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Is not responding rude?
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Is not responding rude? |
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Well, at least your response helps us to understand how our society has gotten so rude. But we still know a lot of people who would not hesitate to punch out anyone rude enough to ignore them when they speak to them.
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Rude is rude, and no amount of excusing it makes it less so. Actually ignoring it compounds the rudeness. If you believe the message is rude (and it too often is), a simple reply of "no," or "not interested," or even a "too crude," is better than no reply and takes little effort. By ignoring the message you sink to the level of the sender. If a second message is sent, and is also rude it is time then to ignore. Any time there is a polite respectful inquiry, it deserves a polite respectful, even if short, reply. To ignore it is rude, conventional wisdom or no conventional wisdom!. RUDE is Rude, and it is hard to hide.
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We do understand what you mean. Even though all contacts will get some response. Even, crude one liners, which most likely get an explanation why we and most others find those kind of messages offensive, in the hope that we can even in some small way make the lifestyle better for all. And as we have pointed out before, we did specify polite contacts. Which we think also implies that at least some thought went into the contact.
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Beachbutterfly - There can be all kinds of reasons not to respond, but rude is rude no matter the justification. Plus, wouldn't it be better to tell them what the problem is in the hope that they will learn and at the very least not offend others the way they did you. Oh and on the subject of straight but looking for women, the Mrs is straight(has absolutely no interest in girl/girl play), but a 3some were the Mr pleases both the women is great fun.
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We selected "It is kind of rude, but it's online so who cares." because it was the closest answer to what we think. Our Answer would have been "Of coures it's rude but it's online so you have to expect a few rude people". Overall we have found most members of HotMatch.com to be respectful.
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It depends on multiple things Polite emails from Couples we always reply to .... UNLESS its obvious they did not read our profile to know we are probably NOT a match ... i.e. our ages and body types are in our profile ... but in Their Profile they state 30-50 or Attractive & Fit ... ergo we are NOT a match One Liners from Single males under 40 are ALWAYS Ignored .. they are like puppies ... if you respond ... they pester you to Explain ... if Ignoring does not work -- then they get BLOCKED This may seem Rude to some ... but Punching someone for Ignoring you is actually a Crime Any day your NOT in JAIL ... is a Good Day   
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1 post 11/6/2020 1:14 pm |
Why would a strong response become rude because we are all on this site for one thing and thats sex if you want a new husband then sign up to a different site I get flirts all the time but no response to anything and I open with just saying hello. just one word so I say go fuck off if you get a bad response
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If your not interested, a simple "Thank you, but not interested" only takes a few seconds to send. But yes, always reply if a message is sent.
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