will never understand in this horrible mess she created..why not just sit back, post her pix to her fans / members and enjoy being popular among her own little group ? Why get so jealous because another woman is popular ? Shouldn't she just be happy that ALL women on the site are receiving their share of popularity including herself ? As a Life long Blogger, I embrace all blogs and cheer for everyone who is writing , sharing ideas, words, concerns, fun and what ever photo they choose to share. I'd rather be in a group of like minded folks then feel the need to be Number 1 & always above others and afraid of other REAL women who have a right to post and share as much as she does. Nothing sadder then a woman who can not take other women being popular & enjoy seeing beautiful , smart women taking their turn in the spotlight. Happy Sun, Ana6

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/7/2016 6:46 am

What's with the She Troll starting a fan club photo shoot with T girls- have any of you read her new idea. Come on people she needs to disappear. I cannot stand hypocrites!!!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/7/2016 8:00 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    What's with the She Troll starting a fan club photo shoot with T girls- have any of you read her new idea. Come on people she needs to disappear. I cannot stand hypocrites!!!
That post was intentionally insulting. It's her way of telling her critics to go fuck themselves.

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/7/2016 9:09 am

    Quoting  :

I understand what you are saying but NO honey, Don't think about leaving or closing your HNW group. that will not help. Things will get in a positive side around here. It does hurt to be seen that way or to read those things. But things will be Ok. Eventually the source of those comments will run out one way or another. No storm last forever. the sun will shine eventually. There are some good people in HotMatch.com. People that work here and Members. You are one of them. We already lost enough all these past 5 months. we don't want to lose you. Things will get taking care off and everything will go back to normal. You bring a lot to the site and to us members. Stayed with us


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/7/2016 9:45 am

    Quoting  :

You have consistently stood up for women being harassed and abused in the blogs, Missy. Don't give up. I'm disgusted too, and that's exactly the response the trolls are looking for. This isn't a dispute that will ever be finished. There's a kind of nihilism in their behavior that denies any good in any of us. They repeatedly insult our intelligence as a way of asserting that we don't have any. Keep doing what you do- you're an example to others, and you have a great deal of influence.

Bloggers like those two think that everyone is essentially the same as they are- that we're all self centered and wantonly cruel, and they've convinced themselves that they're just doing this for laughs. The way to win at this is to be yourself, because you're better than that.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/7/2016 9:49 am

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    I understand what you are saying but NO honey, Don't think about leaving or closing your HNW group. that will not help. Things will get in a positive side around here. It does hurt to be seen that way or to read those things. But things will be Ok. Eventually the source of those comments will run out one way or another. No storm last forever. the sun will shine eventually. There are some good people in HotMatch.com. People that work here and Members. You are one of them. We already lost enough all these past 5 months. we don't want to lose you. Things will get taking care off and everything will go back to normal. You bring a lot to the site and to us members. Stayed with us
Thalia, you're exactly right. It's ugly right now because ugliness is what those two do- it's a specialty of theirs. Bloggers like Missy, and like you, are what makes the place worthwhile. There are indeed some very good people here, and we can outlast the trolls.

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/7/2016 12:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Good for you Missy. I know it is frustrating. especially cause we all have to share this same space. I do know what you are saying. I felt that way many times before. but never let it get you down. you should stay standing like nothing is hitting you. Enjoy your time here with people that you like and that like you in return. Your friends. That is the best protection. I know that is how I was able to make it. cause all of you. I saw and felt all the love instead of the hate. I am actually working on a few new projects now, you guys will be so proud and surprised once I share all that with you. time will come. is all good things that came out of all those attacks. I even got a job offer haha, who would of tho, that is how we should work, to make out of negative things something positive. it is hard but possible. we just have to learn how and not lose sigh of who we are through the whole chaos or process.

Scott's blog, is that the one with the cat, or another posts, what blog is that, have a link?


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/7/2016 2:03 pm

    Quoting nicelipss66:
    Good for you Missy. I know it is frustrating. especially cause we all have to share this same space. I do know what you are saying. I felt that way many times before. but never let it get you down. you should stay standing like nothing is hitting you. Enjoy your time here with people that you like and that like you in return. Your friends. That is the best protection. I know that is how I was able to make it. cause all of you. I saw and felt all the love instead of the hate. I am actually working on a few new projects now, you guys will be so proud and surprised once I share all that with you. time will come. is all good things that came out of all those attacks. I even got a job offer haha, who would of tho, that is how we should work, to make out of negative things something positive. it is hard but possible. we just have to learn how and not lose sigh of who we are through the whole chaos or process.

    Scott's blog, is that the one with the cat, or another posts, what blog is that, have a link?
Didn't I say you have a spectacular attitude? Didn't I, huh? There are gonna be bad days and that's not our fault. You just hold your head up and keep on being you. That's why you're so well liked here.

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nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
8/7/2016 2:11 pm

Never mind, I saw the post in question. no need to say more.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
8/7/2016 5:50 pm

    Quoting  :

Missy has been saying that all long. Like, now we're going to make pets out the transgendered? Missy's outrage is well placed. That contest is supposed to demonstrate that all those "T" people just love Bully McBullshit.....and she loves "them". In fact it was just meant to be irritating. This is what passes for blogging in their world.

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anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/7/2016 10:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Hello RB,

I can not call you the B word when you are no where near the description of that word. I ask myself all the time, with everything this site has gone through over the yrs..the sale to P House, then Andrew coming back and now this. The one thing all members should do is treat each other with respect and tolerance. This is an adult site after all and not Kindergarten or Jr High popularity contest. I have watched the site lose wonderful members, male and female who just left or were bullied & abused into leaving. I keep seeing messages from men all over the site..."WHERE are the real women / people at ? " Instead of sitting on top of an empty blogging throne, she should be encouraging REAL people to stay, to be respectful and tolerant of ALL members or she will be soon be all alone on that empty throne sitting on her blogs with no one to look at her or soothe the fragile ego.. Yes, also noticed the other blog making fun of the LBGTQ community by one of her " men ." At least the site can now see what these abusive members are up to and put a stop to it. Olympics are awesome & am enjoying it all Happy Mon , Ana6

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He made me pretty
He made me smart


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