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normalisoktoo 54M

7/31/2014 1:23 pm

Good question! Just wait until THEY hit their 40s


babytoy2000 60M/58F

7/31/2014 1:40 pm

Not true ! I have always been with older guys !! When I was younger , the younger ones I didn't want to be with and same now !!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/31/2014 1:42 pm

Well let me enlighten them on this subject lmao..Men in their forties have awesome sex drives not to mention skillz..so in saying that..do a forty something man ladies..I guarantee you will be pleased!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
7/31/2014 1:47 pm

I think it has something to do with life expectancy. And, what stage of life people are in. I'm not interested in raising more stepchildren or in men who have to work another 20 years before they can retire because their stage of life doesn't match mine.

There are some men here on this website who are in their 50's that are truly drool-worthy! The same can be said of many men in their early 60's.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
7/31/2014 2:12 pm

I think most women on this site are not interested in one night stands. I don't want to ever get married again but I'd sure like to find a man for a LTR-FWB arrangement.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


KatjaRose 52F
801 posts
7/31/2014 2:39 pm

I actually don't think there's a blanket statement for any age group. MY situation: My partner is 14 years my junior.... and cannot keep up with me. Sadly, once he's come, he's mainly done. He can stay hard for a while longer, but forget actually cumming a second time. I do have to admit that I have been with more guys my age or older who DO have stamina, and can go multiple times. I am simply a believer in " it completely depends upon the person, not the age."

I do wish I was more attracted to guys closer my age tho...

Legally, it's questionable. Morally, disgusting. Personally... I like it.

Your body may be a temple, but mine is a playground.

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roxy54sexy 61F
8914 posts
7/31/2014 3:35 pm

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08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
7/31/2014 7:24 pm

Don't know the general rule. But for my wife being over 30 was a catastrophic event. She nearly had a nervous breakdown and we nearly got divorced. The trigger for it all, some decent man in his thirties who held the door opened for her when she waked in with our kids. he made some comment about cute kids and ended the conversation with the god awful curse"yes maam"(sarcasm off)

Why did he called me maam?, Do I look old? I am fat, that is what, is making me look old. You are lying. You are just saying that to make me feel better, I AM FAT and I LOOK OLD!!! (she looked great, had 2 kids and was between size 12 or14 depending on the designer) etc. etc. Now that she is 42, finished her Ph.D and a size 6 and have tons of 20 something sending ridiculous amount of want to fuck email, she is happy as she can be. Self esteem issues. Still need the attention from them

It is not the lie that we tell others that fuck our lives up, it is the lies that we tell ourselves, and erroneous beliefs that we hold dear, that destroys us. Now I can laugh about it, It was pure hell for a couple of years,

I came here 10 years ago to learn what the fuck did she want. I asked the women here. Big mistake. The insanity. They made my nutty wife look normal. 100 pounds over weight causing them diabetes, high blood pressure, knee problems, mood swings, drinks, smokes, take drugs and is married / separated looking for a single man who is part George Clooney and part Robin Williams. On the blog a picture of their ass with the question "is my ass too big?" and hundred guys saying of course not When some fool actually sends a want to fuck email with a cock picture. BOOM. The clique goes postal

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


Violette001 51F
4619 posts
7/31/2014 8:20 pm

It totally depends. on how good the man looks! no... really, it's all very superficial. There are men in their 40s and 50s who take such good care of themselves that they could put a 20 yr old to shame. guess who i'd be more attracted to?!

that said, i've never felt attracted to a 20 yr old... too young. older is better. unless they haven't taken care of themselves and/or are too serious. serious is a bad thing. i've met younger people who make me feel like i'm frivolous... but i do take things seriously. some things.

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/31/2014 10:00 pm

well...i would never thought of the men in 40s and over, when i was in my 30s...but now??? heck...i think i can even fuck 60s and 70s, if they are in shape...


WantAFuck2Day 53F
1051 posts
8/1/2014 5:20 am

For me, it has everything to do with owning up to my age. I've changed my age range but it was still around 10 years older than me. I'm not looking for another father My tastes have changed also. Its not all about sex anymore. Guys younger than I don't get that. They just wanna know when I can fuck. I'm perfectly happy with my choice who happens to be 11 years older than I (and this is his biggest age gap relationship he's been in)


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
8/1/2014 7:02 am

I have zero interest in a 20yr old even a 30 yr old. Do you remember what you were like and what your interests were at that age? Being where you are now, would that really be something you were interested in? Yet then again, I want more than just sex.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/1/2014 9:30 am

For me it has always been older.. Now I am older I am thinking around my age or older.. There are some sexy 45 years old that would interest a 55 year old women.. Never count that group out.. hugsssssssssss V

Under 40 no way..

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hfbrowneyegirl 53F
217 posts
8/1/2014 12:34 pm

I try to stick with my rule of no one under 25 or over 55. At least right now. I just turned 44 so as I get older, those numbers change too. You are a good looking guy, so finding a playmate shouldn't be too difficult


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
8/2/2014 6:55 am

I find that the older I get, the closer to my age my "likes" are.... When I was in my 20s, I found some men in their 40s-early 50s attractive. In my 30s, I thought the 40-somethings were still hot. Now that I'm in the second half of my 40s, I'm not finding many late 50s and up attractive at all. Maybe it's the personality, it's like the curmudgeon switch gets flipped towards the end of the 5th decade! Maybe eventually, I'll start going the other way and by the time I'm 70 I'll be trolling the college bars!!!


itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
8/5/2014 5:10 pm

I prefer guys at least a few years older than me. My main thing with a guy 40 or over is I usually am not attracted to them. But I'm always willing to be open minded. However, the age gap also gets big enough that it becomes creepy and we have nothing in common.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


rm_LUVseeingRED 55M
2 posts
8/5/2014 7:09 pm

I was on a normal dating site for over a year and it was really obvious the decade 40 or 50 is a real barrier for some gals. They could live a block away and have everything in common with you, but they would not reply for anything.

Personally I joined here because all I ever read in dating websites was the women complaining in their profiles that "all men wanted was sex." Of course we do, but we don't want to be with anyone who does not...ever. >>!

So back to the age difference, my last ex was 13 years younger. I have learned it is not the age difference, but the ability to match each other in staying healthy, stamina and keeping yourselves fit enough to remain attractive to each other. I recently met a gal my age who is in extremely great physical shape and I am definitely attracted, I'm even worried I'm not as fit as she is. So I continue to work out to attain a tighter body. happym;

As far as my age range in the context of the article, I'd consider any beautiful gal for fun if they were in shape 30-55. Long Term Relationship...I don't know anymore...lightening has to strike. I tend to agree 5 years plus or minus so there would be a minimal generation gap. I'm very open-minded, I like learning from people...who knows everything?

Better Red than Dead


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
8/6/2014 2:11 pm

That wasn't true for me. When I was in my 30's I was open to dating men who were 10 years older and up. In my 20's, I dated men much older. My cut-off was that they couldn't be older than my mom - so it was 21 years - and I did date/sleep with a man who was 21 years older.

Now that I am 44, dating/having sex with a man 10 years older is not as appealing. I found that men my own age are overwhelmingly having "performance" problems after I hit my sexual peak, bot out a ladder, and kept climbing.

Plus, I'm finding that the vast majority of men MY age already LOOK 10 years older - and ACT 10 years older - AND have the health problems of men 10 years older. I'd be playing tennis, and some guy would join the quad - I'm thinking he's in his mid to late fifties, he's in shape but bald and very weathered looking - and it turned out we graduated from high school the same year!

Sexually and energy-wise, the 10 year age difference between Doc and I works well. We actually have the same degree of stamina, sleep the same amount, enjoy sex at the same pace.


natatachub 58F
157 posts
8/7/2014 6:36 pm

Great comments...Gods honest truth when a 28 year old wants to spend time getting to know me in the biblical sense- I always have the niggling suspicioin that he made a bet with his friends to see..well you know....And yes it can be a "slam bam maybe I will text you maam....

When I try to meet with say a 52 year old on here- he spends dinner (after I drove four hours to Colorado Springs from Steamboat) telling me how he is dedicated to his career, kids, and supporting his ex so she can raise his kids, and therefore, rarely, if ever meets HotMatch.com people, but is happy to buy me dinner after which I am expected to return to my own hotel- another hours drive to Denver late at night ... I give up....


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